Stupid Men!
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Briar
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Yah, some men never outgrew the "I think you're cute so I'm going to punch you in the arm and run away" phase.
Don't let them get you down, its none of their business. I'd probably say something like "and what would your wife say if I told her you'd noticed my chubby ass". 'Course, I'm a smartass so there ya go.
Originally Posted by SparklingWaves
Ok, I just saw your picture and it confirms what I thought. These guys have been eyeing you up. They are very attracted to you. Girl, they are liking the new curves. I had one tell me at a job that my back pockets were filling out. Then, I heard he wanted to hire me for his personal helper for a few hours a day. YIKES!! He would just come over to my job and stare. He gave me the creeps. You are driving these men nuts. They can't wait to see you at the store. |
Yah, some men never outgrew the "I think you're cute so I'm going to punch you in the arm and run away" phase.
Don't let them get you down, its none of their business. I'd probably say something like "and what would your wife say if I told her you'd noticed my chubby ass". 'Course, I'm a smartass so there ya go.
1165Cheryl
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At your height your weight is fine!!! I'm 5'6 and weight 144. At 5'9 your in the normal weight zone...people who say that kind of stuff dont know how much it hurts us even though it's not true. I gaind 20 pounds in 9 months due to a endoctrine disorder. I wish I could get back down to 130 but I have excepted that this is how I am for now. I have no control over this health issue. Even if it wasnt a health issue men have no idea...and they are looking for the stick thin model types, I'd rather have curves then be a tooth pick. Your beautiful the way you are.
| Originally Posted by clslvr6spd
UGH! I don't know if this would be the right area for this post...but here it goes! I know I am an attractive young woman, but I do have self esteem issues in the weight department. I am 5'9" and weigh 145lbs at the moment, I have gained 10lbs in the past couple months...anyways... I work in @ a tackle supply store and 98% of the customers are men and a lof of them are regulars. Anyways....last week one of the customers asked if I gained weight? I looked at him and just laughed it off...but earlier today I was getting something to drink and walked back to my register. On the way to my register another regular was standing at the counter and said "you're getting chubby aren't you?" 
I just don't understand the stupidy and the rudeness of fucking men sometimes! 
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At your height your weight is fine!!! I'm 5'6 and weight 144. At 5'9 your in the normal weight zone...people who say that kind of stuff dont know how much it hurts us even though it's not true. I gaind 20 pounds in 9 months due to a endoctrine disorder. I wish I could get back down to 130 but I have excepted that this is how I am for now. I have no control over this health issue. Even if it wasnt a health issue men have no idea...and they are looking for the stick thin model types, I'd rather have curves then be a tooth pick. Your beautiful the way you are.
dizzygoo82
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people feel the need to say stuff like that sometimes...unfortunately they are just ignorant and like to hear themselves talk!
and for the record...I wish i was 5'9!!! so you better stop it, girl!
and for the record...I wish i was 5'9!!! so you better stop it, girl!
STolEn_KisS
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omg that is so mean and rude. If I was you, I wouldn't be crying. I would've been PISSED OFF! You should've said something back to him like, "don't take it out on people just cuz you couldn't get it up last night." =) lol. You are not chubby, btw. 145 at 5'9''? You are are a healthy weight! If you were shorter, it would be different but at your height, you must look good. Don't worry about it.
luvsic
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Ok, I know all of the other girls have said this already but I'll say it again. You are EFFING GORGEOUS. It's probably a deal where the guy just got tongue-tied so the first thing that spurted out of his mouth was an insult. Believe it or not guys sometimes have this messed up mentality to insult a girl because they don't know how else to talk to them (they're probably intimidated by you.) It's like word vomit...they can't control what they're saying.
I also know that a lot of guys love to "tease" (even though that's a dumb/harsh way of doing it) a lot of guys do it to me all the time...and yes it gets annoying because I don't always like being played for as dumb. (They'll insult my intelligence or act kind of like aholes to me, then tell me they were "just playing") so if you're quick enough just think of a clever comeback. Most guys like that word banter challenge anyway
And you are not chubby. AT ALL. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
I also know that a lot of guys love to "tease" (even though that's a dumb/harsh way of doing it) a lot of guys do it to me all the time...and yes it gets annoying because I don't always like being played for as dumb. (They'll insult my intelligence or act kind of like aholes to me, then tell me they were "just playing") so if you're quick enough just think of a clever comeback. Most guys like that word banter challenge anyway
And you are not chubby. AT ALL. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
clslvr6spd
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Thanks everyone. All your words of encouragement have helped!
