We don't have any children yet, but in my partner Mike's family they have a really strong tradition of passing names down. Mike is Michael Walter, his father is Walter Michael, his paternal grandfather was also a Walter. On that side of the family the oldest boy is always called Walter - which I can't bear the thought of! Mike's mum Tess got out of it because her family also has a similar tradition. Her father is Michael Alexander, so she figured that Michael was the common name and that was good enough
(Of course there her brother later named his son Alexander Michael to honour their father.. they're really big on it, I'm not exaggerating at all!)
Again with the tradition, on Tessa's side, at least one girl has the middle name Bruce. I'm told it's a Celtic thing? Tess is Therese Bruce.
So names are not exactly looking good here, I used to have all sorts of ideas about beautiful biblical names for boys and pretty names for girls.. now I'm just concerned with avoiding Walter and Bruce and still pleasing everyone! William is a name on my father's side, he wants me to include that (excuse me Dad, you have four kids! Pick another one for your hoped for William grandchild, please!).
But! Mike and I have decided we want to name a son Noel Patrick. Noel for Wal's (his dad) younger brother who passed away in his 20s, far too young. And Patrick for Tessa's brother who passed away a bit under 10 years ago, leaving behind his wife and daughter. Everyone who sees Mike who knew Noel or Patrick is amazed by how much he resembles them both, so it seems really appropriate to us.
As for a girl... I like feminine (in my opinion) names like Leila, Lily, Kaia, Kaylee, Madison (Mike scoffs at this). My mother's middle name is Eva so I'd like to incorporate that too
Family is such a big part of Mike & I's life, we are so lucky to have his maternal grandparents still with us, they are the most amazing people. And maybe it sounds crazy but I'd really like them to see their great grandchild sooner rather than later
Man I'm clucky...
Sorry about the long winded post!!