heartbreak...

Shimmer

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I am posting this (and it is long) because I think our society needs a huge “Wake-up” call. As a shelter manager, I am going to share a little insight with you all...a view from the inside if you will. First off, this is a forum to for adoption and/or rehoming as clearly stated in the rules. All of you breeders/sellers on craigslist should not only be flagged (and I hope the good people on craigslist will continue to do so with blind fury), but you should be made to work in the “back” of an animal shelter for just one day. Maybe if you saw the life drain from a few sad, lost, confused eyes, you would change your mind about breeding and selling to people you don’t even know…that puppy you just sold will most likely end up in my shelter when it’s not a cute little puppy anymore. So how would you feel if you knew that there’s about a 90% chance that dog will never walk out of the shelter it is going to be dumped at? Purebred or not! About 50% of all of the dogs that are “owner surrenders” or “strays”, that come into my shelter are purebred dogs. The most common excuses I hear are; “We are moving and we can’t take our dog (or cat).” Really? Where are you moving too that doesn’t allow pets? Or they say “The dog got bigger than we thought it would”. How big did you think a German Shepherd would get? “We don’t have time for her…”. Really? I work a 10-12 hour day and still have time for my 6 dogs! “She’s tearing up our yard…”. How about making her a part of your family? They always tell me “We just don’t want to have to stress about finding a place for her…we know she’ll get adopted, she’s a good dog”. Odds are your pet won’t get adopted & how stressful do you think being in a shelter is? Well, let me tell you…your pet has 72 hours to find a new family from the moment you drop it off…sometimes a little longer if the shelter isn’t full and your dog manages to stay completely healthy…if it sniffles, it dies. Your pet will be confined to a small run/kennel in a room with about 25 other barking or crying animals. It will have to relieve itself where it eats and sleeps. It will be depressed and it will cry constantly for the family that abandoned it. If your pet is lucky, I will have enough volunteers in that day to take him/her for a walk. If I don’t, your pet won’t get any attention besides having a bowl of food slid under the kennel door and the waste sprayed out of its pen with a high-powered hose. If your dog is big, black or any of the “Bully” breeds (pit bull, rottie, mastiff, etc…) it was pretty much dead when you walked it through the front door. Those dogs just don’t get adopted. If your dog doesn’t get adopted within its 72 hours and the shelter is full, it will be destroyed. If the shelter isn’t full and your dog is good enough, and of a desirable enough breed…it may get a stay of execution…not for long though. Most get very kennel protective after about a week and are destroyed for showing aggression…even the sweetest dogs will turn in this environment. If your pet makes it over all of those hurdles…chances are it will get kennel cough or an upper respiratory infection and will be destroyed because shelters just don’t have the funds to pay for even a $100 treatment. Here’s a little euthanasia 101 for those of you that have never witnessed a perfectly healthy, scared animal being “put-down”. First, your pet will be taken from its kennel on a leash…they always look like they think they are going for a walk…happy, wagging their tails. Until they get to “The Room”, every one of them freaks out and puts on the breaks when we get to the door…it must smell like death or they can feel the sad souls that are left in there, it’s strange, but it happens with every one of them. Your dog or cat will be restrained, held down by 1 or 2 vet techs depending on the size and how freaked out they are. Then a euthanasia tech or a vet will start the process…they will find a vein in the front leg and inject a lethal dose of the “pink stuff”. Hopefully your pet doesn’t panic from being restrained and jerk…I’ve seen the needles tear out of a leg and been covered with the resulting blood and deafened by the yelps and screams. They all don’t just “go to sleep”, sometimes spasm for a while, gasp for air and defecate on themselves. When it all ends, your pets corpse will be stacked like firewood in a large freezer in the back with all of the other animals that were killed…waiting to be picked up like garbage. What happens next? Cremated? Taken to the dump? Rendered into pet food? You’ll never know and it probably won’t even cross your mind…it was just an animal and you can always buy another one right?

I hope that those of you that have read this are bawling your eyes out and can’t get the pictures out of your head…I do everyday on the way home from work. I hate my job, I hate that it exists & I hate that it will always be there unless you people make some changes and realize that the lives you are affecting go much farther than the pets you dump at a shelter. Between 9 and 11 MILLION animals die every year in shelters and only you can stop it. I do my best to save every life I can but rescues are always full, and there are more animals coming in everyday than there are homes.

My point to all of this…DON’T BREED OR BUY WHILE SHELTER PETS DIE!


