I totally understand the private school thing. The funny thing is that we moved where we live for the great schools but found out my daughter is dyslexic in first grade. We tried working with the school and teachers. But that led to her being humiliated and treated as if she was stupid even though her IQ is in the gifted range so we pulled her at 4th grade. Her high school was $26,000 a year (I saw where their ‘09-’10 year is almost $34,000) so I guess we got a bargain. She graduated in ‘07, so now we have $44,000 a year college. So much for a great retirement. Truth is I feel that I didn’t get a great education and it is super important for me that my daughter does. I don’t work outside the home and have a great husband but I never want her to feel trapped or depend on a man because she doesn’t have the education for a good career to support herself. I know this is my own self-esteem issue. I was physically abused by my first husband so I’m sure this plays into it all.
I LOVE books. I love to read them, collect them, and I want them to be perfect so I hate it if something is out of print and I have to buy it used. I also hate when my mailman wrinkles my magazines. You would think I was a neat freak but I’m a total clutter nut. I absolutely hate to cook or clean.
I spend on my hair. I want a good cut, color, and highlights. I’m almost 47 and my hair and make-up makes me feel good, 'nough said.
And shoes, shoes, shoes. I have a gazillion pair, the funkier the better. I love different heel shapes. My engineer super practical hubby does not get why I need about 20 pair of black shoes. Trying to explain the different styles, heel height, closed toe, peep toe and so on to a technical mind is useless.
I love to shop online especially to places we don't have here like Nordies, Bloomies, NM, Saks and on and on.