I like clean lines behind my glasses, and I definitely agree that light colours are good - I've seen people wear heavy smokey eyes with glasses and that really backfires sometimes, especially if the frames are a little tame. I often think that my glasses can make a look that works without them look like I applied the stuff with a trowel.
I absolutely agree that eyebrows are more important than ever when wearing glasses, too.
I have stark, black frames, and my daily eye make-up routine consists of neutral cream eyeshadows as a base (Painterly on lid, Bare Canvas as a highlighter), taupe, beige or grey shadow applied very softly in the crease, winged black liquid liner and strong eyebrows. Very clean and simple, defines my eyes and plays nicely with the frames.