SO i have a massive rant...

florabundance

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woah rude - you should just be happy in the fact that you were kind enough to lend someone that you barely know your shit with no attitude or question. That's a mark of a respectable decent person. To get an insult instead of a "thanks" in return is just jealousy.

The only downside now is that you'll have to deal with her cos its your friends girl and whatnot....if she asks for anything again, just be like "you're so much more beautiful and secure with yourself than me, so you dont need my stuff"
 

GlossyAbby

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sounds like someone is insecure herself and jealous or threatened by you..... When I go out I only carry lipstick and gloss or one or the other....but thats just because I dont like a lot with me to carry around...that is nice of you to let her use your make up I would have said no. haha
 

Zoffe

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I've had similar experiences but never with someone *that* rude! People often ask me why I care about makeup that much and carry so much with me all the time but they usually seem understanding when I explain it's more like a hobby and def. not 'cus I'm insecure without it or something like that
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It was so nice of you to let her borrow your makeup! People like her are the reason I rarely let people borrow makeup
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glam8babe

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it sounds like SHES the insecure one
i dont even bother taking blush out.. but some of my friends do and i dont see what the problem is? if you wana have a lil touch up during the night then go for it! especially if you get all hot n sweaty after dancing about in the hot nightclubs.. you need to touch at least something up so you look 'refreshed' but knowin me i'd probs drop my blush all over the floor if i took mine out lol so i only take lip products out n sometimes an eyeliner

dont worry about it... to be honest why would she call you insecure if shes the one asking you to lend her all ur makeup? if shes so 'au natural' then why does she feel the need to wear makeup AND touch up more than once

some people are just really pathetic
 

fafinette21

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wow! what a jerk. i def would not have lended her my stuff lol. shes "given up on makeup"?? more like shes given up any hope of being intelligent enough to apply it properly. chances are it ain't making her any prettier and shes probably mad jealous of you!
 

Carlyx

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What a snidey remark!! I always take abit of makeup out with me, when I've been dancing and had too much to drink I look abit of a mess so I have to make myself look abit better aha
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Any decent modelling agency won't ask for money for pictures to be taken btw.

And you was very calm in this situation because if she said that to me, she would've had a hand mark around her face
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Kalico

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She's not au naturelle, she just doesn't know how to apply make-up. What a twit. I HATE people like that.
 

Girl about town

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She sounds jealous of your stash and you!! she can't stand people having better things than her so puts them down , i used to have a friend like that who would tell me things looked shit, when other people said it looked amazing!! x
 

drenewt

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I once had a guy friend ask me if I felt insecure and needed to wear make up. I told him "NO way!" Make up is an art form and I LOVE creating art on my face every morning!
 

ms.marymac

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You should have said, "Let me do your makeup for you!" and made her look like like a clown...mwa-ah-ah-ah. J/K....sort of.
 

vocaltest

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Originally Posted by ms.marymac
You should have said, "Let me do your makeup for you!" and made her look like like a clown...mwa-ah-ah-ah. J/K....sort of.

Hahaha I should have done!

Again, thank you for all your replies! I really appreciate it!

Update on the situation...

I'll tell you like... who they all are before it gets confusing. My best friends live together - Glen, Ryan, and another Ryan but we call him Musgrave (surname obviously!), and it is Ryan who is with the girl who called insecure.
Turns out I wasn't the only person she annoyed last night! When Ryan and Sophie got back in, she told Musgrave that Glen was 'kissing Leianne', Leianne being the two year long girlfriend of one of other best friends Dan! This OBVIOUSLY isn't true, so she had the cheek to stir things up between us all! So today, Glen and Musgrave tell Ryan how much of a d**k Sophie is, and Ryan tells Sophie about me being pissed off about her calling me 'insecure'. Glen was telling me all this on the phone and he says 'yeah they've gone out now to take sophie back to the train station, apparently sophies gonna call you to apologise', next thing i know, my phone is ringing and its Ryan calling, so I knew it would be her!
I didn't pick up, but she left me THE MOST INSINCERE voicemail you can imagine!! Imagine the most monotomous tone of voice saying 'hey caroline its sophie, heard i offended you last night i didn't think you would get upset about it sorry, see you soon bye'. PFFFTT. and to make things worse, Ryan phones me once she's gone and acts as if its not really a big deal and tries to defend her, and he said 'you can tell me if you're annoyed', so i said 'yeah i am actually, i don't appreciate someone who i barely know calling me insecure, i think she's a f'kn rude b***ch for that and for making that up about Glen and Leianne'. He was left pretty speechless, but I really don't care to be honest as harsh as it sounds, if my boyfriend had offended one of my supposed best friends then I'd be more than apologetic instead of defending them (I sound so angelic and almighty haha).

