I'll go out on a limb here and say the staining is a deal-breaker for me--I don't think that these colors are directly dupable. But I'd look for a non-staining version of other lines. I had Chanel Super which is another vibrantly nuclear pink, and it didn't stain at all. So I don't think staining is inherent in the dye set, unless the orchid dye is setting it off (Chanel Super is not orchid, but it is cool). For me, the problem is that the staining is spilling onto the next day for people. KYY is a gorgeous color, honestly, I could become obsessed with it. It breaks my heart to say this. But I think I'd have to plan around that staining problem and I just don't have the bandwidth/discipline/time to do that.
For dodgy girl, I'd look around at all of the Pantone "radiant orchid" type colors for a similar tone (again, Dodgy Girl is unique, so I don't think you'll find a direct dupe). However, Sephora Pantone Radiant Orchid lipstick has the very same staining problem--a few go's with an oil cleanser didn't get it off. So I'd be careful looking at dupes for an orchid--you may get staining.
I know you are cool toned, Elegant, so I'm guessing Jolly Good would work for you. My sense is that it's a lot like Hourglass Ambient powders--it has that glowy/satin look (the bronzer side). If you have Ambient Diffused or similar, you may have something already in your stash that's very similar.
Would love to know anyone's thoughts about Jolly Good MSF for fair/warm skin tones? Is it too cool for an NC15?