i accidentally started going natural in my first year of college when the hair dresser i started going to told us that he did not do perms. After getting my hair pressed for a couple of months i went back to braids because that was easiest at my college esp because no one there could do my hair at a shop. When I went back to school for my 2rd year all of my hair was natural (after a little cut and growing it out) so i decided to start doing roller sets. After that I just started letting it do it's own thing then i got better at doing twists , twistouts, and braidouts. I now graduated and that's how i wear it.
i use: shea butter for twists and i just started using carol's daughters for this .
for a gel i use feels like silk by elasta qp or fantasia ic
conditioners: cantu shea butter leave in, wen by chaz dean, suave humectant, aussie deep 3 minute conditioner, aubrey organics, the green queen helene deep conditioner
shampoos are wen, suave humectant,and cream of nature (the one without the sodium lautrate stuff)
i use coconut oil , sta sof fro or any spray with glycerin high up on the list.
this is how a closeup of how my hair looks now with nothing in it: