I was listening to people say "If he was any kind of man" The weird thing I guess for me personally is I have never associated the word MAN with Chris Brown ever...He has never appeared as anything more than just a kid to me that could sing and dance...Sure is he 20...but that does not make you a MAN....especially when these kids are thrown into celebrity life at such a young age and their childhood interrupted...Half of them still act like kids and have the mentality of kids.
Look at Michael Jackson...being thrown into adult life and situations so early sure as heck messed him up.. he is a 50 year old kid with kids. I say fame and fortune must be great...but the flip side is such a trade off...I see all these kid celebrities that are now adults talking about how tough life was being forced to think like adults with child minds. The pressure for some of these kids and young adults is probably unimaginable. While we were doing school projects and playing videos they are learning scripts, signing and reviewing contracts...Without a strong strong support system throughout this...I don't see how most make it with their sanity in tact.
I have to grown stepsons....22 and 23...they have both finished college and have good jobs but they are still immature as hell compared to girls their own age....The level of maturity between a male and female is sometimes crazy different even when they are close in age. I even sometimes have to ask my 36 y/o husband...Just how old are you???
None of this excuses any of the actions of CB..I am just merely speaking on the maturity level of some men. There are exceptions of course...but women have always matured in most cases faster than men.