prettysecrets
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Bigger is not better!!
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fadedillusions
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i had that problem but come to find out i was allergic to latex. i was fine the first few times but then it became too intense. u should look into it
ashk36
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The best advice I can give is LUBE!!! And the best lube, in my opinion, is Eros. You probably won't find it at a drug store, most likely your best bet is the porn shop, but that stuff is great. A little costly, but it doesn't get all sticky after a while like some other stuff. Yeah, other than that, the only thing I know to tell you is to have him go slow...
TISH1124
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Welcome to my life...I am married to an anaconda for real...relax...lube and find positions that are more tolerable....My best position that does the least body harm is in the spoon position ....But slow and steady wins the race with these types....Make sure you pee directly after to...he bumps my bladder so badly I have so many bladder infections just from sex...I take a UTI pill after we have sex if I feel the slightest pee tingle...I have refills for life...I will look for the name and post
Edit...I have to take a Macrobid capsule after sex to prevent bladder infections
Edit...I have to take a Macrobid capsule after sex to prevent bladder infections
stronqerx
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^^lol @ the anaconda. I noticed you said he bumps your bladder during sex, does that hurt? 'Cause i think that happens me to as well. It's like this sharp and intense pain it hurts so bad i have to tell him to stop. It's like when it's in too deep, weird.
...anyways, yeah i would have to go with everyone else on this, use lube and take it easy
...anyways, yeah i would have to go with everyone else on this, use lube and take it easy
kdemers1221
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^^^^ i dont think hes hitting your bladder. i think what hes hitting is your cervix at the back of your vaginal canal . my ex was well endowed and he'd hit my cervix and it would be a sharp stabbing pain if he thrusted to hard or deep.
Prinsesa
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Basically, I am going through the same thing! But you know what you do..make sure that your boyfriend does the foreplay part longer than usual (kissing on the tittehz lol and rubbing "it") to make you "wet" and then let him go down on you and voila! Let him do his thing. This works everytime for me. Lube helps but it STILL hurts for me, just because it doesnt make the penis smaller. lol..
Blushbaby
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Yep, I've felt that TOO many times. OUCH!!!! I've lost count how many times my boyf's made me squeal (literally) or take a sharp intake of breath as he's thrusted too deeply (sorry TMI!!!!).
Def prolong foreplay as long as poss to get you juices flowing
and just take your time.
Lube will def become your best friend between the sheets though! Don't buy any of the Durex brands - they're shit and dry up within seconds. ID Glide is the shit!
Originally Posted by kdemers1221
^^^^ i dont think hes hitting your bladder. i think what hes hitting is your cervix at the back of your vaginal canal . my ex was well endowed and he'd hit my cervix and it would be a sharp stabbing pain if he thrusted to hard or deep. |
Yep, I've felt that TOO many times. OUCH!!!! I've lost count how many times my boyf's made me squeal (literally) or take a sharp intake of breath as he's thrusted too deeply (sorry TMI!!!!).
Def prolong foreplay as long as poss to get you juices flowing
Lube will def become your best friend between the sheets though! Don't buy any of the Durex brands - they're shit and dry up within seconds. ID Glide is the shit!
TISH1124
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Nope I can't actually feel it when he bumps my bladder...Not until afterwards and I go to potty...then I feel discomfort and I take my pill right away
| Originally Posted by stronqerx
^^lol @ the anaconda. I noticed you said he bumps your bladder during sex, does that hurt? 'Cause i think that happens me to as well. It's like this sharp and intense pain it hurts so bad i have to tell him to stop. It's like when it's in too deep, weird. ...anyways, yeah i would have to go with everyone else on this, use lube and take it easy |
Nope I can't actually feel it when he bumps my bladder...Not until afterwards and I go to potty...then I feel discomfort and I take my pill right away
prettysecrets
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Thanks ladies!!!! So TISH1127, we have more in common than our love for makeup!!! LOL.
X4biddenxLustX
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I wonder how they can do that too! My guyfriend who is a straight up weirdo was surfing the web and decided it would be cute to send everyone a picture of these 2 brothers who were according to him 24 inches long! My other friend warned me about the pictures before I clicked on the link so I didn't get to see.
I have to agree with what everyone else has said: lots of foreplay so you get more "wet", tons of lube, and finding the right position. Also don't be afraid to take a break every now and then during sex if it feels like its getting to be too much. You've mentioned that you were quite new to sex, that could contribute to this too. So yeah definitely relax and stop worrying about ANYTHING. I've found that during sex if I am stressing over anything at all, not only is the sex not so enjoyable but it can be much more painful since I'm not as aroused.
I find it quite funny how men will try to "advertise" themselves and tell you there X inches long and X inches wide and so forth. I actually find the more they exaggerate and the bigger they say they are to be sooo unattractive. I just like mines average girth and length, anymore I seriously will get weirded out and just tell him no thanks lol. (not trying to scare you!)
| Originally Posted by Prinsesa
This is random but I saw this porno picture with a buy with a HUGE penis, and you can see his "REAL" small penis under it lol It's pretty funny..I'm trying to find it again lol  Do you ladies know you can "clone" them now? lol |
I wonder how they can do that too! My guyfriend who is a straight up weirdo was surfing the web and decided it would be cute to send everyone a picture of these 2 brothers who were according to him 24 inches long! My other friend warned me about the pictures before I clicked on the link so I didn't get to see.
I have to agree with what everyone else has said: lots of foreplay so you get more "wet", tons of lube, and finding the right position. Also don't be afraid to take a break every now and then during sex if it feels like its getting to be too much. You've mentioned that you were quite new to sex, that could contribute to this too. So yeah definitely relax and stop worrying about ANYTHING. I've found that during sex if I am stressing over anything at all, not only is the sex not so enjoyable but it can be much more painful since I'm not as aroused.
