Indigowaters
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That's true! She has money to throw away but not buy you new makeup?! WTH?!
so sad about my mac :(
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YvetteJeannine
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Anyway, please PM me w/ your information if you'd like for me to send you a few things.
Feel better, hun
Indigowaters
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That's what I was thinking too. I'd be at the mailbox everyday waiting for the postman with a glass of lemonade
| Originally Posted by YvetteJeannine the only thing I'm worried about is THE BITCH getting the things in the mail before you, and destroying them/throwing them away. She wouldn't go that far, would she??? Hopefully not. |
That's what I was thinking too. I'd be at the mailbox everyday waiting for the postman with a glass of lemonade
YvetteJeannine
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I'll tell ya why she won't replace the makeup; because it would be equivalent to her giving you an apology.
And, for those people around you that said "It's just makeup"...it doesn't matter WHAT it was...bottom line; she destroyed YOUR stuff!
I wouldn't go to Atlantic City with her...she sounds like a spiteful, conniving woman. You'll probably sit there and watch her gamble all day while she treats you like shit. But that's just my opinion...obviously, at the end of the day you have to live with the woman.
This is serious stuff here...flying off the handle that badly for something as trivial as what you describe..and ruining something SHE KNEW was special to you (that's why she destroyed that, because she knew just what it meant to you) is looney. Like I said in my former post...If I were you, I'd try to get out of there as soon as you could.
Hoping to see a PM from you.
| Originally Posted by TRES TEAL ok , first i talked to the bf and really made him understand where i was coming from , so he went and talked to his mom for me , she said that she wont replace the makeup , but since my 21st birthday is in two weeks she is going to take me to atlantic city , buy me some drinks and let me gamble with a lil bit of her money , and she did appologize and said she didnt think it would hurt my feelings ... im still mad at her , but hopefully she will now realize how big of a deal this was to me and im not so sure i even want to go to a.c with her ..i guess ill just have to see how the next 2 weeks go with her then ill decide if i want to go or not .... and again , thank you all for offering to help me out , a couple of really sweet members are sending me some pigment samples so im not going to accept anymore because i dont want to have more samples than i started with because that would be a little greedy of me ...thank you all again soo much , l reallly appreciate all of your kind words !! <3 |
I'll tell ya why she won't replace the makeup; because it would be equivalent to her giving you an apology.
And, for those people around you that said "It's just makeup"...it doesn't matter WHAT it was...bottom line; she destroyed YOUR stuff!
I wouldn't go to Atlantic City with her...she sounds like a spiteful, conniving woman. You'll probably sit there and watch her gamble all day while she treats you like shit. But that's just my opinion...obviously, at the end of the day you have to live with the woman.
This is serious stuff here...flying off the handle that badly for something as trivial as what you describe..and ruining something SHE KNEW was special to you (that's why she destroyed that, because she knew just what it meant to you) is looney. Like I said in my former post...If I were you, I'd try to get out of there as soon as you could.
Hoping to see a PM from you.
melozburngr
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just saw this post, what a wench.
why do people do shit to intentionally hurt people?!
PM'ed you!
why do people do shit to intentionally hurt people?!
PM'ed you!
ZoeFerret
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OMG! I am so glad I am not around anyone like that. Your friends are wrong by discounting your stuff and feelings. Make up is expensive! Even if it wasn't expensive- it's still your stuff plus you have a kid to raise doesn't make it easy to replace. Sooo sorry- I wanna cry for you- it makes me sad too.
a914butterfly
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i wouldn't go to atlantic city with that bitch!! i would tell her to use the money she planned on using in atlantic city to buy you replacement makeup instead. sounded like a cheap appology to me, like she is trying to distract the fact of the matter with a trip to AC. anyway, i just mailed out some sample pigments, some mac, some sweetscents, some pure luxe and other brands. hope it will cheer you up!
Shimmer
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Hey guys, on the name calling, do remember that regardless of the actions, this is her boyfriend's mom, and it's inappropriate to make the reference to her as a bitch. Some respect needs to be afforded regardless of the distastefullness and disrespect of her behaviour.
"I may be a Christian, but if you keep it up, I'm gonna go to kickin' your pretty little butt, is that clear enough?" Gretchen Wilson.
