how do you feel about
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Lyssah
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me too. I couldn't of said it better.
But boys will be boys so I'd try and be "good" and not let it bother me.
I understand that maybe he wants to go and check out a girl with a slim body (as opposed to my larger body shape) - but that still isn't gonna make me feel any better about the whole experience and touching if is completly off limits.
Originally Posted by claralikesguts
i agree with you 100%. |
me too. I couldn't of said it better.
But boys will be boys so I'd try and be "good" and not let it bother me.
I understand that maybe he wants to go and check out a girl with a slim body (as opposed to my larger body shape) - but that still isn't gonna make me feel any better about the whole experience and touching if is completly off limits.
JULIA
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I see no reason to be upset about this sort of thing. the excitement they experience when looking at these girls is only temporary and most often the guys I know who visit these places do so just for kicks. just remember that at the end of the day, your man is coming home to you and that's all that matters.
Pink_minx
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I would kind of feel uncomfortable and jealous. But I wouldnt mind if he went with friends and family just for fun. He has never been to one and says that he doesnt plan on wasting his money to go to a strip club so I dont have to worry about it hhaha. But he doesnt mind me going to a female or male stripclub. I havent been to one, Im sure it would be fun with my girlfriends but I just dont have the money to spend on strippers I rather buy make up and clothes lol.
Funtabulous
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I can't even stand the thought of him going. Luckily he doesn't seem to be the type to want to. It doesn't have anything to do with feminism, or viewing women as sex objects. I'm actually ok with that, so long as women aren't ONLY viewed as sex objects (and only at appropriate times.) It just crosses a boundary for us. I would find it disrespectful to us and the intimacy we share. That's something that is reserved for us. In other words, it's cheating to me when it involves a real life women and there is some form of sexual contact. Of course, everyone draws their lines differently. But it is certainly not true that all guys go.
For the record, I don't view pornography as cheating, but I do think it can be... problematic.
For the record, I don't view pornography as cheating, but I do think it can be... problematic.
