SonRisa
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Have you ever had a close friend who had a problem with drugs? Or have you, yourself? How did you deal with it? Over the past 8 months or so, I learned one my best friends was doing coke. Now, I'm not a prude, nor naive, I know it happens. Some people do this (along with other things) maybe twice a year when they party - not safe by any means, but it happens and it's not seen as a big deal. Well, when I first learned of it, I was blown away (no pun intended). My group of friends always grew up smoking weed (it's pretty much legal here in SF) and I've worked in clubs, so I'm no stranger to that scene. But being around people doing coke, ecstacy etc has always bothered me. Now I feel as if it's to a point where she's addicted. She claims she isn't, and that it's not bad, weed is worse, I need to check my facts (blah blah blah). I'm not looking to end my 10 year+ friendship with this girl, but I don't wanna be around that shit. Last night in the time span of 1 hour, I "walked in" on her doing it twice. In past arguements with her, she claims she needs it to sober up. WTF? My ex, who at one point used to sell it, told me that it does indeed "sober" a drunk person up, which is why many people take it. During that specific arguement, I told her to just eat and that she'd sober up. Her excuse was that while yes, that was true, eating would not only make her gain weight (only thing open at this hour was Jack in the Box), but it would also make her tired. She *needed* coke. I pointed out that the fact that she used the term "need", proved she was addicted. I'm just at a loss about what to do. I'm trying not to be judgemental but the other thing that bothers me is that she has a an almost 2 year old son. My personal opinion is that all major drug use should cease once you have children. What happens to them if you OD? I guess it's also a touchy subject because I never met my grandfather - he oded on heroin when my mom was 17 - died in her arms . . . I guess what I'm asking it what would you do? What have you done (if ever in this position)?