uhh...i'm starting to wonder...

[Lauren1981]

that's crazy to me.
i'm 27 and haven't had an actual boyfriend in about 2 years and before that it had been two years.
that's just the way things have worked out for you. i don't see anything wrong with it at all. especially at 20. i know for me at 20.......... HELL NAW i didn't want a boyfriend!!! LMAO!! i was having way to much fun in college going out being drunk all the time and living on my own and doing whatever the hell i wanted (and i'm not bragging about being drunk all the time by any means). what i'm saying is that at 20, i was still trying to figure myself out and having fun at the same time. i mean, from 19-23 i changed my major 4 times. lol! but whether you're in college or not i just think that's the age that we're supposed to be trying to figure out what we want to do with ourselves. there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. some of us are ready for relationships earlier than others and that's just how the world works. we're all on different timing and paths.
so no, i don't think anything is wrong with you ;-)

 

[Kalico]

I'm so jealous.

I've basically been in long term relationships since I was 14 (3 different guys; all the relationships lasted 2+ years each). I'm 22 now. I need to be single for a while. Wish I had done it when I was younger. Oh well.

 

[duddelle]

I'm 21 and never had a boyfriend. I don't even know if I've been on a date. If I like a guy, I try to get them to ask me out or I ask them out, but no one's really been interested yet. I enjoy being young and doing my thing, but sometimes I have to force myself not to dwell on the loneliness. I have plenty of friends, but y'know, there's nothing like taking care of someone who can't wait to love you. Some day.

 

[chaut_01]

even though there's no significant other doesnt mean your handicapped or something! it's perfectly normal! and hey like some others mentioned have fun while you still can and your only 20 so you have LOTS of time!

 

[M.A.C. head.]

Aw hell naw.

If you're happy being single, LIVE IT THE HELL UP!!!

And that goes for a woman at ANY age.

 

[aziajs]

I haven't been in one in 28 years. Don't sweat it.

 

[glam8babe]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kalico I'm so jealous. I've basically been in long term relationships since I was 14 (3 different guys; all the relationships lasted 2+ years each). I'm 22 now. I need to be single for a while. Wish I had done it when I was younger. Oh well.

thats the same with me, i havent been single in almost 4 years (2 different boyfriends)
and i usually get jealous of my single friends

 

[MAC_Pixie04]

I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 19, before that I had absolutely no dating experience, I was a complete virgin in every aspect, and had absolutely no idea what I'm doing.

You being single at 20 is absolutely normal to me, but shouldn't even be defined as normal or abnormal. It's your choice and your life. If you wanted to be with someone, I'm sure you would. Enjoy being single. Everybody has different feelings about relationships. I was single forever, and now I'm really enjoying being with someone, we're practically engaged. And some of my friends think I should try being single because I'm so young, but I know that's not what I want. So whatever you want is what's right for you, and who cares what anybody thinks.

 

[laperle]

kimmy, i only got into a 'serious but messy' relatioship when i was 21. i'm 27 now, single for some time - by choice - and i don't let any kind of exterior pressure in, 'cos every one has her/his own time to experience things in life.

plus, the best things come when we aren't expecting them.

 

[zeroxstar]

oops I read this wrong the first time!

but either way... don't listen to what people say!! they're either just jealous or biased!

what works for YOU is what matters!