i went to a strip club last night lol

[user3]

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Originally Posted by ZLoves2Shop It's serious if I am straight. What am I suppose to get out of that, some other womans stink (and that of the others she was with) on me, for his enjoyment only.

I will be totally honest. I find a woman's body WAY more attractive than a man's. With that said, yes I am straight. I won't lie I tried it out before. Wasn't for me.
However, I have no problem with a sexy woman coming on to me. Doesn't mean I will take the bait but it's damn flattering!
My husband honestly does not want a man or a woman rubbing up against me nor does he enjoy strip clubs. I've been with him since highschool and he's never even been to one. I have but only twice. One male and one female.

Anyways.....(TMI)


Now about male strippers. I don't mind looking at a beautiful body but I just don't like to see them dancing around. I would much rather see the work of art in photos. JMO

 

[Chelly]

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Originally Posted by ZLoves2Shop It's serious if I am straight. What am I suppose to get out of that, some other womans stink (and that of the others she was with) on me, for his enjoyment only. If he needs to see you with another woman to get it going, you may not be doing it for him, has that ever crossed anyone's mind? A woman has nothing to offer me that way, Now if he were to offer a man that's diferent. :hump:

darling lighten up - its not that big of a deal

i've been to gentlemens clubs and i've been to a chipndales type of place as well - its all fun n games hun

 

[Chelly]

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Originally Posted by msthrope i dunno...people keep telling my things are different in the states, but around here, each set ends with the girl on her back; stark naked; her legs spread eagled in the air; and guys pelting loonies at her twat. i think it's the height of degradation and humiliation for all involved.

whaat?! thats nuts! - definatly not what i was seeing @ this place lol i probalby wouldnt go to a fully nude strip club anyways - no liquor served there!

 

[Chelly]

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Originally Posted by ZLoves2Shop If he needs to see you with another woman to get it going, you may not be doing it for him, has that ever crossed anyone's mind?

excuse YOU with that comment! my boyfriend has only been to TWO strip clubs in his life - one time to each - so im gonan say i DOUBT that he cant get it goin unless he sees another girl - watch your tongue huni

 

[kaliraksha]

to Zloves2shop, yeah I always tease my boyfriend about my "payback" where I take him to a male strip club and he gets to watch me have a male lap dance... and he hates it... haha but for me him being jealous is totally cute and somewhat of a turn on... and I don't really mind having a lap dance... I'm comfortable with it because I appreciate beauty and how wacky it is from my normal Friday night.

I agree with Nessa about the male body/female body... my boyfriend has never been to a strip club without me... we mostly go because its loud and loungy with eyecandy and we get drunk. I've been to a male strip club and it was uncomfortable because I felt bad if I didn't look and felt bad if I did look. With a female one I could appreciate a girls great skin, nice butt, make up, costume, hair style... whatever. Just more to appreciate on a woman... I love guys... but I like them dressed in all black smelling of sexy cologne picking me up for dinner... that's way hotter than in a thong with the Texas flag on it.

 

[neyugNneiL]

Male strippers are so cheesy! The male strip clubs I've been to don't allow men in the club--gay or straight men. I wouldn't want to go to the male strip club with my man anyways.
I agree that femail dancers are much more pleasing to the eye and I am straight. I can appreciate a beautiful female body.

Last time I went to the strip club, I bought a lap dance for my fiance. I even picked out the girl. No biggie. I think this was at Hustler's in New Orleans.

"There's no sex in the champagne room."

 

[msthrope]

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Originally Posted by Chelly whaat?! thats nuts! - definatly not what i was seeing @ this place lol i probalby wouldnt go to a fully nude strip club anyways - no liquor served there!

that's how all strip clubs are here and they are fully licensed. or girls on all fours, stark naked, with a promo poster shoved in her ass crack while guys pelt loonies at the poster hoping to knock it out and win it. guys get just obnoxious too; i have heard on more than one occasion of guys getting kicked out for heating the loonies up with a lighter before they pelt them so they burn the girl on impact.

there are fully nude male strippers here as well.

 

[lovemichelle]

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Originally Posted by 'Nessa I will be totally honest. I find a woman's body WAY more attractive than a man's. With that said, yes I am straight. I won't lie I tried it out before. Wasn't for me. However, I have no problem with a sexy woman coming on to me. Doesn't mean I will take the bait but it's damn flattering! My husband honestly does not want a man or a woman rubbing up against me nor does he enjoy strip clubs. I've been with him since highschool and he's never even been to one. I have but only twice. One male and one female. Anyways.....(TMI) Now about male strippers. I don't mind looking at a beautiful body but I just don't like to see them dancing around. I would much rather see the work of art in photos. JMO

I rather look at a man then a women any day. I like how (i wont say men because i dont look at other men, but) my boyfriend looks and feels and its way more pleasing then a women. Most women look fake and made-up to me. Men are pure and thats what I love about them. Plus, women are just stank in my opinion. When you dress like a hoe thats how I will treat you and just from public restrooms I would never go near a women on a close basis. As far as strip clubs go, my boyfriend has been to them in FL while he was single, but never when involved. For him and I it's just understood we don't need that kind of "fun" because we have each other for those kinds of things. Some people find it all cute or whatever, but that will never be me. I was never a club goer and neither was he.

 

[msthrope]

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Originally Posted by ZLoves2Shop What am I suppose to get out of that, some other womans stink (and that of the others she was with) on me

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Originally Posted by lovemichelle Plus, women are just stank in my opinion.

what's up with the seriously anti-female sentiment? are you two not females yourselves? or do you just never expect anyone to go down on you (pardon the bluntness and i don't expect an answer, but it is a valid point for thought considering what you said above).

