words of a broken heart (venting/long)

[CandyKisses1018]

i havent been on this for a while, thank you nut meg.. and you know what.. my dad use to tell me that quote when i was little.. =) thats one of my favorite!

I am thinking about leaving chicago and move to michigan and just start my life all over again and get away from all the pains my heart feels ..who knows. thanks1

 

[Trunkmonkey]

It goes both ways. I've been in positions where I thought I was worth nothing and hoped for a truck to drive over me suddenly. But I took each day step by step and wound up with a great wife that puts up with me, four WONDERFUL children, 3 dogs, and so on.

I've read some of your posts and I see an absolutely gorgeous young woman that has a good mind and a good future. Do NOT let some guy who isn't right for you allow you to make bad decisions.

By the way.. looking at the posts here I think you have a lot of friends that care about you.

If you ever want the advice of an old dude that used to be a player (and quite a good one at that) feel free to contact me.

Go look in the mirror right now and repeat after me. I'm good enough, I'm strong enough, and people like me.

Go get em tiger

 

[hrdruian]

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. It sucks, i know. I myself am in the middle of a break up; however, ours seems to be a little bit different. We still love each other after almost 4 years but he needs space because due to big life changes causing him to have to grow up. Our timing is wrong right now. I read this thread late and am not sure what the circumstances were surrounding your situation, but it seems like a big part of it was that he was emotionally and verbally abusive towards you. Learn from my mother if possible. She was married to my stepfather for 14+ years and by the time the divorced she was diagnosed with a severe neurological disease that was brought on by her stress, most likely from the marriage. You are doing the right thing by moving on. I know its hard, but trust that in the end that it was right. I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Learn from this relationship and the break up. You'll see there is better out there for you. and hey, you're much braver than i for just considering moving and restarting. Good Luck and keep relying on the support from your friends and family.