omg.. I want to do this look for my bday!! Help on what eyeshadows she's wearing!! :)

FiestyFemme

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No...wait and let him call or text you first!

That's what I'd say too... but then again, I know if I were you, I'd be totally impatient and I don't know if I could stop myself, haha. Anyway your pics are great... you looked amazing! Glad you had such a good time!
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AdlersMommy22

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Okay girls- so last night he texted ME!!!!!!!
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I was working and he was like "hey are you going out tonight?" and I go "no Im pry jsut going to lay in bed and watch a movie when im done working" and he goes "wanna come over and watch a movie together then??" ... so after I got off work around 9 I went over there and we watched The Happening (which is an awful movie btw... just awful. From the horrible acting to the really really really dumb plot.. its awful.) and left around midnight.. He said something about going to brunch this morning @ my work- so I texted him about 30 min ago and said "Get up! let's go to brunch,bitch!"

My dad is SO excited I finally met a decent guy- as far as...he has an awesome job, college education, he's Catholic (big deal to my dad), and hates the cubs/yankees.... so my dad was like "dude text him and ask him to go to brunch and I'll watch adler" which my dad NEVER offers to watch him so I can go out with other people. LOL.

ANDDDDDDDDDD.. he just texted me and goes "holy crap im sorry I just got up!" so I texted him back and said "its cool... wanna go in a bit?" so i mwaiting to hear from him

but I have to go do my makeup really good today because last night he kept asking me about my MAC and pointing to the colors on my eyes go "whats this one? Whats this gold?"

hehehehehehhehe

<----------- Giddy school girl!
 

jdechant

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Hmm...he's the one that wanted to go to brunch today!!..and now he doesn't?? Talk about mixed signals..lol...that or maybe he really ISNT hungry..but a guys gotta get hungry sooner or later...
 

jdechant

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Oh yah, and the happening..lol...talk about a CrAzY lame-0 movie..haha..Marky Mark talking to plants...bahhahaha...what a weird movie!!! Next date movie should be The Strangers...me and my bf watched it a couple of weeks ago..and OH MY GAWD..Scary as hell!!! But not really in that gory kinda way.
 

AdlersMommy22

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^oh really? I HATE gory movies so that would be good.. I almost shat myself when they guy laid in front of th lawn mower last night.

It was just such obvious acting in that movie... seriously. I felt like iwas on set watching these guys go through a read-threw... not actually acting. It was horrid. and I hate gory movies.. ugh

And yeah.. I just texted him and go "haha k".... and I havent heard back from him and that was 2 and 1/2 hours ago.... *sigh*..whatev. Im not texting/calling him unless he wants to talk to me.

Im going to springfield in lk 10 days in order to see one of my old friends who's hot anyways so there. Freaking men.
 

jdechant

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^^Gawd, no doubt hey!! Don't worry about him...you've texted him and made the effort....thats all you can do(and should do)...yah..for a M night shalahan movie (spelling) it was quite gory..blaaa..i still don't get the whole horriffic concept that it was the plants that did this to the people..i don't know..such a weird movie!! Soo.. a little off topic, do you guys get winter weather (snow and all) blaa..it sucks here!!! It is like -23 Celsius here today!! So damn cold!!! I don't really know fahrenheit..i think its like -11 Fahrenheit....i think..lol..horrible!! Stupid northern weather!! So how excited are you for Adler's first christmas? When you guys put the tree up, he is going to be ALL OVER THAT..lol..especially if he's crawling now..lol..
 

AdlersMommy22

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^God Im soscared about the tree-- i know im going to have put up a damn fence around it or something haha. And yeah its brrrr cold as helllllll.... its like 20 degrees here and freaking suckkkkkkkssss..

Ive spent like $200 on adler so far for christmas.. i need to stop lol.

