xsavagex
Well-known member
Yah he's hitting the cervix, not the bladder.
Make sure you pee as soon as you can after sex. I have gotten way too many UTI's from not peeing soon enough after sex, also the friction can give you UTI's. But yeah just pee so u try to avoid UTI's.
For the pain, as many others have suggested use lube, try get him to turn you on before you have sex, it's so painful when your not wet at all and he tries to slide in (thats also why lube is good).
Also positions that dont go deep are good. Maybe if you go on top you can control the depth and also the pace and the thrusts lol.
Goodluck!
Make sure you pee as soon as you can after sex. I have gotten way too many UTI's from not peeing soon enough after sex, also the friction can give you UTI's. But yeah just pee so u try to avoid UTI's.
For the pain, as many others have suggested use lube, try get him to turn you on before you have sex, it's so painful when your not wet at all and he tries to slide in (thats also why lube is good).
Also positions that dont go deep are good. Maybe if you go on top you can control the depth and also the pace and the thrusts lol.
Goodluck!