Lalli
Well-known member
I think this sort of a scenario is more common with south asian people and it sucks, I feel like crap right now
Say you had a son, he was a fk bwt and u got him married and he treated his wife like crap, wouldnt you do your best to dissaprove of his actions?
You get your daughter married off with high hopes thinking she'll live a happy married life, wouldnt you see it as a natural duty to protect and love that person coming into your family? You know you always hear in the news in India/pakistan/bangladesh a daughter in law was torched to death, or was killed for giving birth to girls, or ridiculed for not providing enough dowry
my beef is guys{and girls} who get married specially from back home and think they can walk all over thier wives. They know they wont ask questions hence go out and fk about, chat to girls, sh ag around, deny it as much as you like but it does happen, even girls and guys from here do it. why do some parents not learn from their mistake, wot do they want? a slave? someone to cook clean and give birth to a large brood.
I always thought marriage was something special, I always thought that your in laws are like second parents, your second family, make you feel loved and special. guess not. Relevant thread or no relevant thread, I felt like having a rant. I know if my son was in the wrong, i'd kick his arse out of my house and punish him for his wrong doings.
Forced marriages ARE disasters. My cousin died last night. 21 years old, all alone. Twice her heart stopped, massive internal bleeding.The theatre nurse came out twice to look for her husband he did one, her heart stopped twice and all he could say was "yeh ok". When I saw her lying there she wasnt the happy cheerful girl I knew who loved everyone and was always smiling. Her mum and dad are in pakistan and havent handled it well at all, how can they
on top of that her in laws are so fkin ediats, despite the kids growing up here they dont even know how to organize a fuenral. I hope they rot in hell for everything they did to her,
My uncle collected her death certificate this morning and was told she put up a great fight, she was suffering badly, n she never said anything to anyone, her bas tard husband isnt even going to pakistan with her body.
Say you had a son, he was a fk bwt and u got him married and he treated his wife like crap, wouldnt you do your best to dissaprove of his actions?
You get your daughter married off with high hopes thinking she'll live a happy married life, wouldnt you see it as a natural duty to protect and love that person coming into your family? You know you always hear in the news in India/pakistan/bangladesh a daughter in law was torched to death, or was killed for giving birth to girls, or ridiculed for not providing enough dowry
my beef is guys{and girls} who get married specially from back home and think they can walk all over thier wives. They know they wont ask questions hence go out and fk about, chat to girls, sh ag around, deny it as much as you like but it does happen, even girls and guys from here do it. why do some parents not learn from their mistake, wot do they want? a slave? someone to cook clean and give birth to a large brood.
I always thought marriage was something special, I always thought that your in laws are like second parents, your second family, make you feel loved and special. guess not. Relevant thread or no relevant thread, I felt like having a rant. I know if my son was in the wrong, i'd kick his arse out of my house and punish him for his wrong doings.
Forced marriages ARE disasters. My cousin died last night. 21 years old, all alone. Twice her heart stopped, massive internal bleeding.The theatre nurse came out twice to look for her husband he did one, her heart stopped twice and all he could say was "yeh ok". When I saw her lying there she wasnt the happy cheerful girl I knew who loved everyone and was always smiling. Her mum and dad are in pakistan and havent handled it well at all, how can they
on top of that her in laws are so fkin ediats, despite the kids growing up here they dont even know how to organize a fuenral. I hope they rot in hell for everything they did to her,
My uncle collected her death certificate this morning and was told she put up a great fight, she was suffering badly, n she never said anything to anyone, her bas tard husband isnt even going to pakistan with her body.