Fanfare may be pretty close in colour, but it's a different finish (Cremesheen).
Glossier Ultralip in Portrait is also a warm pink, more of a balmy finish.
Revlon Super Lustrous in Pink Velvet may be another option.
Oh, she must be getting lash extensions, not having false lashes applied?
If that's the case, she may be better off either using false lashes daily (tons of brands make them) or finding a good lengthening mascara.
Not every member of Specktra is a woman. Please keep that in mind.
What do you mean by "family look"? Do you mean you want the three of you to wear the same, or similar, attire? Do the marrying couple have a dress code for the event?
Given the characters used in the top image (especially on the envelope), I would assume Japanese? (Korean characters are more geometric.)
Browsing through YesStyle (which sells a lot of Korean and Japanese beauty products at various price points) didn't help me much. Reverse image searching...
@MrsRobbo It's been a few months. Have you been able to sort this out?
Also, belatedly: it's not being dramatic to seek professional help about something that's an issue for you, especially one that's been going on for months.