So yeah... I know I shouldn't have let her borrow my make up, but hey I had been drinking so I thought yeaaaah borrow it. But in hindsight, I really don't know how I didn't go mad at her at the time for saying it, usually when I'm drunk I can be so horrible and boistrous hahaha
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. ANOTHER thing that annoyed me was when Ryan phoned, he said 'why didn't you say anything at the time, sophie said if she was annoyed why didn't she say something', which made me feel stooooopid for not saying something and also angry that she obviously knew at the time it had annoyed me!

Anyway, that was kind of off topic, but at least he knows what we think of her now and she knows i now don't like her/rest of my friends don't like her.

In conclusion = she is the insecure one really, and I think i've learnt my lesson for lending her it. I could have said 'I don't share my make up', but meh, I was being nice for once and instead I get a snidey remark.

Like I said before though, she's going to do that 'Camp America' in a couple of weeks, so good riddance!! (sorry USA ladies hehehehe)
 

duckduck

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LOL, don't send her here - we have more than enough of those as is!! I totally understand letting her borrow the makeup though - especially after a few drinks! I get really happy & friendly when I'm drunk, so I definitely would have done the same, even if I didn't really like her much in real life. Either way, she sounds weird and mean, and I would definitely avoid her in the future if at all possible. No one needs that kind of attitude around!
 

breechan

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Don't share your makeup....ever! Then you'll never have that problem again. What a biyatch though, sheesh! Next time (if there is one), be sure to call her out.
 

KAIA

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Originally Posted by jenjunsan
(BTW, luckily, my new boyfriend thinks it is a sign that I take pride in myself that I take the time to make myself up even though he thinks I am pretty without makeup).

Awww That´s nice! my bf, says the same to me, he likes the fact that i wear make-up, because for him is like i TAKE CARE OF MYSELF , I TAKE AT LEAST 5 MINUTES TO LOOK GOOD, ´CAUSE I LOVE MYSELF, not because i have low self-esteem (sp?) or whatever.
 

sofabean

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dude, that is so effin rude of her. if she wants to go all au naturale then why is she asking to borrow so much make up?
 

pumpkincat210

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seriously pathetic!
She borrowed the lipstick twice. If you ever see her again I definatly wouldn't share makeup again.
For me its not about insecurity, its about being able to play with color and use my face as a canvas!
 

MissDeViousDiVa

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WHAT A BITCH!
Seriously, this made me mad cause I've been in a very similar situation and it feels nice to know other people have been there. I don't wanna hijack your thread with my own story, but let me tell you something so you know the position where your little friend Ryan could find himself eventually.

My cousin met his wife on a net dating site. She doesn't like the way I dress/the music I listen to/the music I make. She's also done and said other stuff that's made us all think she's really not all there. Anyways after loads of her bullshit and not saying anything "for the family's sake", one day I was watching a movie sitting next to my lil cousin and when I got up and left the room for a sec, she took my seat and didn't move my jacket and my (very big you can't miss it plus its studded) purse that was next to me. SO SHE SAT ON IT! Even though the rest of the couch was empty!

I flipped. I told her off in front of my entire family. My cousin of course sided with her but they were both really embarrassed and now he won't come to any get togethers if I'm there.

So Ryan might find himself equally embarrassed and if this bitch keeps starting problems with all his friends, he might also find himself quite friendless.

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Originally Posted by vocaltest
He was left pretty speechless, but I really don't care to be honest as harsh as it sounds, if my boyfriend had offended one of my supposed best friends then I'd be more than apologetic instead of defending them (I sound so angelic and almighty haha).

It's not even about being angelic haha, you know right from wrong. If I had a guy who was disrespectful to my family/friends, I'd feel disrespected myself and I wouldn't defend them at all.

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Originally Posted by vocaltest
ANOTHER thing that annoyed me was when Ryan phoned, he said 'why didn't you say anything at the time, sophie said if she was annoyed why didn't she say something', which made me feel stooooopid for not saying something and also angry that she obviously knew at the time it had annoyed me!

People said the same things to me after my cousin's wife insulted me the first time. Just because you don't say something back doesn't mean what she did was okay. It's not like you go out expecting to get insulted, I know I was shocked cause it's like wtf who has the guts to go and do something like that?

What's this "Camp America"? We've got enough crazies as it is!
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