MxAxC-_ATTACK
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My boyfriend And I have been dating about 5 years. He was 20 And I was 19 when we met, Hes now 25 and me 23
His mom has hated me since day one. Shes extremely rude to me.. here are some examples
21st Birthday Dinner for Him -She looked me straight in the eye and said "So... If college wasn't so hard for you, what do you think you would be taking?" ... I was in Cosmotology school then (she doesnt accept that as a carrer)
One time I was at my boyfriends house (he still lives with mom, I live with my mom also) She was talking to me about something I could care less about but I STILL act interested.. I wasnt looking her straight in the eye the whole time she was talking so she asked" why cant you look at me when Im talking to you?? are you Autistic or something??"she obviously doesnt know what Autism is.
Then she does other.. non verbal things like.. She will whip something up for my boyfriend to eat, right in front of me (hes a mommas boy and i HATE IT) and she wont make me anything or even offer. She has been known to say "Theres some in the fridge if you want some"
She doesnt like me because im dating her son.. well thats one reason. the other is because im not blonde. .. or thin.. I have gained weight since I started dating my boyfriend ,
I was 130 then. now im 150 (YIKES) but she thought I was fat at 130 size 10. she said " look at her she cant even take care of herself how is she gonna take care of you " This bothers me because I have terrible self esteem to begin with.. and would LOVE to be 125-130 again..
I honestly Dont know how to react to anything she says to me , I just go home crying. My boyfriend never says anything because he doesnt want to "start a fight" with her. ...Ive never confronted her about any of it.. I dont know if I should say anything when she is rude to me or keep my mouth shut...
its an Interesting situation that I dont know how to handle! help!
His mom has hated me since day one. Shes extremely rude to me.. here are some examples
21st Birthday Dinner for Him -She looked me straight in the eye and said "So... If college wasn't so hard for you, what do you think you would be taking?" ... I was in Cosmotology school then (she doesnt accept that as a carrer)
One time I was at my boyfriends house (he still lives with mom, I live with my mom also) She was talking to me about something I could care less about but I STILL act interested.. I wasnt looking her straight in the eye the whole time she was talking so she asked" why cant you look at me when Im talking to you?? are you Autistic or something??"she obviously doesnt know what Autism is.
Then she does other.. non verbal things like.. She will whip something up for my boyfriend to eat, right in front of me (hes a mommas boy and i HATE IT) and she wont make me anything or even offer. She has been known to say "Theres some in the fridge if you want some"
She doesnt like me because im dating her son.. well thats one reason. the other is because im not blonde. .. or thin.. I have gained weight since I started dating my boyfriend ,
I was 130 then. now im 150 (YIKES) but she thought I was fat at 130 size 10. she said " look at her she cant even take care of herself how is she gonna take care of you " This bothers me because I have terrible self esteem to begin with.. and would LOVE to be 125-130 again..
I honestly Dont know how to react to anything she says to me , I just go home crying. My boyfriend never says anything because he doesnt want to "start a fight" with her. ...Ive never confronted her about any of it.. I dont know if I should say anything when she is rude to me or keep my mouth shut...
its an Interesting situation that I dont know how to handle! help!