Ever fantasize or dream about someone other than your SO??

[asnbrb]

hrm...

Jake Gyllenhaal and Heath Ledger.

In cowboy hats. Rowr.

*fans self*

Well, the girlies that my BF is always looking at is Hyori Lee and Boa, two Korean pop stars, so I'm OK.

 

[LatinaRose]

Totally normal and perfectly okay. I felt bad til I told my friend about my dream about Adrian Grenier (drool) and she said this:

"I'm jealous! I always have sex dreams about my boyfriend. I even told him, "why would I want to have a sex dream about you? I KNOW what sex with you is like!" "

I thought that was a very good point. Then she said, "do you really think your boyfriend ALWAYS fantasizes about you?"

Even better point.

 

[hannablefector]

Last night I had a dream that my boyfriend had a twin brother who looked and acted just like my boyfriend does. And in my dream, I fooled around with his twin brother instead of him. What kind of weird is that?

 

[frocher]

It is totally normal, I think everyone does this.

 

[TRUEFASHIONISTA]

Co-signing with the other ladies! I don't have dreams like that very often (I can probably count one hand how many I've had like that). However about a month ago I had one and it completely freaked me out.

I had a dream about Michael Rosenbaum a.k.a. Lex Luthor on Smallville. I fell asleep watching it when him and Lana were together, married. Next thing ya know; it's me and Lex, hooking up in the bedroom *blushes* and then he becomes obsessed with me.

I had to tell me friends about that one. They thought it was funny as well. I didn't tell my husband, because I know he could care less. And yes, we are still happily married, without Lex or Michael obsessing over me. LOL

 

[VeXedPiNk]

Dreams and fantasies are all perfectly normal. They're don't mean you love your partner any less or that the relationship is going to fail.

I've always been open about it. You can't feel guilty if you're not hiding anything

In addition, I've found that telling my partner about a fantasy improves our sex lives. Talking about what we both like and are interested in trying lets us both learn more about what pleases each other.

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Originally Posted by triccc yes i do. mainly if i masturbate.

Definitely true. Why fantasize about your partner when you can just actually have sex with them?

 

[macslut]

I have pretty obscene fantasies about the only male sales manager at my store. If I need something to think about that will help the masturbating progress along, I have this neat little storage of ideas about how I would molest him.

Happy Happy thoughts. But I don't have a significant other.

 

[little teaser]

whats even weirder is if you have a sexual dream about someone that you totally wouldnt have sex with even if you were single.
whats up with that?

 

[VeXedPiNk]

As said in an earlier post, your dreams are usually more symbolic than literal. You may just be using his face on a symbolization of what you like in a man.

 

[macslut]

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Originally Posted by VeXedPiNk As said in an earlier post, your dreams are usually more symbolic than literal. You may just be using his face on a symbolization of what you like in a man.

*sigh* mine are pretty literal

 

[VeXedPiNk]

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Originally Posted by macslut *sigh* mine are pretty literal

My post was intended towards little teaser's post... I'm sure yours are quite literal since you have such happy thoughts about him anyways

 

[macslut]

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Originally Posted by VeXedPiNk My post was intended towards little teaser's post... I'm sure yours are quite literal since you have such happy thoughts about him anyways

That was a dream6y sigh. Problem is is that I can't have him. It is hard working with him sometimes.

 

[macslut]

Now that I have quit my job, I think I will tell him that I have wanted to suck and fuck him dry for awhile now. At least go out with a bang so to speak.

 

[giz2000]

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Originally Posted by macslut Now that I have quit my job, I think I will tell him that I have wanted to suck and fuck him dry for awhile now. At least go out with a bang so to speak.

lol

 

[macslut]

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Originally Posted by giz2000 lol

YEP! I DID IT! "Oh by the way ____, *lacing his arm under mine while he leaned his ear down*, for about the last month, I have wanted to suck and fuck you dry. And on that note, have a marvelous day." His reaction: "Sue Sue Sue" with a big goofy smile on his face and giggling. In fact, before I left, he was still smiling.

 

[VeXedPiNk]

That's awesome!!!
Isn't it liberating to get things out like that

 

[macslut]

Yeah it was. I still have a smile on my face

 

[macslut]

But I must admit it made me horny as hell. Unreqieted (sp?) lust sucks.

 

[kaliraksha]

I have dreams about celebs, people I know, random people on the street- although strangely sometimes I have a dream that I'm physically doing it with someone else but in "spirit" I know it's my significant other. The scariest of my dreams are that I've dreamt about having sex with a some sort of demi-god - they can be like different colors or have wings or be unusually... large or strong. Oh goodness.

Yes, I do tell my SO in the morning when I roll over, but usually he's so sleepy he entirely forgets.

Now if I am fantasizing about someone in real life I don't mention it.

 

[tsukiyomi]

I do, but they are mostly girls. LOL.