Miss Pumpkin
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I know he is worth any pain I might feel now... I just hope things will work out and we can be together soon, this hurts so much... I'm having an awful day today
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MxAxC-_ATTACK
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WHAT . no .. look at you. Hes not gonna find a more beautiful and amazing woman. dont be silly.
you two look sooo fantastic together. In the pictures you can tell he dodes over you. LOOK!! do it now!
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I just get so scared sometimes that he will find a more beautiful and amazing woman there a
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WHAT . no .. look at you. Hes not gonna find a more beautiful and amazing woman. dont be silly.
you two look sooo fantastic together. In the pictures you can tell he dodes over you. LOOK!! do it now!
Miss Pumpkin
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Thank you... I just get really scared sometimes, I don't have the highest self esteem in the world...
Today he told me that he loves me much more than he even thought he did, and I got all
A month has gone already... I hope we don't have to wait much more because I miss him soooooooooo bad.
| Originally Posted by MxAxC-_ATTACK
WHAT . no .. look at you. Hes not gonna find a more beautiful and amazing woman. dont be silly. you two look sooo fantastic together. In the pictures you can tell he dodes over you. LOOK!! do it now! |
Thank you... I just get really scared sometimes, I don't have the highest self esteem in the world...
Today he told me that he loves me much more than he even thought he did, and I got all
A month has gone already... I hope we don't have to wait much more because I miss him soooooooooo bad.
glueme
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You know, I used to be one of those people that were baffled by internet relationships. I found them slightly creepy, in that you have never had any sort of physical connection with them (be it a 'hi', a handshake, etc).
So when I found out my cousin was going to Russia (we're in Canada) to meet his internet-met girlfriend, me (and everyone else int he family, we're all very close) were shocked. But he came back fine, and even immediately scheduled his next trip.
Threeish years later she's immigrated to Canada and they're married with the most beautiful Chinese/Russian baby boy. Everyone in the family loves her, and I think we've all be turned around regarding interenet relationships.
Just wanted to share my story.
So when I found out my cousin was going to Russia (we're in Canada) to meet his internet-met girlfriend, me (and everyone else int he family, we're all very close) were shocked. But he came back fine, and even immediately scheduled his next trip.
Threeish years later she's immigrated to Canada and they're married with the most beautiful Chinese/Russian baby boy. Everyone in the family loves her, and I think we've all be turned around regarding interenet relationships.
Just wanted to share my story.
Miss Pumpkin
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People are still hesitant about internet relationships... but there are so many couples nowadays who meet online!
I'm missing him soooooooooo much I can't even explain it.
I'm so sad without him...
I'm missing him soooooooooo much I can't even explain it.
I'm so sad without him...
Bre
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Hi Miss Pumpkin
I too am in a long distance relationship, my boyfriend is in the army and on deployment at the moment. When he isn't touring we're 2 plane rides apart, me at the bottom of Australia him at the top. On this particular deployment I was one week off visiting him before he got sent away.
Distance sux massively but when we are together it's great cause there is no time for the little issues and no time to waste in arguement. And even though I miss him so much at the moment (and haven't spoken to him for 9 days cause he's just been shifted to a place with no telephones!), I also can't wait till I see him again and in a lot of ways that makes me want him even more
I hope we get them back again soon!
I too am in a long distance relationship, my boyfriend is in the army and on deployment at the moment. When he isn't touring we're 2 plane rides apart, me at the bottom of Australia him at the top. On this particular deployment I was one week off visiting him before he got sent away.
Distance sux massively but when we are together it's great cause there is no time for the little issues and no time to waste in arguement. And even though I miss him so much at the moment (and haven't spoken to him for 9 days cause he's just been shifted to a place with no telephones!), I also can't wait till I see him again and in a lot of ways that makes me want him even more
I hope we get them back again soon!
Miss Pumpkin
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I need lots of support right now... I'm on my winter exams period and I just can't concentrate... I miss him soooooooooooooo damn much all I can do is want to cry all the time...
And I don't even have friends to hug me and comfort me or let me cry on their shoulder. I try to hold back the tears every day, but this hurts so much.
I need to be with him soon... He sent his application form for his irish citizenship, then he can get his european passport. But we don't know how long it's going to take to get the citizenship, and not knowing when will I see him again kills me inside...
And I don't even have friends to hug me and comfort me or let me cry on their shoulder. I try to hold back the tears every day, but this hurts so much.
I need to be with him soon... He sent his application form for his irish citizenship, then he can get his european passport. But we don't know how long it's going to take to get the citizenship, and not knowing when will I see him again kills me inside...
Holly
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Yeah I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, and we met over the net. I'm supposed to move to Florida really soon to be with him, but it's just been really hard on us both, because my parents hate him because I had a really really big phone bill (over 3 grand) about 2 years ago and they think me talking to him was like the biggest mistake of my life, and they absolutely hate internet relationships (They believe that people on the internet aren't real, or are all perverts) so I'm afraid of them just like disowning me.