Hate me or flag me if you want to…the truth hurts and reality is what it is…I just hope I maybe changed one persons mind about breeding their dog, taking their loving pet to a shelter, or buying a dog. I hope that someone will walk into my shelter and say “I saw this thing on craigslist and it made me want adopt”…that would make it all worth it.





I read this and bawled the whole goddamned time.
 

Lady_MAC

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I am extremely anti pet-ownership anyway; it's simply mondern day slavery in my eyes. Anyway, this was a very good post and I will be putting it in my myspace blog. I always encourage people to adopt if they want an animal.
 

Hawkeye

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Its ridiculous how people treat animals that if they just gave them a chance would realize that the animals would indeed be the first to put their lives on the line for them.

More times than not, my animals have always done something to let me know if im in danger. People piss me off. I mean I'm going to say it, for the most part, human beings are monsters. Pure and simple.

We kill each other, we kill anything that is smaller than we are, we hurt anything smaller or what we percieve as weaker than we are, we destroy the earth, we are just monsters.

Shimmer, thank you for trying to take care of those babies. If I could adopt them all I would. And luckily, I can! But I'm guessing it would require money. My dream is to one day have a ranch out in Montana where I can adopt all the animals the shelters have to help them but the animals will get to play and stuff.

*Sigh* *HUGS*
 

MxAxC-_ATTACK

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I used to work for a Canine adoption place , and it was definitly sad i got at LEAST 10 calls a day for people just wanting to give their dogs away.. some.. for the stupidest reasons ever. its rediculous. Im against buying from breeders or pet stores. adopted dogs know they are lucky to have a second chance. and they seriously will love you 100 times more. I also think alot of people have this thought in their head that all shelter animals are mixed up mutts .. which some are . but A LOT of them are purebred. .. I hate ignorance.
 

MxAxC-_ATTACK

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luckly the shelter i worked at was NO Kill .. animals were NEVER put down unless they were very old and needed to be put down.
 

Raerae

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I got my kitty off the streets! Poor little stray kitten. Drives me NUTS sometimes, and othertimes i can't get enough of his <3.

I remember looking at him the other day thinking that he's gonna be apart of my life for another 10-15+ years.

Mew mew!
 

MAC_Whore

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Originally Posted by Lady_MAC
I am extremely anti pet-ownership anyway; it's simply mondern day slavery in my eyes......

I appreciate your right to your opinion, but IMO, there is a difference.

Slavery:
1. system based on enslaved labor: the practice of, or a system based on, using the enforced labor of other people
2. condition of being enslaved laborer: the state or condition of being held in involuntary servitude as the property of somebody else
3. hard work: very hard work, especially for low pay and under bad conditions
4. state of being dominated: a state of being completely dominated by another

None of these statements apply to my relationship with my pets.
 

Shimmer

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mac whore I agree.
My dogs are all spoiled beyond help and GOOD DOGS. Both of the older two were my husband's and then I came along and now they uhhhh bonded with me over him (he's jealous). My brother's dog has done the same thing, and I assure you at no point in time are any of the three of them mistreated.
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Hawkeye

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I think she's referring to when they are being abused or when they are not treated correctly.

Sometimes, I agree that it is very much like slavery with how I see some people treat their pets.
 

Jaim

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Aw, man. Had to skip most of this. I'm really sensitive about animals. I love them to bits and will always get my pets from the shelters. I check the local shelter's website almost daily to see if I can find a sweet new pet! My whole family treats our two cats like princesses.
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One of them sleeps on a bigass dog pillow on the chair... actually, when she is sleeping there, I usually sit on the floor so as not to disturb her.


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Originally Posted by shimmer
Both of the older two were my husband's and then I came along and now they uhhhh bonded with me over him

Hahaha, my sister's cat is crazy about my boyfriend. She sleeps on his lap for hours at a time if he lets her and follows him around all day. It's so cute! He talks to her (even though she's 18 and completely deaf!), feeds her, pets her and combs her and she loves every minute of it.
 

Chic 2k6

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i felt sad reading your post, i do know for a fact that animals who get a second chance are the most grateful sweetest animals ever. My nanna wanted a new dog and she went to a shelter and brought home a scruffy lurcher x sheepdog called Alfie, he was dumped because A) He was too scruffy, B) He kept running away, who can blame him when his old owners beat the crap outta him.

