Ladies: Have you cheated?

[ashleyisawesome]

I've never cheated, and I never will. I've been cheated on. I was with a guy for 3 years, not knowing that he was having sex with whatever girl he could. I know how that makes a person feel, and I'd never put that on someone that I love. And if I don't love someone or see it going anywhere, I will break up with them. There's no point in dragging it on.

 

[SassyMochaJess]

Yes I have cheated, not proud but nor am I ashamed...

 

[xxManBeaterxx]

I never cheated. I have way to much to lose with a 7 year marriage and a 4 year old and twins on the way...

 

[rbella]

Nope, never have never will. Love Mr. Rbella way too much. However, I am having an emotional relationship with one Mr. Randy Rose. He is my only loved one (male) outside of my husband. If he was straight, we'd have problems!!!
J/k!!

 

[yodagirl]

I have cheated once....It was one of the biggest mistakes I've ever made and nothing I'm proud of

 

[snowflakelashes]

Well I would have to be in a relationship first to cheat, and I've never been in a relationship.

But I think because I have been single for SOOOOOOOOO long that I will truely appreciate love should I ever be blessed with it. And no matter what I wouldn't cheat, if a guy was mean I would leave him.

Again not likely to be a problem for me, I think I am an old cat lady type! lol

 

[Little Addict]

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Originally Posted by snowflakelashes Well I would have to be in a relationship first to cheat, and I've never been in a relationship. But I think because I have been single for SOOOOOOOOO long that I will truely appreciate love should I ever be blessed with it. And no matter what I wouldn't cheat, if a guy was mean I would leave him. Again not likely to be a problem for me, I think I am an old cat lady type! lol

ditto!
but I'm probably not an old cat lady ... more like an old dog lady

 

[benzito_714]

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Originally Posted by Beauty Mark If you sincerely believed that you were under the impression that you could see others (open relationship), that isn't really cheating. Maybe a gross misunderstanding, but I don't think it's cheating

yeah that's what i thought but after he saw that i went to the prom with another guy (not mine-his) he poured his heart out to his friends and some of mine how i done him wrong and that he borderline hated me.

 

[jennifer.]

definitely not proud of it but i've done it so many times i can't even count. especially when i was married. i got married at 18 (i've been divorced for 6 yrs) and wasn't anywhere ready for a committed relationship. i didn't even consider myself ready until my late 20s. everything really changed for me when i turned 30 though and now the person i'm with, i would never even consider betraying him like that. i know people always say "once a cheater..." but i like to consider myself proof that it isn't always true.

as far as i know, i've been cheated on once and it hurt so much, that was enough to change my ways. for good.

 

[Holy Rapture]

Never did ... Never had to ... Also, never really been cheated on ...

Nice poll though ... Not like only guyz always cheat ... Anyone could!

 

[Beauty Mark]

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Originally Posted by benzito_714 yeah that's what i thought but after he saw that i went to the prom with another guy (not mine-his) he poured his heart out to his friends and some of mine how i done him wrong and that he borderline hated me.

I think that's the thing with open relationships: some people think they can handle 'em but cannot.

I'm not against the idea of open relationships, but I think it takes a lot of honesty with yourself and someone else to go into one

 

[cupcake_x]

Yes, I've cheated twice. But it's something I'll never do again.

 

[Cutetoughgirl]

well i was on the outs with my ex.....we decided to try to ''give it another try'' but we never seen each other and well i met someone else.....and figured if i was doing that i clearly didnt want to be with the other one...and never looked back.......so i don't know if thats cheating!!???

 

[cupcake_x]

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Originally Posted by Cutetoughgirl well i was on the outs with my ex.....we decided to try to ''give it another try'' but we never seen each other and well i met someone else.....and figured if i was doing that i clearly didnt want to be with the other one...and never looked back.......so i don't know if thats cheating!!???

Semi-cheating?

 

[UrbanEast]

I haven't in a very long time.

 

[Prinsesa]

Nope never have cheated..I don't want my guy doing the same thing so

 

[NewlyMACd]

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Originally Posted by jennifer. definitely not proud of it but i've done it so many times i can't even count. especially when i was married. i got married at 18 (i've been divorced for 6 yrs) and wasn't anywhere ready for a committed relationship. i didn't even consider myself ready until my late 20s. everything really changed for me when i turned 30 though and now the person i'm with, i would never even consider betraying him like that. i know people always say "once a cheater..." but i like to consider myself proof that it isn't always true. as far as i know, i've been cheated on once and it hurt so much, that was enough to change my ways. for good.

same here almost except I was much older than 18. I married a great guy but was so caught up in the wedding and not the marriage that I didn't realize I was missing some things in the marriage. Then along came a guy (old friend) and my hubby gave me an ultimatum. Not good to do to me cuz I am a quick reactor so I moved out. I didn't mean to and now I understand when people say it. You never know how a person feels unless you walk their shoes. That goes for cheaters and the cheated. I have been on both sides.

 

[Calhoune]

I haven't but I think that's only because of the fact that I've had it done to me and know how much it hurts so I couldn't do that. Especially not to my b/f since he's the sweetest guy ever, but I don't think I'm so high and mighty that I wouldn't do it if I had a crap boyfriend, who knows

 

[greengoesmoo]

I seriously considered it toward the end of my last relationship, but simply because i was not getting laid.

I find I am only tempted to cheat if I am starved of attention.

I haven't done the deed.. but I have grabbed someone's butt (about three times) whilst in a relationship..

Although, in reflection, some relationships I loook back and think "damn, I should have just done it!" lol

No regrets!

 

[westindiesangel]

When I was in a serious relationship I would never. For example, this guy tried to get me to date him instead of my boyfriend. I was tempted because I've known him for a loooong time and always thought he was hot but I told him to get lost. And I was so glad because when it was over between me and my boyfriend, I went after this same guy and he tried to play me with another girl! Should have seen that one coming in retrospect, eh?

However, a couple months back I was in a relationship with this guy. I don't even know why...I was bored & lonely. But I did cheat on him...and broke up with him a little after that. Strangely, I never felt bad or guilty about it...I just figure it's because I had so little feelings for him. I feel worse about it now, because obviously it's a sleazy thing to do.