Honestly out of all the relationships I've had, this one has been the best, we are both totally honest with each other, same interests, sense of humour, etc. And I think it's just going to be even better when I move down.
Best of luck to you n your man Pumpkin
Honestly out of all the relationships I've had, this one has been the best, we are both totally honest with each other, same interests, sense of humour, etc. And I think it's just going to be even better when I move down.
Best of luck to you n your man Pumpkin
Miss Pumpkin
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Aawww that's a hard situation you have
I wish you the best of luck too and I hope you can be with your man soon and your parents will grow to understand you! Lots of hugs!!
And thanks so much giz2000!!!
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Yeah I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, and we met over the net. I'm supposed to move to Florida really soon to be with him, but it's just been really hard on us both, because my parents hate him because I had a really really big phone bill (over 3 grand) about 2 years ago and they think me talking to him was like the biggest mistake of my life, and they absolutely hate internet relationships (They believe that people on the internet aren't real, or are all perverts) so I'm afraid of them just like disowning me. Honestly out of all the relationships I've had, this one has been the best, we are both totally honest with each other, same interests, sense of humour, etc. And I think it's just going to be even better when I move down. Best of luck to you n your man Pumpkin
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Aawww that's a hard situation you have
And thanks so much giz2000!!!
Miss Pumpkin
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I'm feeling soooooooooo down right now... The only thing we can do right now is sit and wait for him to receive his Irish citizenship, but I have no idea of how long this will take. And I'm feeling soooo depressed. I get so scared that he will think I'm not worth all this hassle, or that distance will get in the way... I'm at work right now and all I want to do is cry because I miss him so much and I don't know when I will be with him again...
Janice
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I'm sorry this time is difficult for ya'll right now.
We've seen the very real and physical connection that you two have... even if it is just images we see it's there, and it's real. He loves you, you are worth it, and you two will see each other again, hopefully very soon.
kaliraksha
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Oh Sandra =(
You are absolutely worth it, he knows it. You guys have gotten through so much- it can only get better and better. You have plenty of friends to cry too, we're called Specktra!
You are absolutely worth it, he knows it. You guys have gotten through so much- it can only get better and better. You have plenty of friends to cry too, we're called Specktra!
Miss Pumpkin
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He got a letter from the Irish Consulate asking him for a couple more documents for Irish Citizenship application... I guess it's a good sign becasue it means they're processing it already!!!
Please everyone keep us in your thoughts and prayers, if he gets his Irish citizenship it means he can move to Europe,and we can finally live together.
Please everyone keep us in your thoughts and prayers, if he gets his Irish citizenship it means he can move to Europe,and we can finally live together.
glamdoll
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I hope it all works for you. Though I cant relate on the distance level I know what its like to miss someone you love.. my husband works 30 minutes away n I miss him terribly!! and when I had to go to Mexico on family business and he went to New York for vacation w his friends (we were only dating then) I missed him like I had never missed anyone.. all i did was talk, think write about him!
but Lets hope it all turns out good for you guys!
Hang in there!
but Lets hope it all turns out good for you guys!
Hang in there!
aquarius11
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Yay, that's GREAT news!! I hope everything works out for you guys!
*crosses fingers*
*crosses fingers*
franimal
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You guys are really beautiful together! My boyfriend just got out of the army but it was really hard when I only got to see him once a year. He was away for three years in Germany while I was in college in California. I think that distance made us grow closer and we appreciate every day we spend together. Also whenever he came home it felt like we were on our first date. It was so exciting to see eachother and experience eachother in person. (And the sex was amazing
)Hopefully you will learn something out of this experience but I do feel for you and I know its hard. But in some ways, now that I look back on my first years of college, I appreciate that we had our space from eachother because it really encouraged me to meet new people and have some crazy fun. Take the time apart and use it wisely, do things for yourself and find ways to make yourself happy. That is my advice for you. You will be together soon. I wish you both good luck and that he gets his citizenship!
Kiwi Girlie
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I met my current boyfriend through another guy I met over the internet, We have been going out on and off for 4 years + now. He lives in the same Country which is a Bonus but not the same City, he lives over 6 hours away. We definately Have had some rough times, But we always come back to eachother. We were best friends before we started going out spent endless days Chatting online and the phone about the most random things, I still remember the first day we met irl like it was yesterday
Sometimes I think that the long distance has helped us be as close as we are, as you really appreciate the time you do get together, And you know that they must care a hell of alot about you to be with you and not a girl in the same place.
Im planning on moving to be with him in 3 months, so I can't wait for that.
Everything will work out eventually, good things take time
Goodluck!
Sometimes I think that the long distance has helped us be as close as we are, as you really appreciate the time you do get together, And you know that they must care a hell of alot about you to be with you and not a girl in the same place.
Im planning on moving to be with him in 3 months, so I can't wait for that.
Everything will work out eventually, good things take time
Goodluck!
