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Originally Posted by AdlersMommy22
whoa whoa.. im not TRYING to look like someone... but I think that she looks beautiful tan and ive been tanning for like 5 years-- i didnt just "start" because of her- i love her makeup and the tanner it looks like the better the makeup colors she wears look.
And to be completely honest, some people DO look better tan just like some people look better pale.. my bone structure and what not makes me look washed out and gross when i dont have some kind of color to me... my entire family and most of my friends agree.... when i came back to work after having my son and i was tan-- (it was teh first time most of my coworkers had EVER seen me with a tan since i started working there when i was 4 months pregnant) i got MAD compliments on how good my skin tone looked and how much healthier i looked- and this was from a bunch of guys who spend the entire day talking about sports and getting paid for it...for a few days the guys i work with were telling me I should keep up the tan bcause i looked "so awesome".. which i do.. and it makes me feel good.. and we're all going to die of something.. I dont smoke, RARELY drink, and i dont do drugs- so who cares if i tan???? I think i look better, I feel better about myself, and if I feel better about myself then who careswhat everyone else thinks? not me!
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It is your personal choice and, speaking for myself, I realize that you aren't trying to start anything. I just think the ebb and flow of conversation has taken on another aspect of Jessica Burciaga's look, her tan.
Again, I just want to reiterate that I realize it is your personal choice and you can choose to justify them according to your priorities (i.e. "..i got MAD compliments on how good my skin tone looked.. ", or "..the guys i work with were telling me I should keep up the tan bcause i looked "so awesome"..", or "..and it makes me feel good.."), but the reality is that tanning can lead to cancer and death and it is an unnecessary risk.
It really doesn't matter if you don't smoke, do drugs or rarely drink. A risk is a risk. Again, I am not judging your personal choices. That is up to you to weigh that out. I am just speaking to my personal feelings on the subject.
The reality is that tanning is skin's bad reaction to sunlight exposure. That exposure can lead to cancer. That can lead to dying. Yes, we all do die someday, but why speed it up? My personal feelings are that I'm in no hurry to die. I would like to stick around and enjoy my life and my family. I'm not saying you are, again, I'm just making a statement about my personal feelings.
Why not love the skin your in? Why not use a self-tanner if you must have color? Why not wear a helmet on a motorcycle? Why not choose not to tan or smoke? Every smart decision we make helps our longevity.