Tila Tequila and her reality show A Shot at Love on MTV

[user79]

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BTW at glam8babe:

I'm not trying to offend you and people can do whatever you want in your life, but don't you think you're selling yourself a bit short by wanting to become like Jordan, or other women who are solely known by the size of their breast implants? Have you ever considered what kind of stereotypical image of women that spreads through the media? I for one feel that women don't need more plastic Barbie dolls plastered in every magazine. Sure, they may be rich and "successful" in marketing themselves, but I find it very degrading that these women have to sell themselves as brainless sex objects to make careers. There are worthier ambitions for intelligent women than solely using their body to get ahead.

 

[Shimmer]

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Originally Posted by glam8babe what do you mean you dont beleive in what these 'types' of girls do? shes not a porn star! shes a glamour model - and i want to be a glamour model. My idol is Katie price [aka Jordan] shes the biggest celeb in the UK [on the same level as Victoria Beckham] and i dont see whats so 'wrong' about modelling in sexy ways? i would never EVER do porn its just not what i would wanna get into but modelling for lingerie/swimwear and doing sexi fun shoots is considered as work. Yes ill have another job on the side but ive always wanted to be a model, i know i cant be a fashion model for like designers or anything because im not tall or skinny enough and i dont have the bone structure or anything but glamour modelling is for all shapes, sizes, everything [noo i wouldnt show my 'downstairs' because thats just abit too far IMO] but i dont see why people look down on girls who have a great body and like to show it off? I know Tila isnt the prettiest girl ever but she is beautiful i find her really attractive and she knows how to work the camera. And Holly is 'beautiful' but she has had a nose job and gets botox all the time so shes not necessarily natural [who cares about having fake boobs though - they look great on her] and i dont see whats wrong with Playboy either?! SERIOUSLY! its not some hardcore shit like what Jesse Jane does and Jenna jameson. If you actually watch the Girls of the Playboy mansion [Girls next door for you US girlies] you see on photoshoots the women/girls are absolutly incredibly beautiful, they have completely amazing bodies [like i said who cares if they have fake boobs or not], they have beautiful faces and they are in the magazine because of what they look like. I would LOVE to be in that magazine but i know theres millions of girls out there who are more beautiful. and Hugh Hefner isnt a bad person, hes very down to earth a loving friendly guy and i would love to meet him one day [uhh wouldnt ever sleep with him though thats gross!] but i just wanna put my point across that girls who have confidence with their bodies and know how to look sexy and amazing on camera are not any lower than people who are lets say.. lawyers. If i choose to do glamour then thats what im gonna do, i dont care whos gonna call me a slut because thats not the job. If i wanna be a doctor i could do that but i'd have to work extremely hard, if i wanna be a prostitute then i'd go ahead n do it! nobodies stopping anyone. the only thing i agree on is her music.. yeh its shit but who cares! if you dont like it then dont listen to it - i dont

Sweetheart, I've seen photos of high res images of all of her ladybits and then some.

She's not a glamour model.
She's a porn model.
There's a distinction.

 

[glam8babe]

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Originally Posted by Shimmer Sweetheart, I've seen photos of high res images of all of her ladybits and then some. She's not a glamour model. She's a porn model. There's a distinction.

uhh i didnt think she did like naked stuff? o well i still like her lol but not her music

 

[Shimmer]

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That's pretty naked.

 

[xIxSkyDancerxIx]

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Hmm.. Tila Tequila.. IMO she's a bit trashy to me. Yes, I respect that she's famous and all that and that she did it "all on her own." And yes, I think she has a hot body and a pretty good face. But other than that, there's nothing really special about her IMO.

IMO she's no glamour model. Why? Because I consider models to be people that are RESPECTED by both men AND women. I mean, it's not too hard to have some guy think you're "hot." (no offense) You don't even need a great body or face, just wear something shanky, show a lot of skin, and yay! You're now a model! IMO a real model is someone who can look/act/be classy and pull that into whatever it is that they're doing. It's like VS models. They're lingerie models, but there are a lot of women out there that appreciate and respect them as models. You don't have to look like a skank just to look sexy and/or sultry. Runway models where the skimpiest of clothing, but they don't look/act like Tila Tequila

What's really difficult is getting the respect and having women think that you're beautiful and what not. I mean, us women are a lot more critical than men are. I've been to car shows were guys are drooling over the import models and I'm just standing there thinking, "what's so great about her besides her huge boobs?"