"I may be a Christian, but if you keep it up, I'm gonna go to kickin' your pretty little butt, is that clear enough?" Gretchen Wilson.
asraicat
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ooooo-kay, but seriously WTF is she now going on about!?! Your B-day present is a totally separate issue from your private property she destroyed. She needs to replace your property THEN whatever she chooses to do for her b-day is up to her. Shes still getting away w/ it if you ask me *GRRRR*
| Originally Posted by TRES TEAL ok , first i talked to the bf and really made him understand where i was coming from , so he went and talked to his mom for me , she said that she wont replace the makeup , but since my 21st birthday is in two weeks she is going to take me to atlantic city , buy me some drinks and let me gamble with a lil bit of her money , and she did appologize and said she didnt think it would hurt my feelings <3 |
ooooo-kay, but seriously WTF is she now going on about!?! Your B-day present is a totally separate issue from your private property she destroyed. She needs to replace your property THEN whatever she chooses to do for her b-day is up to her. Shes still getting away w/ it if you ask me *GRRRR*
TRES TEAL
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sorry i havent responded in a while but i just got back from the dr.... i have strep throat for the 2nd time in the past 2 months wich is a little odd , and my one gland is swolen to a crazy size , i may be getting my tonsils removed in 2 to 4 weeks wich sucks but atleast i wont get strep anymore .... but back to the makeup subject ... i guess she is having a serious guilt trip because she is getting me a new msf from ebay ... that makes me feel a little better too i guess even tho thats the only thing she is replacing , but atleast she is replacing the most expensive thing she ruined .... thank u all again for bein here for me , it really does mean alot to me
joraye
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I have like five piggies, but of course I'll never use them all, so pls PM your address and soon as I find some sample containers, I'd like to at least send you a few samples.
I know what its like to have something you worked hard to get, and then have it destroyed (or in my case, stolen). ]
And I would also look into the Destruction of Property thing as mentioned above. This lady could have resorted to OTHER ways of venting her anger, like you when you left the house. NOT destroying something as precious as MAC!
I know what its like to have something you worked hard to get, and then have it destroyed (or in my case, stolen). ]
And I would also look into the Destruction of Property thing as mentioned above. This lady could have resorted to OTHER ways of venting her anger, like you when you left the house. NOT destroying something as precious as MAC!
geeko
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my sympathies to u. I understand how u feel. I'll feel DARN angry if someone smashes my M.A.C stuff up. M.A.c stuff is expensive..and i'm still a student...so if someone smashes my stuff up i'll demand the person to replace my make up....
i'm so sorry to hear what happened to your make up. What your MIL did was unforgivable. if my own mum did that to my make up i will not talk to her for ages...
i'm so sorry to hear what happened to your make up. What your MIL did was unforgivable. if my own mum did that to my make up i will not talk to her for ages...
NFTP
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in my opinion, taking you to AC, buying you drinks, and letting you gamble away money is a pretty poor excuse for an apology. it doesnt even make sense why she would do such a thing. her "peace offering" doesnt even add up to the amount of money that would replace your collection, does it? when you think about it, you are just going to be spending her money, that could go towards the buying of a new collection.
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why on earth would someone ruin another persons belongings, intentionally, and think it wouldnt upset them? seriously, it saddens me to think someone would do such a mean thing.
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thats good, but she should pay for the other stuff too.
i hope you get well soon, and all this mess gets resolved.
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| she did apologize and said she didnt think it would hurt my feelings |
why on earth would someone ruin another persons belongings, intentionally, and think it wouldnt upset them? seriously, it saddens me to think someone would do such a mean thing.
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| atleast she is replacing the most expensive thing she ruined |
thats good, but she should pay for the other stuff too.
i hope you get well soon, and all this mess gets resolved.
Let us know!!
Jennifer Mcfly
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I've got some piggi samples i can send you, pm me!
So sorry this happened. I know how you feel. When my ex and I broke up he gave away our dog b/c he knew how much I loved that dog. I know, not a good comparison but when something means that much to you it's all the same. I know everytime a hurricane comes my way the first thing I think about saving is my MAC!
It really was spiteful and uncalled for on her part.
It's so great to see all the lovely Specktrette's helping out and I'm glad to be one of them!!
So sorry this happened. I know how you feel. When my ex and I broke up he gave away our dog b/c he knew how much I loved that dog. I know, not a good comparison but when something means that much to you it's all the same. I know everytime a hurricane comes my way the first thing I think about saving is my MAC!
It really was spiteful and uncalled for on her part.
It's so great to see all the lovely Specktrette's helping out and I'm glad to be one of them!!
queenofdisaster
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i just mailed ya 6 samples girlie! pm'ed you too! <3 glad to help and glad to see others helping as well