 

[stacey]

Wow, I am way to insecure to do that for my husband! I don't think I would ever go to a strip joint with my husband or even let me husband go period. I get upset with him if he looks at another women let alone a stripper?

wow. I give you props...

 

[litlaur]

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Originally Posted by ZLoves2Shop Offend the stripper? If that were a problem for her/him, they wouldn't strip for a living.

No, but who (other than comedians, clowns, etc...) wants to get laughed at while they're doing their job?

 

[scrapbookromance]

tyra banks (I think that's her name, the Victoria's Secret model with the talk show) went undercover to a few strip clubs and talked to the guys and the dancers. she was on (I may be wrong) an nbc news channel, and she did an episode of her talk show about it. apparently what she discovered is that the guys find is amusing because to them its experiencing a fantasy they couldn't have in real life with their woman. or women don't usually approach them but in the clubs they do. she said many women think when they leave the club they leave the fantasy there, but many men said they go home and make love to their wives/girlfriends and they're thinking about the stripper and not their woman.

I don't know about other ladies, but I know I can't get inside my man's head as much as I want to think I can - so who knows what he's thinking about when we're in bed. I can only hope he's thinking about me

 

[Ms. Z]

It has nothing to do with insecurity. You should never do anything that you don't feel comfortable with.

People will always look at other people, its natural, but looking at other woman in your presence is disrespectful, how would he feel if you did that on front of him? I've tried this on someone, and he didn't like it.

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Originally Posted by stacey Wow, I am way to insecure to do that for my husband! I don't think I would ever go to a strip joint with my husband or even let me husband go period. I get upset with him if he looks at another women let alone a stripper? wow. I give you props...

 

[Ms. Z]

Could you be more wrong? I will reply & explain what some may have misunderstood as a sexist comment.

Did you really read it?
"What am I suppose to get out of that, some other womans stink (and that of the others she was with) on me"


I am a big supporter of woman’s rights and I find it offensive that a man would think that a woman is only good for making babies, housekeeping, make-up and work that involves taking off their clothes.


It's not a sexist statement, I didn't want to be very blunt because as woman I beloved that you'd figure it out. After the lap dance performs, does he/she get up, wash up and
change the outfit?
Why do guys get lap dances? Do you not think that it gets them excited (next time any of you go to a strip club check out the male patrons, why not? your man is checking out other woman, why can't you check out male crotch area?), which causes body fluids to flow (his and hers).
Why would I want all these strangers’ body fluids all over me? And c’mon do you think all woman smell like april flowers down below. Now, do you understand how that’s not a sexist comment.

As I hear it, even some of the strippers think lap dances are nasty. I have gone 3x to see male strippers, and I do not allow them to touch me.






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Originally Posted by msthrope what's up with the seriously anti-female sentiment? are you two not females yourselves? or do you just never expect anyone to go down on you (pardon the bluntness and i don't expect an answer, but it is a valid point for thought considering what you said above).

 

[lovemichelle]

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Originally Posted by msthrope what's up with the seriously anti-female sentiment? are you two not females yourselves? or do you just never expect anyone to go down on you (pardon the bluntness and i don't expect an answer, but it is a valid point for thought considering what you said above).

yes, I know i'm a female, but i cant stand other females. so many of them are gross and thats not me.

 

[Ms. Z]

I wanted to see that, unfortunately I'm at work at that time.
I hope its on the re-caps next week on her website.

http://tyrashow.warnerbros.com/

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tyra banks (I think that's her name, the Victoria's Secret model with the talk show) went undercover to a few strip clubs and talked to the guys and the dancers. she was on (I may be wrong) an nbc news channel, and she did an episode of her talk show about it. apparently what she discovered is that the guys find is amusing because to them its experiencing a fantasy they couldn't have in real life with their woman. or women don't usually approach them but in the clubs they do. she said many women think when they leave the club they leave the fantasy there, but many men said they go home and make love to their wives/girlfriends and they're thinking about the stripper and not their woman.

I

 

[Chelly]

bottem line - lighten up - its really not such a big deal

 

[sbetsy]

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Originally Posted by msthrope that's how all strip clubs are here and they are fully licensed. or girls on all fours, stark naked, with a promo poster shoved in her ass crack while guys pelt loonies at the poster hoping to knock it out and win it. guys get just obnoxious too; i have heard on more than one occasion of guys getting kicked out for heating the loonies up with a lighter before they pelt them so they burn the girl on impact. there are fully nude male strippers here as well.

That's messed up!!! I can't imagine being at a club like that. I've been to strip clubs before and they were nothing like that. I had a boyfriend who was a bike messenger in DC and he and our friends and I used to go to strip clubs on occassion. I always had a pretty good time. My friends weren't creepy and spent most of their time talking to one another and drinking (as opposed to leering at the women). They used to give me LOTS of money to give to the dancers. They loved seeing me give the money (They thought that was hilarious/awesome) to the dancers and I loved how much money the dancers were able to get out of my friends!

My current boyfriend has been to strip clubs with his friends (bachelor parties...) before we started dating but we haven't been together. I think it might be kinda fun to go with him. The sexually charged atmosphere (sexually charged in a different way than what we can create "on our own") would be interesting...

I'm straight. I say that because I've had an experience with another female and was kinda creeped out by it. That said, I can appreciate the sexiness of a woman's body - I just don't want to interact with it!

 

[Jude]

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Originally Posted by Chelly bottem line - lighten up - its really not such a big deal

I love you more and more every day.

 

[Chelly]

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Originally Posted by Jude I love you more and more every day.