Bimbos unite!

[Yagmur]

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Originally Posted by Susanne That's awesome, Yagmur!

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Originally Posted by LMD84 That's awesome that you have got the malm now, Yagmur! What a great husband you have - very thoughtful of him!

Unfortunately the MALM doesn't fit, it's still 10 cm too long

But thank god for my technically talented Husband. He will fix it

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Originally Posted by Susanne It is 11 °C here today - that is not the feeling I want for a visit at the christmas market Maybe next weekend.

Oh, but mulled wine is so much better with cold weather

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Originally Posted by LMD84 http://www.specktra.net/forum/f166/i...3/#post1826654 here is my fotd! check it out if you'd like! quite an amusing piccie at the end! hee hee!

You look really pretty Lou. I like especially your Lips!

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Originally Posted by Moxy Sorry to interrupt, I have to share this with you guys Liam's mum asked him what is he getting me for Xmas and he said he doesnt know yet. And then she said he should get me an engagement ring, that it's about time Bless, she's so sweet

Awww, that's really sweet of her! It's good to see that his Family does like you. I think that's really important

I just came back from the Christmas Fair. Mulled Wine + Waffles

Now I'm ready for bed, I think. Good Night everyone

 

[Yagmur]

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Originally Posted by L1LMAMAJ Thanks Yagmur for inviting me to this thread! I never came in before! OMG there are so many pages here! Time to catch up!

Hello Jenn

 

[LMD84]

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Originally Posted by Moxy Oh Lou i have no idea TBH i'm not sure i want that yet. We're together for 4 years now and about 2 yrs ago, a ring from him was all I thought about, day and night... but right now I'm ok with where we are and dont think we should feel rushed. We're gonna be 23 and 27 in a couple of months, but that's still young enough... I dont wanna get married until I can pay for my own wedding with my money and have it the way I like it - and with our situation, where half of the guests would be Slovenian and half British, there is no simple "wedding ceremony". I dont want either half of the guests to feel like the third wheel. Does this make any sense?

i think that's fantastic that you want to save and pay for your own wedding. me and nick saved up and had things just the way we wanted. and it made everything even more special because we worked hard and paid for it ourselves! too many people automatically think their parents should pay for everything.

Yes you are both very young and if you are happy with the way things are then keep on at it! you guys obviously have a fantatsic relashionship because you wouldn't have survived so long if not.

i know what you mean about the owrry of people feeling like third wheels - however things like weddings and parties bring people together (as well as lots of alcohol!) and i'm sure the two families and sets of friends would mix and have a great time.

and thanks Yagmur

i only got the lipstick on saturday (bought from specktra from a lovely lady!) and liked it so much i had to wear it!

and

Jenn! have lots of fun chatting with us!

 

[Susanne]

Jenn!

 

[Moxy]

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Originally Posted by LMD84 i know what you mean about the owrry of people feeling like third wheels - however things like weddings and parties bring people together (as well as lots of alcohol!) and i'm sure the two families and sets of friends would mix and have a great time.

How could they mix, none of the british folk speak Slovene and very little of the Slovene people that'd be invited to the wedding speak English

That's the main problem. Which language to choose for the ceremony? Which language to choose for the evening? I know english is the international language, but here older people dont speak English and they're entitled to see their kid's wedding in their own language... there's really no solution to this, so easiest would be to get married on our honeymoon. However, I've always thought my family would be present..

Jean, hiya!!!

 

[Susanne]

Moxy, there will be a way for you!

Maybe you could make the ceremony in two languages?

 

[LMD84]

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Originally Posted by Moxy How could they mix, none of the british folk speak Slovene and very little of the Slovene people that'd be invited to the wedding speak English That's the main problem. Which language to choose for the ceremony? Which language to choose for the evening? I know english is the international language, but here older people dont speak English and they're entitled to see their kid's wedding in their own language... there's really no solution to this, so easiest would be to get married on our honeymoon. However, I've always thought my family would be present.. Jean, hiya!!!

crap! me being stoopid forgot about the language barrier! perhaps you could have a translator so that the english people can understand like Susanne said. or maybe you could have two ceremonies? my mum got married in ireland for the official wedding but when she came back to the uk she then had a 'blessing' ceremony as well for guests that couldn't make it

 

[Moxy]

Thanks Susanne! We did consider that, but there's one more issue

WHERE to have the wedding? In Slovenia? In England? People arent rich, we cant ask them to fly to another country and pay flights and accommodation, to witness a few hours of wedding

And we certainly wont have enough money to pay for like 30 people's travel costs

I hope it somehow all works out...i think that's why I dont want to get engaged yet, I know making this happen will be like launching a spaceship to Mars

Edit - Lou, having 2 ceremonies is possible, but there really is only "one" wedding, if you know what I mean? I mean the second time wont be the same, and we'd probably both want the first time to be in our "home" country.

