that was so uncool!

[abbyquack]

I think it's funny that Jennifer is promoted to be this "unlucky in love" type, because after all, she was married to one of the hottest men in the world! Hello! I think it's probably hard to out do yourself after that, but she was probably one of the luckiest women out there to have had that for a little while at least. lol.

 

[M.A.C. head.]

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Originally Posted by *Stargazer* I don't get this "Angelina had no obligation to anyone" business. Why do we excuse this kind of bad behaviour on her part simply because SHE wasn't the committed one? A GOOD person says "I'm sorry, I can't get involved with someone who is married. Call me when you aren't." Not "Well, I don't owe her anything, let's do it. "

*rolls eyes*

It's about Aniston's comments. No one is excusing the behavior, it's just pointing out that if she is mad at someone and finally wants to comment about it, it should be addressed to Brad. That's all.

ETA: I also didn't gather that her comments were in response specifically to Angelina speaking on the details, I thought it was about the cheating itself. Now THAT, is f*cked up.

 

[TISH1124]

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Originally Posted by M.A.C. head. *rolls eyes*

You're so funny...you reminded me of what my Mom always used to say...

"Keep it up young Lady and your eyes are gonna get stuck like that, and I doubt that cross eyes will look attractive on you"

 

[M.A.C. head.]

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Originally Posted by TISH1127 You're so funny...you reminded me of what my Mom always used to say... "Keep it up young Lady and your eyes are gonna get stuck like that, and I doubt that cross eyes will look attractive on you"

LOL My mom used to say stuff like that to me too.

Then I would refer her to her driver's license photo. She looks so confused and cross eyed LMAO She's had the same photo since I can remember and it never gets any less funny.

 

[florabundance]

Yeah Perez and his whole Santa Angelina thing pisses me off. Just because somebody adopts children, it doesn't necessarily make them a good person. The only thing it makes them is a parent.

And I understand that she does a lot of charity work and whatnot but to be honest, I think anybody with that kind of money in this kind of world should feel even a slight inherent obligation to give and share their wealth. I think it speaks more for those who don't give than for those that do.

Anyway, OT..again lmao

 

[ginger9]

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Originally Posted by florabundance I think it was "uncool"...but not so much of Angelina..she's not the one who signed on the dotted line. I don't really have an opinion on the matter either way, I like all parties concerned lol BUT does anyone else find it weird how the media didn't really portray Angelina as some man-stealing bitch, as you'd expect them to?..or at least to the extent you'd expect them to. Normally, they find any means to potentially ruin someone's career..and obviously i'm glad they didn't..but I do find it kind of odd. And Brad has never been portrayed as some shady ass cheating guy either.

Two words: Good publicist

I don't have a strong dislike for any of the parties involved. I mean as actors I really enjoy Brad and Angelina's work and Jen's to a lessor extent.

I think Jen's totally justified in responding that "it was uncool". If anything she was being pretty diplomatic about it. I don't think she's bitter at all. I mean Angie pretty much gushed about her affair to the public press, why should Jen have to shut up and put up? I've heard (I'll take this with a grain of salt too) that Brad was upset and called up Jen about her response to Angie in the Vogue article. If this was true, I think Brad's got a bit of a holier than thou attitude. Regardless of the shape of their marriage at the time he still did cheat on her. And poor Angie goes running and crying to Brad because Jen said she's "uncool". Suck it up Angelina you are not exempt just because you are beautiful and in "totally blissful love" and is a UN ambassador and have adapted multiple kids from various third world countries. No one's knocking your charitable work but really, I mean REALLY.

 

[Penn]

I may be out of the loop but was it actually confirmed that he cheated on Jen? Did he actually sleep with Angelina while he was still married?

 

[Penn]

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Originally Posted by florabundance And I understand that she does a lot of charity work and whatnot but to be honest, I think anybody with that kind of money in this kind of world should feel even a slight inherent obligation to give and share their wealth. I think it speaks more for those who don't give than for those that do. Anyway, OT..again lmao

I'm sorry but in my opinion it speaks volumes that someone with so much wealth is willing to give back to the world. She's actually hands on with the work she does as well, traveling to third world countries and such rather than writing a big fat cheque. Again this is just my opinion.

 

[COBI]

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Originally Posted by Penn I may be out of the loop but was it actually confirmed that he cheated on Jen? Did he actually sleep with Angelina while he was still married?

Even without sex, I believe that having an intimate emotional relationship with someone other than your spouse is cheating, also. Cheating is an act of lying, deception or fraud. If you are hiding a relationship from your current spouse, you are likely cheating. Angelina has said that they fell in love during the shooting of Mr & Mrs Smith (while he was still married and living with Jen). It is this comment that Jen said was "uncool" because she is flaunting their affair, emotional or physical being irrelevant.

In some ways and for some people, dealing with an emotional infidelity can be as or even more difficult than finding out someone had a sexual infidelity.

 

[aleksis210]

Aw....I actually found this kind of sad...Jen's response just makes me think that she hasn't moved on and that saddens me because she deserves to have someone who makes her melt...Brad was/is hot, but that doesn't mean anything if he lacks substance..I've seen him in interviews and while he can read lines on the big screen in real life that isn't him...I just hope she gets so wrapped up in someone else someday to the point where she can sort of be like "Brad who?"

