blindpassion
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Agree with MissChievous. Making love is when you love the person.
Making love vs. ......?
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user46
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Well...
I'm like this hopeless romantic that would loveee to make love. And I remember when my man and I first got together and we were "making love" ...and i just felt so good. Like... he was asking me how I want it and doing it slow and kissing and just ...all that you would think of when you think of love making.
Now ... we don't fuck. we don't make love. our sex is kinda boring now, actually.
I'm like this hopeless romantic that would loveee to make love. And I remember when my man and I first got together and we were "making love" ...and i just felt so good. Like... he was asking me how I want it and doing it slow and kissing and just ...all that you would think of when you think of love making.
Now ... we don't fuck. we don't make love. our sex is kinda boring now, actually.
Lapis
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It's Xmas blowfish.com and find some spice
I think making love is when you feel open and vulnerable for women, it's that man that whatever he's doing makes you feel like he just crowned you queen, like he's worshiping your body or something, and that starts a cycle where he does what pleases you, your reaction pleases him, he seeks to please you more but it doesn't mean it must be slow deliberate type sex, it's just that for a woman when a man is taking his time with us touching us where we like, putting his needs on the back burner I think we react more strongly to him cause that's rarer, so that's what we elevate.
Originally Posted by MACpro__*
Now ... we don't fuck. we don't make love. our sex is kinda boring now, actually. |
It's Xmas blowfish.com and find some spice
I think making love is when you feel open and vulnerable for women, it's that man that whatever he's doing makes you feel like he just crowned you queen, like he's worshiping your body or something, and that starts a cycle where he does what pleases you, your reaction pleases him, he seeks to please you more but it doesn't mean it must be slow deliberate type sex, it's just that for a woman when a man is taking his time with us touching us where we like, putting his needs on the back burner I think we react more strongly to him cause that's rarer, so that's what we elevate.
TheeBettyBoop
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My week has been horrible!!!!! and this sure made me laugh today.
| Originally Posted by CaraAmericana
Making Love is with your husband Sex is with your boyfriend when you dont want your husband Fucking is with "Ritchie" from the downtown club when you husband is at home with dirty boxers on and your boyfriend is at a different club fucking "Rita" Will I have to edit this? |
My week has been horrible!!!!! and this sure made me laugh today.
Prinsesa
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There is a difference
Like what the other ladies just said, makign love is more slow and your man kisses you more and makes you feel RELAXED as fuck. LOL! and you say sweet nothings to each other..no hair pulling lmao. Sex is just rough, I think a serious couple could have both. It just takes a serious man to make love to you cause guys like to have sex more if they dont love you.lol
M.A.C. head.
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I think the only difference is if the people doing it are mutually in love *shrugs*
IMO it doesn't matter if it's soft and sensual or hardcore banging, if those involved are in love, it's love making.
Same thing goes for those who are not mutually in love, it just is what it is.
IMO it doesn't matter if it's soft and sensual or hardcore banging, if those involved are in love, it's love making.
Same thing goes for those who are not mutually in love, it just is what it is.
iadoremac
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Oh I think there is a huge difference between making love and having sex. Making love is using sex as a tool to express love to someone so its more subtle romantic gentle and meaningful while have sex is pretty much "scratching an itch" kinda like what you see in porn, which can be done with anybody. I think every good relationship shoulc have a combination of the two.
X4biddenxLustX
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When I think of intercourse I think of 3 different categories for it.
Fucking- I usually associate this with one night stands, random hookups with this. You do it just cause you want to feel good and get off. Theres absolutely no emotional connection coming from both sides. Hell there doesn't even need to be a physical attraction thing going on! Your just here for a quick easy lay.
Sex- Theres a bit more attraction and or connection from both partners in this. But your main goal still is just to feel good and get off. Basically fucking but much nicer but not on the same level as making love.
Making Love- It can be anyway you like it, fast and rough or slow and gentle. But theres that intense connection and love between the two partners and you want to show the other person without having to say "I love you, blah blah blah" how strongly you feel about them.
