user46
Well-known member
Guys ... why the hell doesn't my man EVER want sex?! Last night I slept at his house, and I was just assuming that he'd have sex with me, because he knows that my period is gonna start soon.
Nothing.
ok. So he knows that one of the reasons that I slept over there was because when I sleep at my house, it's hard for me to sleep. So instead of cuddling or just holding me until I fall asleep .. he turns off the light, sleeps next to the wall, turns his back toward me ... and lays down. I'm like dude, are you fucking serious right now?
It's like ... we've been in a relationship for about 2 years, but we are each others first "real" relationship. He thinks i'm selfish and a nagger 247 .. and i think he's selfish and a dick 247. It's like we don't know the act of compromise. I always want attention when he feels the need to watch football every Sunday. It's like I know i nag sometimes ... but it's like I can't just sit there and be unhappy. I can't sit there and have the one person who I love and who supposedly loves me just act like he doesn't care. I feel suppressed because if i tell him how i feel, i'm nagging. If i don't, i'm dying inside. I just don't know what to do anymore.
And i mean, sex isn't everything to me. But when i havent had sex in about a month and i'm gonna have my period for a week ... it kinda becomes a priority. i'm just a normal, sexual being, lol. what can i say. it's like he wants it when he wants it. He knows that when he wants it, i'll give it to him, because 9 times outta 10 i want it too. but when i want it, i either have to beg or just get straight turned down.
UGH.
Nothing.
ok. So he knows that one of the reasons that I slept over there was because when I sleep at my house, it's hard for me to sleep. So instead of cuddling or just holding me until I fall asleep .. he turns off the light, sleeps next to the wall, turns his back toward me ... and lays down. I'm like dude, are you fucking serious right now?
It's like ... we've been in a relationship for about 2 years, but we are each others first "real" relationship. He thinks i'm selfish and a nagger 247 .. and i think he's selfish and a dick 247. It's like we don't know the act of compromise. I always want attention when he feels the need to watch football every Sunday. It's like I know i nag sometimes ... but it's like I can't just sit there and be unhappy. I can't sit there and have the one person who I love and who supposedly loves me just act like he doesn't care. I feel suppressed because if i tell him how i feel, i'm nagging. If i don't, i'm dying inside. I just don't know what to do anymore.
And i mean, sex isn't everything to me. But when i havent had sex in about a month and i'm gonna have my period for a week ... it kinda becomes a priority. i'm just a normal, sexual being, lol. what can i say. it's like he wants it when he wants it. He knows that when he wants it, i'll give it to him, because 9 times outta 10 i want it too. but when i want it, i either have to beg or just get straight turned down.
UGH.