Beauty Mark
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What would you consider to be your limit in a relationship, the one thing or the things that would cause you to call it quits?
Relationship Dealbreakers
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MsCuppyCakes
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Dishonesty.
*Stargazer*
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Cheating or physical abuse of me or my children.
pumpkincat210
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cheating, beating, emotional abuse
kaliraksha
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Agreed, fiance and I have a "if you can't do it in front of me you shouldn't be doing it" policy.
So for me- cheating, physical abuse, controlling, violence, and a guy who doesn't know how to open up to the world and other views.
Originally Posted by Shimmer
cheating = anything you have to hide. |
Agreed, fiance and I have a "if you can't do it in front of me you shouldn't be doing it" policy.
So for me- cheating, physical abuse, controlling, violence, and a guy who doesn't know how to open up to the world and other views.
mzcelaneous
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Cheating, dishonesty, and physical/verbal abuse
Hah, sounds like my last 3 relationships!
Hah, sounds like my last 3 relationships!
PerfectMistake
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I don't care what or who it is - I don't deal with cheating. At all.
Me being pretty laid back, I can figure out problems and try to work most things out (to an extent). But not cheating.
Me being pretty laid back, I can figure out problems and try to work most things out (to an extent). But not cheating.
sharyn
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ITA, if I'm not your #1, bye bye! I have to be treated like a princess and if he doesnt do that...
another no-go would be saying things/acting in a way that makes me feel physically unattractive (to him)
| Originally Posted by jenii
For me, it would be a guy who can't prioritize. If I'm not #1 in his life, he is dunzo. If I were to date a guy with kids, obviously I'd make an exception, but I'd better be a very close second.  |
ITA, if I'm not your #1, bye bye! I have to be treated like a princess and if he doesnt do that...
another no-go would be saying things/acting in a way that makes me feel physically unattractive (to him)
Raerae
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Momma's Boys.
Thats a huge deal-breaker for me. If your Mom is more important then me, and STILL controls you life when your a grown Man, then your obviously still a little boy, and not ready for a relationship.
And from the other thread now that I think about it... Un-cut men. Sorry, but I can't be gross'd out by your boy bitz.
Thats a huge deal-breaker for me. If your Mom is more important then me, and STILL controls you life when your a grown Man, then your obviously still a little boy, and not ready for a relationship.
And from the other thread now that I think about it... Un-cut men. Sorry, but I can't be gross'd out by your boy bitz.
LisaR
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IF I ever found myself single again and contemplating a relationship, deal breakers would be:
substance abuse of any kind
physical, emotional or verbal abuse of any kind
if he had children of any age - that goes for grand children at my age
He'd also have to be fairly independent both financially and emotionally
I'm glad I have the spouse I do! I think I'd probably be single for a long time (if not forever) if I found myself single again.
substance abuse of any kind
physical, emotional or verbal abuse of any kind
if he had children of any age - that goes for grand children at my age
He'd also have to be fairly independent both financially and emotionally
I'm glad I have the spouse I do! I think I'd probably be single for a long time (if not forever) if I found myself single again.
Ms. Z
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Just one? Not possible, I’ll list a few, in no particular order (except for the first one).
· Physical/verbal/sexual abuse of my child, my pet, relatives, me or even strangers
· If the person has spent time in jail
· Drug user or alcoholic
· Religious fanatic
· Is disrespectful to women
· Has abandoned his child/children
· Is unemployed, by choice
· Is gay or bi-sexual
· Is HIV positive or has an incurable VD
· Wants to have children (I’m too old for that!)
· Is not a US citizen
· Has a reputation for being a cheater
· Is involved in any criminal activity
· Works as a stripper, escort, prostitute or the adult film industry
I forgot, men who are helpless or whine too much when they don’t feel well. I will be totally sympathetic if you are for example recovering from surgery or chemotherapy, but if it’s a cold, don’t make a big deal of it.
· Physical/verbal/sexual abuse of my child, my pet, relatives, me or even strangers
· If the person has spent time in jail
· Drug user or alcoholic
· Religious fanatic
· Is disrespectful to women
· Has abandoned his child/children
· Is unemployed, by choice
· Is gay or bi-sexual
· Is HIV positive or has an incurable VD
· Wants to have children (I’m too old for that!)
· Is not a US citizen
· Has a reputation for being a cheater
· Is involved in any criminal activity
· Works as a stripper, escort, prostitute or the adult film industry
I forgot, men who are helpless or whine too much when they don’t feel well. I will be totally sympathetic if you are for example recovering from surgery or chemotherapy, but if it’s a cold, don’t make a big deal of it.
giz2000
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Totally forgot about those...ugh!!
"Boy bitz".......
| Originally Posted by Raerae
Momma's Boys. Thats a huge deal-breaker for me. If your Mom is more important then me, and STILL controls you life when your a grown Man, then your obviously still a little boy, and not ready for a relationship. And from the other thread now that I think about it... Un-cut men. Sorry, but I can't be gross'd out by your boy bitz. |
Totally forgot about those...ugh!!
"Boy bitz".......
