Borrow my makeup, no f***ing way. They are welcome to use it in front of me provided it's something that can be sanitised but under no circumstances can anyone borrow that stuff. Unless we're already sharing bodily fluids *grin*.
I don't mind my mum using some of my stuff, but I admit it whole-heartedly; I'm anal. No surprise I've been chronically depressed for 6 years.
I had a heart attack when I let my friend hold one of my Nars wand glosses and she took the wand out and put the lip applicator on her fingertip to test the colour. Agh! And my mum got royally pissed off at me when I told her off for using her finger to test my Nars powder blush.
I take care of my shit, and notice that not everyone takes care of their things as anally as me. My family used to struggle when we younger, so I guess the things I have or own now, I don't take it for granted. But yeah, I'm still a freak. I still remember my poor-trash roots (as opposed to my nouveau riche trash ones forming as we speak...).