We had him castrated as not to make anymore puppies on his walkabouts, and you can see it in his eyes that he is forever thankful to get a new home. If i ever get a dog, it'll be from a shelter.


going off topic kinda, i'm looking for a companion pony or two for my mare Sindy and instead of going straight to the breeder or the adverts, i've been phoning around rescue centres seeing if they are willing for me to take home abandoned ponies, the ones im seeing monday were the last lot at a pony market and got rejected because they were colts and cost alot to be gelded and they were a plain color
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I think there should be a stop to the breeders and just buy animals from the shelter. Here in the UK i dont think we have the 72 hour search for a family then be put down if that didnt happen, some dogs stay at a shelter for months at a time
 

Chic 2k6

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Also I want to tell you this story.

My cousins Max, Cody and my mate Joe was out for a walk, just hanging around and they saw a carrier bag that was knotted at the top to seal the bag and they saw the bag moving around so they went to investigate and they opened the bag to see a baby kitten that was only 5 weeks old inside the bag meowing scared. They took the kitty home and kept him, i dont understand how people want to dump innocent animals in carrier bags
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MxAxC-_ATTACK

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Originally Posted by Chic 2k6
Also I want to tell you this story.

My cousins Max, Cody and my mate Joe was out for a walk, just hanging around and they saw a carrier bag that was knotted at the top to seal the bag and they saw the bag moving around so they went to investigate and they opened the bag to see a baby kitten that was only 5 weeks old inside the bag meowing scared. They took the kitty home and kept him, i dont understand how people want to dump innocent animals in carrier bags
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This is so sad, and it happens all the time.. My friend found a dog in a restroom, she was tied up in a large black Garbage bag with sand on the bottom.. and thrown in the trash can. Ive i ever caught someone doing that.. o man.. they would be in for it. Its Illegal here in the states to treat animals cruely. . but i dont think the offenders get enough time for it.
 

Shimmer

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I had said husband said I could get a puppy...this is why I couldn't get one from a breeder. It's too...I can't.
 

luckyme

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This post did not make me want to cry, it made me want to throw up. Our dog is treated in our family like an equal member. This makes me so sad to hear. We moved and could not take our pet either and we adopted our cat to a family member. I could not stand the thought of one of our family member's being "put to sleep". Also, I just got back from Cancun yesterday and I could not believe how poor and impoverished Mexico is, yet these same people who can not afford to eat all were walking around with pets? How can you afford to feed an animal when you have no food for yourself? I also hate it when I am at a petstore around Easter and all these crazy parents are buying rabbits and chicks for there kids and you know damn well that when they get out of that "Cute" stage, they are going straight to the pound. I look at it like this, if you dont have 15 years to commit to a pet that you are looking at, then it is not for you, maybe you should get a Tamagachi, one of those electronic pets that you carry on your keyhain and when the battery goes dead, you toss it!
 

Julie

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This is just so sad. I try not to think about these things because it makes me so depressed but I do think more people need to know how things really are. I have 6 Golden Retrievers and they are my children. I made the choice to have all of them and it's my responsibility. Pet ownership is a huge responsiblity and I don't think alot of people understand that. I have never even been on vacation because I don't want to leave them in a kennel. They are too precious.
 

bluegrassbabe

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Originally Posted by Lady_MAC
I am extremely anti pet-ownership anyway; it's simply mondern day slavery in my eyes. .

I disagree. If anything, I slave for the dog, working to provide him with shelter, food, toys, bones, and medical care. He repays me by laying on the couch for hours on end, allowing me to rub his head, and letting me throw the slobbery ball once in a while :notworthy:

Anyway, my baby is an adoptee. I got him when he was a year and a half old. He was an owner surrender, and a purebred (boxer) as well. I would recomend adopting an older dog to anyone. They are much calmer, usually over the chewing and destruction phase, and might even come housebroken. Those are huge bonuses over puppies. Plus, they are already as big they are going to get. You also get the good feeling of knowing you gave them a second chance.
 

mzcelaneous

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Good lord. I'm glad all the pet owners I know have adopted. Call me naive, but I do not understand why some people insist on buying their animals from a breeder. Like these animals are better than the ones from the shelter
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My MIL has 4 kids, 2 dogs, 4 cats, 3 rabbits, 3 chickens, and a handful of fish. AND they've moved twice. All the animals are treated like family. ALL OF THEM. I cannot understand how people can just "drop them off" and move on.
 

Wattage

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I think they need a shelter for the owners, not the pets. The owners are the ones who need to be euthanized...

Sometimes I can't believe I am the same species as these losers.
 
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