Last year I was in a similar search, but found nothing I really liked.
Some background on my skin type: medium-dark, tans easily, combo skin (oily on the t-zone and normal everywhere else), and sadly, I get milias.
Anyway, I tried the following:
1. Laura Mercier TM (both the regular and oil-free versions) - I got a good size sample from the Macy's counter. I tried it out for like a week and felt that the texture didn't sit well on my skin. It made blush and makeup application a little hard since things didn't seem to sit/blend well. My biggest gripes though were the fact that most of the ingredients were comedogenic AND THE STUFF TURNED ME ORANGE! Oompa Loompa status!!
2. Benefit You Rebel: This was okay but I felt that it made me pretty oily by midday. Plus the packaging wasn't the greatest. You'd pretty much be screwed if you misplaced the top, if you didn't seal it tight enough, and as you use the product the squeezing of the tube obviously dents the packaging and can eventually cause breaks at the seams.
3. Stila TM - Clogged the pores and my makeup pretty much slipped off my face since it made me super oily.
Anyway, after all the research and testing I decided to just mix my own. I mix a little of my Laura Mercier Mineral powder with my Oil-Free Peter Thomas Roth Moisturizer that gives me an SPF 12. When I need higher SPF especially right now, I also brush on the Peter Thomas Roth Mineral SPF 30 powder. I'm loving it so far =) HTH!