I think it's funny that for practically every trend that is mentioned here, there's someone thinking (or posting) "Aww, but I really like that!"
So if you like something, it makes you happy, and you believe it really suits you stick to it. You can't please everyone no matter what you wear, so you may as well please yourself ;-)
Eg. I like ripped jeans. I have fun ripping my own. However, I ALWAYS shave my legs, even if my jeans aren't ripped. Ewww..... And NO rips are allowed near the butt or crotch area!! Like any "trend", they won't suit everyone. I'm slighter bigger on top than on the bottom, so it's fine for me to draw attention to my bottom half. Also, horozontal rips can have a widening effect, so it won't be flattering to many people but I'm a small girl so I don't care. I'm in to rock and metal, so it suits my 'vibe', whereas they're not going to look right on you if you want to look prim and proper, or whatever.