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Originally Posted by athena123
I don't care what her intentions were, I really don't. The ends do NOT justify the means. Whatever point she's trying to make it could have been done some other way.
The very act is a mockery. Either she's mocking those who have made very painful decision to terminate a pregnancy, or she's mocking people who would do ANYTHING to conceive. And this certainly doesn't help rape victims either.
I know life isn't sunshine and it's not always pretty, but spending your time focusing on such a gruesome task is hardly exalting, is it? After I read the news and realize the ugliness, then I prefer to focus on the beauty around me. It keeps me sane.
I too have a pretty open mind, but it's not so open my brains are gonna fall out, nor does my open mind mean any lack of conviction. Some things are just wrong, and for me, the process of achieving an end result is sometimes even more important than the result itself. I'm just not an "ends justifies the means" woman and I never will be. That rationale has been used to justify some pretty horrible things.
kat, please don't think that because I'm stating MY disagreement equates "flaming" you. I'm simply not gonna agree with you on this.
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I understand your point of view, i think really this is all down to matter of your personal opinion and how you view the situation.
The first reaction i got when i read the title and the article was "WTF?" but i like to not make snap judgement if that makes sense, like i'll think about it afterwards and then decide on what i really think about it. Like i'll get over the initial shock and try and see the reasoning behind it? if this doesn't make sense, sorry i do't make sense half the time lol. Btw i'm not trying to say that the people who think it's 'cold' and such are making snap judgements or anything i was just saying that's how i deal with things that shock me, obviously most people do the same.
Don't get me wrong i think this is creepy and 'wrong' in some ways but we just don't know for sure if her intensions were to 'mock' or whatever.
Sometimes people who do this kind of stuff are just looking for a way to be controversial and attract attention to express their feelings or whatever, and sometimes it's a good thing because what you may find utterly shocking and 'wrong' today, may be just fine in a couple of years/generations to come. Do you see what i mean? I'm not sure if getting yourself pregnant and aborting on purpose and then filiming it and making a display out of it will ever become popular, but hey you never know...
Yeah i agree that she could've chosen to express her view on whatever it is that she wanted to expres in some other way, but maybe it wouldn't have had as much impact? I dunno, cause i don't know what was going through her mind or what she wanted people to think when they saw her display, but i just don't really see how it's 'evil'
I agree with what people are saying that it can viewed as if she's mocking people who, for example, have problems conceiving a child etc, but then again maybe that wasn't her intension to do so, so in a way is she really mocking them?
I'm not really condoning it as such....but i don't think it's exactly 'wrong' or 'evil' or 'cold' either. I'm pretty neutral about it you might say. Not as in i don't care but i just haven't made up my mind 100% and i don't think i ever will because i just don't know this person and i don't think i'm mature enough to really make up my mind about issues like this yet....which is why i don't have a defined 'view' on this...I'm still a confused teengaer trying to find out who she really is
No, don't worry i know you're not flaming me, you're stating your opinion (which we are all entitled to do) and you have a good argument to back up your point.
I was just referring to people who might say i'm 'evil' myself or that i'm completely wrong even though i'm just expressing my view...