Sure she's been in magazines, but notice they're all MEN'S magazines or those geared for men. Why not appear in those geared for women and maybe try covering yourself up a little bit? Probably because most women don't really think she's anything special.

Maybe she's not a porn model, but IMO she's pretty damn close to one. I don't think she would be so popular and famous if her myspace wasn't loaded with pictures of her half-naked in skimpy and provocative clothing/lingerie.

Not much of anything if your "fame" is based on the horny guys in the whole. LOL. I mean, no one really says anything about her intelligence, all they see is a "hot girl that makes out with other girls." Yah, that's the way I want to be remembered in life..

Her attitude is really immature too.. I don't know how old she is, but I thought she was a girl in high school. Her singing is pretty bad too. But hey who cares! She has tons of friends on myspace and she's been in men's magazines and she's a "model!"

 

[xIxSkyDancerxIx]

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uhh i didnt think she did like naked stuff? o well i still like her lol but not her music

How else would she get her fame? I know it's not for her music or her amazing intellect..

 

[CantAffordMAC]

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Originally Posted by xolovinyoo you shouldnt judge people. you dont even know her, psh i bet your trashy yourself. Ha or maybe your just jealous because she's got more friends than you. Lol.

lol...was that comment aimed towards me sweetheart? Everyone gets judged--thats life. I don't know her, and I don't want to...like I said she looks trashy and boring. I have absolutely no worries on myspace--the only reason I have a myspace is to keep in touch with old friends. I could give two shits if I had 456789000 friends or 5...I know every single person on my friends list (except for Harry Potter

) and I don't know why someone would add a person unless they really wanted to get to know them. She has so many friends because a) teenage boys want to put her on their top friends list...I guess thats a guy thing b) little teenage girls look up to her as their idol because they want to be slutty and trashy and an attention-whore just like she is. I have much bigger problems than worrying about how many friends I have on myspace, trust me.

 

[xolovinyoo]

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lol. well i believe she isn't trashy and boring, why? because ive met her and shes really a very kind person, even though im not her friend or anything i had the time to talk to her& i swear it was one of the best times in my life. i was lucky enough to meet her at import nights in san diego. I actually think shes very pretty. ha, it seems to me your a little jealous of her. actually its obvious because maybe you wish you were just like her? but everybody judges right?
and btw, teenage girls might look up to her but think of all the other teen girls that look up to someone, nobodys perfect, shes livin life the way she wants and shes lucky enough to have this oppurtunity. im not necessarily saying shes the best role model but it isnt her fault teenage girls look up to her, which i doubt most teenage girls do. & lol so what if teenage boys wanna hit it, she isnt the only one that teen boys are attracted to, there are ALOT of girls that look like Tila, so are you calling everyone that has gotten a boob job and that is a model trashy and slutty?

 

[Shimmer]

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Considering the fact that:
Teen girls generally want teen boys to notice them.
Teen boys apparently like this particular female, and are part of her target audience.
Ergo, it IS her fault that teen girls look up to her, since their natural tendency would be to emulate those females which teen boys find attractive.

 

[xolovinyoo]

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you act like she's the only one. so are you telling me that she can't do whatever she wants? its her life, let her lead it. you might as well tell everyone in that industry to change and be better role models for girls and boys. I mean, its not that easy, she might LIKE what she does, i think that parents should be the ones controling there children, It isnt HER responsibility. OWELL if its her fault, LET her do what she wants.

 

[Shimmer]

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I don't care what she does. You asked how or why teen girls would look up to her. I answered.

 

[Dark_Phoenix]

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Originally Posted by Shimmer Considering the fact that: Teen girls generally want teen boys to notice them. Teen boys apparently like this particular female, and are part of her target audience. Ergo, it IS her fault that teen girls look up to her, since their natural tendency would be to emulate those females which teen boys find attractive.

I have a syllogism to contribute.

Women who perform in front of the camera without clothes on are porn stars.
Tia Tequila performs in front of the camera without clothes on.
Tia Tequila is a porn star.


That said, I don't think she's a "positive" role model. She has to take her clothes off just to have "friends". I think there's better people out there to look up to.