Fucking- I usually associate this with one night stands, random hookups with this. You do it just cause you want to feel good and get off. Theres absolutely no emotional connection coming from both sides. Hell there doesn't even need to be a physical attraction thing going on! Your just here for a quick easy lay.
Sex- Theres a bit more attraction and or connection from both partners in this. But your main goal still is just to feel good and get off. Basically fucking but much nicer but not on the same level as making love.
Making Love- It can be anyway you like it, fast and rough or slow and gentle. But theres that intense connection and love between the two partners and you want to show the other person without having to say "I love you, blah blah blah" how strongly you feel about them.
chocolategoddes
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The topic of this thread reminds me of this Ludacris song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JlEXFMqe_8
You've got your "love making" and then you got your "fucking".
This is back when Luda was making dirtier songs and had cornrows.
The good ol' days.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JlEXFMqe_8
You've got your "love making" and then you got your "fucking".
This is back when Luda was making dirtier songs and had cornrows.
The good ol' days.
X4biddenxLustX
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^^ Rofl i remember this from back in the day. I was wat in middle school when this first came out? lol. But luda couldn't of said it better though!
FWBChick
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now that I think about it...what the hell happened to Luda?! I miss the "what's your fantasy" days!
and my 2 cents: I'm with the people who say that "making love" is cheesy. I feel like it's some crap out of the movies or something. No one talked like that where I'm from, so it just sounds stupid to me. I don't think it means you have any less connection with someone...everyone's language is different. I *HAVE* laughed at someone who said that to me
and my 2 cents: I'm with the people who say that "making love" is cheesy. I feel like it's some crap out of the movies or something. No one talked like that where I'm from, so it just sounds stupid to me. I don't think it means you have any less connection with someone...everyone's language is different. I *HAVE* laughed at someone who said that to me
MissResha
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making love sounds old to me. maybe when i'm like 70 i'll be making love.
but right now, i fuck lol. i consider it the same. sex is the ACT in itself, so thats a no-brainer. FUCKING and MAKING LOVE is just the style. and i prefer to fuck. i always try to do the slow romantic shit, but who am i kidding...i like to have the kinda sex that matches my age. young and vivacious. rawr.
but right now, i fuck lol. i consider it the same. sex is the ACT in itself, so thats a no-brainer. FUCKING and MAKING LOVE is just the style. and i prefer to fuck. i always try to do the slow romantic shit, but who am i kidding...i like to have the kinda sex that matches my age. young and vivacious. rawr.
MACandie2012
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i kno that's right girl. same here.
| Originally Posted by MissResha
making love sounds old to me. maybe when i'm like 70 i'll be making love. but right now, i fuck lol. i consider it the same. sex is the ACT in itself, so thats a no-brainer. FUCKING and MAKING LOVE is just the style. and i prefer to fuck. i always try to do the slow romantic shit, but who am i kidding...i like to have the kinda sex that matches my age. young and vivacious. rawr. |
i kno that's right girl. same here.
MissMochaXOXO
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i see them both as the same thing. i love my man and we ''.....'' but it's out of love so it doesn't just feel like a ''.....'' to me, but i'd rather think of it as making love then just ''....-ing'' lol
xoleaxo
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LOL! i agree.
"making love" sounds corny. i'm never gonna ask my husband to make love to me. who says that? he would probably bust out laughing! way to set the mood.. lol.
| Originally Posted by MissResha
making love sounds old to me. maybe when i'm like 70 i'll be making love. but right now, i fuck lol. i consider it the same. sex is the ACT in itself, so thats a no-brainer. FUCKING and MAKING LOVE is just the style. and i prefer to fuck. i always try to do the slow romantic shit, but who am i kidding...i like to have the kinda sex that matches my age. young and vivacious. rawr. |
LOL! i agree.
"making love" sounds corny. i'm never gonna ask my husband to make love to me. who says that? he would probably bust out laughing! way to set the mood.. lol.
