Couldn't be said better, especially in a low buy thread. I'm on a Low Boy for 2014Why even bother with him? he is not worth your time or money in gas to go see, let alone you dwelling upon it. He is not worthy of your presence.
Think of bad boyfriends like makeup. Once they stopped making you look pretty and feeling good about yourself you swap it, sell it or toss it in trash. No regrets. You never look back cause i nice new shiny prettier more glittery one will come and you'll love it way better.
Raccoons can get pretty nasty!
I am so sorry my dear! May he have a speedy recovery! I am keeping your family in my prayers.
I am so so sorry to hear this @Naynadine. Sending love and prayers for a speedy recovery for your father.
Awwww! I'm sorry, mama. Here's hoping your dad makes a speedy recovery. Hope you can get some rest.
Honey I hope you get some much-needed r&r. Prayers for your family. Friendships aren't always forever but it is always for the best in the long-run. Big hugs.
I don't really know the situation's specifics but I think what you have to say to him (above) is totally rational. You said you'd been down this road before with him so it's probably pretty obvious to you that this is who he is and it's not how you want or deserve to be treated at all. It's funny that it seems like he is the one who feels the need to see you and plead his case whereas you know you're just going to inform him that the door closed weeks ago and for good at that. Suck it, Bert.lol.. will keep these wonderful words of advice in mind. but I have decided to confront him, very decently and tell him that there is nothing to say. nothing at all. no apologies are needed, no friendships to be offered and no future anything to consult about.
He can be whoever he wants to be, wherever he wants to be, with whomever he wants to be.. but he will not be with me. that's the whole story. and then I am out and done.
and i will call the Miami ladies in to give him a brow wax as well as the ass kicking he so richly deserves.
on to another chapter.. and a new book
Nadine, that is really scary news and I hope and pray for your dad's health to recover quickly. I think getting any sleep you can at the moment is wise. Specktra's always here for the distraction but I think you'll need the rest more to get through helping your mom and dad at this moment. Be well, sending positive vibes your way.
What's even more wack is that they used to be friends, too. He done f-ed up two relationships at once.
I have a string of expletives ready to go. I just... can't. UGH. What an idiot to say the least.
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I'm so sorry doll! I know you must be frantic. I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers. Please let us know how he's doing... and if you're ok!
