You are definitely not alone, companies use that free shipping to their advantage, they KNOW people will buy something when they make offers like that. Don't feel too bad, just pick yourself up and get back on the budget train, lol, I'm right there with you.
So sorry to hear this. Sending you strength and lots of hugs!I think I need an intervention!! I really was doing OK not amazing, but not bad and then the Sephora sale came....and then I just went downhill. This month has been super emotional as well and I am completely an emotional shopper, it just happens, even when I don't intend it. Two weeks ago I had a biopsy and last week found out it was cancerous, so I had to have surgery this week to remove it. Cancer is unfortunately a co-morbidity of my genetic disorder, I started getting it 4 years ago, and I so far have kept on top of it so it hasn't spread deep into my body. I came to grips with my reality a while ago, but it's still hard, so sometimes I fall into a small hole and buy stuff. It's not the best way to deal with it, I know that, but it happens. My family is also struggling getting custody of my 3 year old niece, who is very dear to me, and my entire world(I can't have children), she lives in another state and we only get to see her when we can afford to go see her or bring her to us, the family member she lives with does not take very good care of her, and we are going through court after court hearing trying to get her. It's all a bit overwhelming. And add boredom to the list(doctors, surgeries, recovery, etc lead to lots of sitting around and looking at stuff which expands my list of wants, but not needs).
After all of that I think I need makeup anonymous, hah. I only made one order during the Chic week sale and then, I made a second, really wanted those KVD lipsticks...I thought I did OK since most of the stuff I ordered I needed(face wash, face pads, only bought a lip tar and the electric palette(which I was planning) then all of a sudden 3 more kvd lipsticks, another lip tar and 2 skin items, my skin gets red and blotchy and is dry so I decided to try the FAB anti-redness cream and moisture elixir. Then all of a sudden the ULTA sale came and I got an eyeliner, 2 revlon matte balms and the LORAC afterglo palette(totally did NOT need) Then MAC Playland came and I got the three items I was planning(Orange Chromagraphic, TA and Live it up and then I got Dreaming Dahlia because Nordstrom still had it and I really regretted not getting it) and tried really hard to avoid the others I was about to buy. Basically I'm just buying everything I want! And I know I don't need it. I haven't put myself in debt, in fact I have saved more in the past 3 months than I have in a while but I know better than to just buy things because I want them. Sigh. Oh and of course I got makeup from a gift exchange, I didn't buy it, but still, it's makeup. I know I need to go through and get rid of stuff before I buy anything else.
Sorry for that long post, but I think I needed to get that out.
Thank you. Yes I know it happens, so I am not going to beat myself up too much, but I know it's probably about time to reign it in, hence my post here, helps me get it out in the open, haha. And yes, keeping up with putting away some savings has made me happier, but probably made me a little too confident and allowed my slip into overspending. Saving for things other than makeup has been a good feeling, and I know once I get back on that road the lemming for unnecessary items will start to fade.I will pray for you and your situation so that you have the strength to deal with it. Thank you.
Quote: Originally Posted by NaynadineSo sorry to hear this. Sending you strength and lots of hugs!
Don't feel bad for hauling more than planned. I know it has happend to most of us when we're feeling down. The good thing is you were still able to save money in the last months!