 

[Shimmer]

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She's not a role model at all!!! She's a soft core porn star. Porn stars (even JJ) aren't role models! They're people who realized that if they compound on a couple of natural attributes with more than a few unnatural ones they can make a LOT of money in a LITTLE time on the depravity of the masses.
This isn't something to emulate!
This is something to simply say "It is what it is." about...it's not bad, it's not good, it's just sad.

 

[tsukiyomi]

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Female porn stars are slave to the MALE led and owned porn industry. I think it's degrading to women and it's sad that women want to take off their clothes to make a quick buck. :/ It puts women's rights way back and it is a big reason of why this society is not equal.

 

[xolovinyoo]

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Haha, nobody cares, shes making more money than you are so leave her alone. i doubt shes going to change, i dont consider her a porn star at all, but if you put it that way, it doesn't really matter, shes making money. some people actually like what they do, some porn stars Love their job, and im pretty sure she loves hers. Obviously she doesnt care what people think about her, and i respect that. some people are just different, & i hope she never changes. and if your teenage daughter or son are trying to resemble her, then my god be a damn parent & you change them yourself. & yeah it might be degrading towards women but have you ever stopped to see rap videos? same freakenn thing, but like i said you can't change them, they like what they do so it ISNT sad that they enjoy there job. some people are stuck doing what there doing to put some food on the damn table, does that make them a whore or a slut? just because there trying to provide for themselves or even there children? whatever. i <3 tila

 

[Shimmer]

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Originally Posted by xolovinyoo i <3 tila

Really?

 

[tsukiyomi]

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Originally Posted by xolovinyoo Haha, nobody cares, shes making more money than you are so leave her alone. i doubt shes going to change, i dont consider her a porn star at all, but if you put it that way, it doesn't really matter, shes making money. some people actually like what they do, some porn stars Love their job, and im pretty sure she loves hers. Obviously she doesnt care what people think about her, and i respect that. some people are just different, & i hope she never changes. and if your teenage daughter or son are trying to resemble her, then my god be a damn parent & you change them yourself. & yeah it might be degrading towards women but have you ever stopped to see rap videos? same freakenn thing, but like i said you can't change them, they like what they do so it ISNT sad that they enjoy there job. some people are stuck doing what there doing to put some food on the damn table, does that make them a whore or a slut? just because there trying to provide for themselves or even there children? whatever. i <3 tila

Frankly, I think it's funny that celebrities say they don't care about what people think of them, yet they are celebrities....get the irony there? It's called having self respect. Porn and self respect are on two different ends of the spectrum. And since you brought up rap videos, well yes, they are very borderline pornography. There are other jobs that don't require you to demean yourself. I guess you missed the memo about that one.

 

[astronaut]

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Ooohhh I'm taking notes for discussion questions for my women's studies class

I really think it goes deeper than the whole oh she's confident, they like what they do, etc. I've read somewhere that a lot of these porn stars, promiscuous girls, etc. have had some event(s) happen to them like rape, physical/emotional abuse, etc. in their past.

 

[aziajs]

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Originally Posted by astronaut I've read somewhere that a lot of these porn stars, promiscuous girls, etc. have had some event(s) happen to them like rape, physical/emotional abuse, etc. in their past.

That's true.

 

[xolovinyoo]

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so what if there are other jobs, like i said, they might like there career, so let them be. yah sure some celebrities care what other people think but who cares, obviously Tila doesnt care otherwise she'd be doing something else other than being a model right? there not going to change there job just because someone doesnt like what there doing, would you? lmao @ the part where you said dancing in rap videos are borderline pornography. HAHA, um no. i think thats a pretty damn stupid statement because my sister has been in a couple of videos and i dont and will never consider HER as a porn star. THey dont even take off all there clothes or fuck the rapper on camera so how can that be Borderline porn? just because there lookin all sexy makes them porn stars? . &yeah, there might be other jobs that dont require you to redeam yourself or whatever but have you ever stopped to think that it's sometimes HARD to find a good job. people that have to work as strippers or w.e to put money on the plate dont have it easy. Trust me. you cant just find a job just like That. and for the people that choose to have a job full of them taking off their clothes and such, let them do it. That doesnt make them trashy. it makes them people who do what they wanna do, without care for what other people think.