Im def not going to text/call brent at all unless he text/calls me. I need to NOT be available. Im just going to concentrate on how excited i am to go see my guy friend.;

You know what? Ive noticed that the more i get nervous about guys when i first start seeing/talking to/dateing them.. the more into MAC that I get. I mean i spend hours on here if im nervous about a guy. Guess because I can control and get excited about MAC and its always going to be there and never leave and will ALWAYS make me happy.. whereas guys are so damn unpredictable.

does that make sense?? lol
 

TISH1124

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Im def not going to text/call brent at all unless he text/calls me. I need to NOT be available. Im just going to concentrate on how excited i am to go see my guy friend.;



Good girl!!! The chase is good....No one wants easy....
 

AdlersMommy22

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omg so GET THIS..

Im at work last night- and he texts me and is like "hey... hat are you doing when you get off?" and i was like "I have no idea.. I'll pry get off super early though because we're dead." and he goes "Im bartending at banana's you should come see me."

So being stupid- I did. With two of my guy friends (which turned into 4 of them) and one of my girlfriends.... He was making me drinks all night, not charging me.. hanging out with me.. coming over and sitting next to me.. kissing me on the cheek in front of everyone.. he let me come back behind the bar and taught me how to make drinks... He kept hugging me and then invited me to go to a move on tuesday with him...

When i tried to leave him a tip he goes "Well its just going to go back to you anyways" and i was like "huh?" and he goes "well you know.. dinner.. movies.."

So then our mutual friend (and his roomate) donnie gets there... and Im talking to him... and when I left Donnie did too and called me and I was like "wow I think i like this guy .. hes SO NICE" and donnie was like "well we have to have guy talk when he gets home tonight so im gonna find out how he feels about you and then I'll text ya, k?" because donnie knows how hard things are for me and how I dont do well with getting hurt or used..

So he texts me at 1:45 and is like "he isn't sure how much he likes you.. he thinks you're really great and attractive but he doesnt think he's in it for the long-haul."

WTF?!

So WHY would he .. since the night we MET.. want to hang out EVERY night.. do all the things he does- and then he tells donnie that??

So I texted donnie this morning and I go "Great. Which is code for-- he just wants to have sex. Im so stupid. I wish I'd never met him."

And donnie texts me back "dont jump the gun.. I think he's just sorting things out because he hasnt been in a "seriouse" relationship in a while."

I feel SO FREAKING STUPID... I dont know what to do.. I told donnie I didnt think I was even going to talk to him anymore... Why the hell would he be SO confusing like that?!?!?!
 

AdlersMommy22

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I texted donnie just now and said "Last night he told me that he really hoped I wouldnt end things with him and the last thing he'd ever want to do is hurt me. Who says that to someone they dont even LIKE? Its obviously about sex"

Which is true. right?

What kills me.. is that this guy isnt even that attractive:
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Im sorry... and im not trying to be a bitch but.. Im way hotter than him. WHAT THE FREAKING HELL?
 

AdlersMommy22

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Yeah... well... Im just exhausted. Guys are exhausting. What the hell do I have to do? Im not talking to him anymore. Why should I? And what kills me is that according to Donnie (who ive known for a while and we get along REALLY REALLY well..)... he is not the kind guy that does random hook ups. He said that Brent is someone that really wants to fall in love and doesnt just randomly hook up with girls.

If he doesnt like me then thats cool but.. stop with the fucking mixed signals. Jeesh.
 

TISH1124

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I personally think you should stop looking so hard...when the time and person is right..It will happen. Just be patient and enjoy your life the way it is ....
 

jdechant

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^^ Lol...Yah!! No seriously though, what a jerk! I feel really bad for you hunny..I can just imagine how you feel right now. I would ignore him, don't message him, answer his phone calls, nothing...that will give him the hint. Does he know that this Donnie guy told you all this stuff??
 

jdechant

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Lol Tish I love you!! It wasn't meant towards the idea that he's old...HE is obviously NOT..but tucked in oversized tshirt just don't do it for me!!
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