what do i say to this dude?

babydoll_020

Active member
No matter what you say to him, you will come across as a bitch. I guess the only difference will be, how much of a bitch you will come across. I think what you just said sounds fine, just needs abit of editing though...

"lookit, that's great that your parents are loaded and are willing to support you for the next twenty years. and that's great that you're willing to let them...but mine aren't, and even if they were, i wouldn't be down for that. please respect the fact that i'm being responsible and being a functioning member of society."

= Im sorry [insert name] but Im not interested. Take care
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This will probably save you more breath :p
 

S.S.BlackOrchid

Well-known member
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Originally Posted by kimmy
currently, my working conditions suck. i need to get the hell out of there, but my boss passed me up for a promotion because he has a personal problem with me. i was pissed, but i thought screw him, i'll just go elsewhere. and i'm working on that, but it isn't easy.

i'm going back to school, which is really tough for me. i'm working out on an almost daily basis to get in shape. i'm having alot of problems at home with my mom who decided she hates me all the sudden. i have alot of stuff on my plate just now.

and i'm fine with that.

what i'm not fine with is this one guy. he's my sister's exroomate's brother and i've met him ONCE in my life. i quit talking to him because he's got some issues that i just do not need in my life right now. anyway, he keeps texting me wanting to go do something and then he gets all upset when i can't.

I AM FUCKING BUSY.
i am trying to make a life for myself.
i am trying to make it on MY OWN.

i don't want to be bitch and just be like "lookit, that's great that your parents are loaded and are willing to support you for the next twenty years. and that's great that you're willing to let them...but mine aren't, and even if they were, i wouldn't be down for that. please respect the fact that i'm being responsible and being a functioning member of society." so what do i say?


I'd just say "Not interested. Good luck to you." Straightforward IS the nicest way, imo.

There was this guy who kept trying to get with me, but I wasn't interested I'm busy with school, work, etc and he lived with his rich parents and was very lazy and liked to play victim a lot. When he told me "aw, it's easy for chicks to get jobs because all they have to do is show off their boobs," I decided I wasn't going to waste anymore time with him.
 
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