And you know translator at the party would totally kill the ambient, you either have fun or you dont, jokes so many times arent translatable

!

Anyways thanks guys, I do hope we'll think of something when it actually happens x x x x

 

[FemmeFatale]

Welcome Jenn! Nice to meet you!

Yagmur- Mulled Wine, that sounds amazing! I have never had that, sounds yummy and warm!

Moxy- that is so exciting! I understand about the small dilemma, but there will be a way for you guys to work it out! Maybe a translator?

 

[FemmeFatale]

Oh yeah, Yagmur, I have the Malm set in my bedroom in my apartment. the all black bed and 6 drawer dresser. In my closest we have 2 sets of 3 drawers for extra room. I love the Malm look! So clean!

That is so nice of your husband to get you a surprise!!!

 

[FemmeFatale]

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Originally Posted by Moxy Thanks Susanne! We did consider that, but there's one more issue WHERE to have the wedding? In Slovenia? In England? People arent rich, we cant ask them to fly to another country and pay flights and accommodation, to witness a few hours of wedding And we certainly wont have enough money to pay for like 30 people's travel costs I hope it somehow all works out...i think that's why I dont want to get engaged yet, I know making this happen will be like launching a spaceship to Mars Edit - Lou, having 2 ceremonies is possible, but there really is only "one" wedding, if you know what I mean? I mean the second time wont be the same, and we'd probably both want the first time to be in our "home" country. And you know translator at the party would totally kill the ambient, you either have fun or you dont, jokes so many times arent translatable ! Anyways thanks guys, I do hope we'll think of something when it actually happens x x x x

eeek! that does sound a bit sticky. Maybe you will have to do it two different places? or meet somewhere in the middle? A parisian wedding?

 

[L1LMAMAJ]

*trying to catch up on what's going on here*

 

[Susanne]

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Originally Posted by L1LMAMAJ *trying to catch up on what's going on here*

Just talk what you want to talk about. We will chat with you

 

[L1LMAMAJ]

So I've been trying to work out but I really hate doing cardio. I run for 5 minutes and I wanna stop because I hate it. The only cardio I'll do is swimming but the pool looks gross and I don't wanna damage my hair. The swim caps don't work on me. Any tips?

 

[Susanne]

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Originally Posted by L1LMAMAJ So I've been trying to work out but I really hate doing cardio. I run for 5 minutes and I wanna stop because I hate it. The only cardio I'll do is swimming but the pool looks gross and I don't wanna damage my hair. The swim caps don't work on me. Any tips?

Try aerobics! I am doing it since 12 years now every week and it has really helped to improve my condition.

I don't like swim caps neither - if I go swimming than always with my head up

 

[L1LMAMAJ]

has anyone tried p90x?? i did some of the workouts recently and it really kicks my butt. i like the aerobics disc. i'm gonna try it out! thanks!

 

[L1LMAMAJ]

you know what sucks? most of my close friends are guys and so when they get married, i'm never one of the bridesmaids.

one of them is gonna get married next year and he hasn't asked me to be the makeup artist or bridesmaid.

i know it's hard for me to ask and i don't want them to feel obligated to give me payment cuz i really don't want anything. anyone else been in this situation?

 

[LMD84]

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Originally Posted by L1LMAMAJ you know what sucks? most of my close friends are guys and so when they get married, i'm never one of the bridesmaids. one of them is gonna get married next year and he hasn't asked me to be the makeup artist or bridesmaid. i know it's hard for me to ask and i don't want them to feel obligated to give me payment cuz i really don't want anything. anyone else been in this situation?

i've not been in that situation however i can understand that it's upsetting for you. but don't take offence. when i planned my wedding i sorted most of it. it wouldn't have even occured to nick to ask somebody to be a make up artist, let alone a bridesmaid! so i think it's more the factthey are guys and their ladies have just automatically sorted everything - rather than them just ignoring you and your skills.

i hope all bimbos have a great week this week. i have been paid today so tommorow i am getting my high lights done and going Christmas shopping. yay!

 

[Susanne]

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Originally Posted by L1LMAMAJ you know what sucks? most of my close friends are guys and so when they get married, i'm never one of the bridesmaids. one of them is gonna get married next year and he hasn't asked me to be the makeup artist or bridesmaid. i know it's hard for me to ask and i don't want them to feel obligated to give me payment cuz i really don't want anything. anyone else been in this situation?

Why don't you ask him? Say it would be an honour to be the makeup artist.

 

[L1LMAMAJ]

i offered in a casual, joking way. i didn't wanna be like, "so do u want me to do her makeup? cuz i can." i said something like, "hey congrats on the wedding! if mari needs someone to do her makeup, you know who to ask!" then he laughed and said, "yea she's planning all that stuff. u know girls."

i think that means no. which makes me sad because i really wanna help. oh well. i'm not close with her at all so i don't see a reason why she would ask me.