 

[TISH1124]

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Originally Posted by COBI Even without sex, I believe that having an intimate emotional relationship with someone other than your spouse is cheating, also. Cheating is an act of lying, deception or fraud. If you are hiding a relationship from your current spouse, you are likely cheating. Angelina has said that they fell in love during the shooting of Mr & Mrs Smith (while he was still married and living with Jen). It is this comment that Jen said was "uncool" because she is flaunting their affair, emotional or physical being irrelevant. In some ways and for some people, dealing with an emotional infidelity can be as or even more difficult than finding out someone had a sexual infidelity.

I totally agree...I think her saying it was uncool was an understatement after hearing that they fell in love on the set and that one day she hopes to show the movie to their kids so they can see where Mom & Dad fell in love...He was clearly still married during this time. Wonder if she will also tell the kids ...this is where Daddy and I feel in love and Daddy was married to another woman at the time. Great lesson to teach the boys on fidelity.

 

[Lauren1981]

i agree with everyones comments.
i'm just up in the air with everything.
i can honestly say that it would bother me to hear things like that. like, i've been in a relationship before where it ended because of one thing but then later on down the road i find out like a million other things that were going on behind my back and i'm just like "FUCK!!" making all worser (i know that's not a word) and shit! lol!
BUT
such is life.
i think i'm just so into my personal views where you just have to make sure that everything, whether it was good or bad, you take a lesson from it. i'm very big on how when things like this happen there are millions of red flags we choose not to see. not saying i excuse brad's behavior or angie talking openly about where they began to like each other but i just think it's water under the bridge and to be honest.......... i really don't think angie said anything that we didn't already know. i mean, i pretty much knew all this went down on the set of mr. and mrs. smith. so if I knew then she had to have an inkling meaning, maybe it's uncool for angie to actually GLORIFY it but not for to state something she allegedly didn't know.
i hope i don't sound insensitive to anyone who has gone through this. i've gone through it myself but i've learned that everything happens for a reason. angie and brad are meant to be together no matter how it started and i will always say i think things were already coming to an end before the movie even started filming.
could they (brad & angie) have handled it differently??? who knows

 

[Lauren1981]

i had to cut my comment short because my boss walked by. LMAO!!!
but, who knows if it could have been handled differently. i think they handled it the best way they knew how and we don't really know what was going on behind closed doors with brad and jen. i don't think it just ended like that when he met angie. jen knows the real deal which is why she still has so much love and respect for brad. it seems like something that was thoroughly thought out and mutual. i just don't think she thought he would move on that quickly

 

[Beauty Mark]

I think airing it out in public and making it something that she's proud of is bs. I've never been the 'other' woman, but I'd like to think that the 'other' woman, if she has any kind of decency, is a bit sensitive and remorseful rather than flaunting it.

I read that Brad Pitt was mad about the Aniston comment. I think that's ridiculous, when Jolie provoked it.

I wish the media would point out how Jolie cried about she'd never come between a married man and his wife around that time because of her parents' marriage and yet she's now basically admitting to it proudly.

 

[emeraldjewels]

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Originally Posted by Beauty Mark I think airing it out in public and making it something that she's proud of is bs. I've never been the 'other' woman, but I'd like to think that the 'other' woman, if she has any kind of decency, is a bit sensitive and remorseful rather than flaunting it. I read that Brad Pitt was mad about the Aniston comment. I think that's ridiculous, when Jolie provoked it. I wish the media would point out how Jolie cried about she'd never come between a married man and his wife around that time because of her parents' marriage and yet she's now basically admitting to it proudly.

ITA with everything said here.

It sickens me that Angelina flaunts her home-wrecking ways like its something to be proud of.

I think Jen was totally right to say that Angelina's recent comments were uncool.

 

[Lauren1981]

to those of you who think angie flaunts it:
how do you think she flaunts it? and no this isn't a challenge questions like i'm saying you guys are trippin or bullsh*tting. lol! i really want to know. like, do you think she flaunts it with all the kids? is it the interview where she said where her and brad fell in love?
i really want to know.
i've gone back and forth so many times. sometimes i used to think she did and at others i didn't. so what's your thoughts??

 

[aleksis210]

I don't know, I wouldn't say she was a home wrecker...I agree with Lauren that their marriage was pretty much over by the time Angie came around.

 

[COBI]

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Originally Posted by Lauren1981 to those of you who think angie flaunts it: how do you think she flaunts it?

Because the whole Aniston comment was in response to Angelina talking about when her kids are old enough to watch Mr & Mrs Smith and see the movie where her & Brad fell in love while during this time Brad was still married to and living with Jen. If that's not flaunting it, I don't what is.

If I started my current relationship with someone while they were married, I would be embarrassed to admit that to anyone; not something I would be proud enough about to talk about out loud, much less in an interview.

 

[Beauty Mark]

It's not having kids or being happy. It's making a comment that your kids can watch the movie where the parents fell in love.

I would've argued Angelina, besides that one comment about not being the other woman, was handling it fairly respectably. Well, as respectably as one could when infidelity is involved.

I don't think she should live in a cave or be subjected to eternal unhappiness, but I think it's tacky to make comments like that in public.

 

[carandru]

I just wonder when they show the kids the movie where mommy and daddy fell in love, will they also discuss the fact that daddy was still married to and living w/ another woman at the time?

I would think it would be a little hard to hide that, so maybe they will.... but not in those exact words.