My pay is fair enough for what I do, so I have a little bit of spending money each month. However, I do have debts I'm in the process of repaying so obviously, they are my priority. It would seem very strange and unpleasant to me if my husband gave me spending money or paid for my make-up; we share all the bills and joint expenses but use our own, completely separate money for our own unnecessary-but-nice-to-have things.
I never get make-up as a present or receive gift cards either. I sometimes ask my husband or family (only when they're looking for gift suggestions!) but they never take me up on it as they reckon it's a 'silly' gift and one I wouldn't be able to keep and appreciate after the event, even though that's clearly not true!