You do have a lot on your plate! I've been there with the cancer thing, but fortunately only once. It sounds like you have accepted your reality, but I'd guess it's still scary. I felt very vulnerable after my cancer surgery. I had spinal surgery 6 months before that, and those two things made me feel like I couldn't even depend on my own body. I was in my early 40's and didn't expect to have health problems at that age (neither rid my Doctors, so it took a year to get an accurate diagnosis on both). I felt like I had no control over my own body. And like you said, all of the surgeries and Dr. Appointments leads to a life that isn't much fun. So buying yourself treats gives you something pleasant in the midst of all of that bad stuff. So I completely understand why you would do that. I hope you don't beat yourself up too much. Of course you know best what you can afford, but it sounds like you need a small amount of treats. I'm hoping that if we support each other here maybe we can stop the emotional spending. I know that I need to find other things that make me happy, but doing it is the hard part. I hope things get better for you soon.I think I need an intervention!! I really was doing OK not amazing, but not bad and then the Sephora sale came....and then I just went downhill. This month has been super emotional as well and I am completely an emotional shopper, it just happens, even when I don't intend it. Two weeks ago I had a biopsy and last week found out it was cancerous, so I had to have surgery this week to remove it. Cancer is unfortunately a co-morbidity of my genetic disorder, I started getting it 4 years ago, and I so far have kept on top of it so it hasn't spread deep into my body. I came to grips with my reality a while ago, but it's still hard, so sometimes I fall into a small hole and buy stuff. It's not the best way to deal with it, I know that, but it happens. My family is also struggling getting custody of my 3 year old niece, who is very dear to me, and my entire world(I can't have children), she lives in another state and we only get to see her when we can afford to go see her or bring her to us, the family member she lives with does not take very good care of her, and we are going through court after court hearing trying to get her. It's all a bit overwhelming. And add boredom to the list(doctors, surgeries, recovery, etc lead to lots of sitting around and looking at stuff which expands my list of wants, but not needs). After all of that I think I need makeup anonymous, hah. I only made one order during the Chic week sale and then, I made a second, really wanted those KVD lipsticks...I thought I did OK since most of the stuff I ordered I needed(face wash, face pads, only bought a lip tar and the electric palette(which I was planning) then all of a sudden 3 more kvd lipsticks, another lip tar and 2 skin items, my skin gets red and blotchy and is dry so I decided to try the FAB anti-redness cream and moisture elixir. Then all of a sudden the ULTA sale came and I got an eyeliner, 2 revlon matte balms and the LORAC afterglo palette(totally did NOT need) Then MAC Playland came and I got the three items I was planning(Orange Chromagraphic, TA and Live it up and then I got Dreaming Dahlia because Nordstrom still had it and I really regretted not getting it) and tried really hard to avoid the others I was about to buy. Basically I'm just buying everything I want! And I know I don't need it. I haven't put myself in debt, in fact I have saved more in the past 3 months than I have in a while but I know better than to just buy things because I want them. Sigh. Oh and of course I got makeup from a gift exchange, I didn't buy it, but still, it's makeup. I know I need to go through and get rid of stuff before I buy anything else. Sorry for that long post, but I think I needed to get that out.
I am the biggest SUCKER for free express shipping. I don't know what comes over me. I could just as easily drive to the MAC counter but as soon as I get that email I start searching for something to buy.You are definitely not alone, companies use that free shipping to their advantage, they KNOW people will buy something when they make offers like that. Don't feel too bad, just pick yourself up and get back on the budget train, lol, I'm right there with you.
Thank you. Yes, that is exactly it...having all that extra time cause me to "window shop" online way too much, haha. And I know what you mean...I am sure I have similar colors for so many things I buy but that little difference just gives me an excuse! Sometimes I am so good at saying no and reminding myself, other times...not so much.
I'll be Praying for you & hope your feeling better! Glad that your lil purchases & saving for other items have made you feel better. You deserve it! Also I know many of you have went through your stashes, but is anyone "Spring Cleaning" your mu? I think once I get my other Muji's I will be doing this. Although I have been getting rid of items I don't want or use.Thank you.Thank you. Yes I know it happens, so I am not going to beat myself up too much, but I know it's probably about time to reign it in, hence my post here, helps me get it out in the open, haha. And yes, keeping up with putting away some savings has made me happier, but probably made me a little too confident and allowed my slip into overspending. Saving for things other than makeup has been a good feeling, and I know once I get back on that road the lemming for unnecessary items will start to fade.
Thank you
I've been doing it as I organise everything. Anything I'm unsure of is getting tossed.
No prob. You def keep the Faith & trust in God! Luv your attitude,so dnt ever let the situation beat you;-). And I (heart) my Muji's too! I'm glad their having the site wide sell. So atleast I can justify my spending lol.Thank you :bigheart: And yes, I will definitely be doing a little(or A LOT) of spring cleaning. It's definitely time for me to do it. And Imy Muji's!
This is my favourite look you've done so far - perhaps I'm just "meh" over "barely there" but this is beautiful. Really suits you!
thank you that's so nice of you to say
The whole free second day or overnight shipping does the same to me!!!! I get an email from MAC and if there's a code for free second day or overnight shipping I'm all like "ooohhhhh.....must...buy....things...." #thestruggleisreal
Light hand and not-so-great quality could definitely be the culprit. If it gives you any more of an incentive though, while I don't usually comment - I always look to see what you've done each day.This is my favourite look you've done so far - perhaps I'm just "meh" over "barely there" but this is beautiful. Really suits you!
thank you that's so nice of you to say
it's hard to see too much of a difference between most of my pics due to my light hand and a crappy camera phone,
i post the pics mostly as an incentive for me to keep doing the challenge and give me a memory jog for comparison purposes,
but i think the difference with this look is cool!
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it does help that i was sat at my vanity, i think because im usually applying makeup on the go, be it on a train or in someone elses house, ive stayed away from anything too technical.