I find it quite funny how men will try to "advertise" themselves and tell you there X inches long and X inches wide and so forth. I actually find the more they exaggerate and the bigger they say they are to be sooo unattractive. I just like mines average girth and length, anymore I seriously will get weirded out and just tell him no thanks lol. (not trying to scare you!)
TISH1124
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Girl !!!
we dated about 5 months before he revealed that he was half reptile...I saw that thing and literally cried like a baby...He went into the Oh Baby, don't worry I'm gentle speech...It was like being face to face with a Grizzly bear and him telling you I'm really not about to split your wig....
I went into the bathroom called my Mom frantic and told her...she said well your Dad is ..I said Mom please don't give me a visual of my father...then she went in to the ways I can handle this and the speech about how I better be glad it is not to the other extreme...
Yep...Welcome to my world...You just relax and learn what positions work best for you and your poor internal organs. And let them know sometimes when you screaming it is not a good thing...make them learn the difference from a good scream and a hurtful scream...sometimes they truly have no clue they are rearranging your insides....Tell them!!
| Originally Posted by aziajs
OMG!! I actually howled! Do you hear me? HOWLED. Do not crack me up! |
Girl !!!
we dated about 5 months before he revealed that he was half reptile...I saw that thing and literally cried like a baby...He went into the Oh Baby, don't worry I'm gentle speech...It was like being face to face with a Grizzly bear and him telling you I'm really not about to split your wig....
I went into the bathroom called my Mom frantic and told her...she said well your Dad is ..I said Mom please don't give me a visual of my father...then she went in to the ways I can handle this and the speech about how I better be glad it is not to the other extreme...
Yep...Welcome to my world...You just relax and learn what positions work best for you and your poor internal organs. And let them know sometimes when you screaming it is not a good thing...make them learn the difference from a good scream and a hurtful scream...sometimes they truly have no clue they are rearranging your insides....Tell them!!
chocolategoddes
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Yea, think of lube like makeup: KY is like Covergirl or some big name drugstore brand. Just because it's well-known doesn't mean it's the best. Get good lube.
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Haha! I've seen that pic.
I find big dicks much more asthetically (sp?) pleasing, but I've never even used a tampon before, so I'm scared to get with a guy with a huge one. :/
| Originally Posted by ashk36
The best advice I can give is LUBE!!! And the best lube, in my opinion, is Eros. You probably won't find it at a drug store, most likely your best bet is the porn shop, but that stuff is great. A little costly, but it doesn't get all sticky after a while like some other stuff. Yeah, other than that, the only thing I know to tell you is to have him go slow... |
Yea, think of lube like makeup: KY is like Covergirl or some big name drugstore brand. Just because it's well-known doesn't mean it's the best. Get good lube.
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| Originally Posted by Prinsesa
This is random but I saw this porno picture with a buy with a HUGE penis, and you can see his "REAL" small penis under it lol It's pretty funny..I'm trying to find it again lol Do you ladies know you can "clone" them now? lol |
Haha! I've seen that pic.
I find big dicks much more asthetically (sp?) pleasing, but I've never even used a tampon before, so I'm scared to get with a guy with a huge one. :/
X4biddenxLustX
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I don't really find dicks all that pleasing to look at to be honest period haha. There's only been a few that I've find nice to look at but the majority of them are just eww. I guess there's a reason why they either belong in their pants or in a vagina lol.
I have pain sometimes with tampons too and I ONLY use the normal absorbency ones and I've been using tampons since I was like 14 (18 now). I ran out of tampons once and got my period unexpectedly and had to go to the grocery store and low behold, there tampon dispensers are empty! So I had to get one off of the nice girl at the front desk and she gave me a super absorbency one. And let me tell you, NEVER AGAIN!
haha.
I wish there was a way to "screen" guys before the clothes come off. Cause If I ever encounter a guy with a big one, I'm getting my clothes and running lol!
| Originally Posted by chocolategoddes
Yea, think of lube like makeup: KY is like Covergirl or some big name drugstore brand. Just because it's well-known doesn't mean it's the best. Get good lube. Haha! I've seen that pic. I find big dicks much more asthetically (sp?) pleasing, but I've never even used a tampon before, so I'm scared to get with a guy with a huge one. :/ |
I don't really find dicks all that pleasing to look at to be honest period haha. There's only been a few that I've find nice to look at but the majority of them are just eww. I guess there's a reason why they either belong in their pants or in a vagina lol.
I have pain sometimes with tampons too and I ONLY use the normal absorbency ones and I've been using tampons since I was like 14 (18 now). I ran out of tampons once and got my period unexpectedly and had to go to the grocery store and low behold, there tampon dispensers are empty! So I had to get one off of the nice girl at the front desk and she gave me a super absorbency one. And let me tell you, NEVER AGAIN!
I wish there was a way to "screen" guys before the clothes come off. Cause If I ever encounter a guy with a big one, I'm getting my clothes and running lol!
TISH1124
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| Originally Posted by X4biddenxLustX
I don't really find dicks all that pleasing to look at to be honest period haha. There's only been a few that I've find nice to look at but the majority of them are just eww. I guess there's a reason why they either belong in their pants or in a vagina lol. |
X4biddenxLustX
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But hey I guess it all works out in the end for us ladies cause most men don't like to keep it in their pants
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| Originally Posted by TISH1127
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But hey I guess it all works out in the end for us ladies cause most men don't like to keep it in their pants
