Twins accidentally married.

Shimmer

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LONDON - Twins who were separated at birth got married without realizing they were brother and sister, a lawmaker said, urging more information be provided on birth certificates for adopted children.

A court annulled the British couple's union after they discovered their true relationship, Lord David Alton said.

"Everyone has a right to knowledge about their lineage, genealogy and identity. And if they don't, then it will lead to cases of incest," Alton told The Associated Press during a telephone interview Friday.

Alton first revealed details of the unusual case last month during a five-hour debate about a bill that would change regulations about human embryology.

"I was recently involved in a conversation with a High Court judge who was telling me of a case he had dealt with," Alton said according to a transcript of the Dec. 10 debate. "It involved the normal birth of twins who were separated at birth and adopted by separate parents.

"They were never told that they were twins. They met later in life and felt an inevitable attraction, and the judge had to deal with the consequences of the marriage that they entered into and all the issues of their separation."

Alton gave no additional details and would not reveal the name of the judge who told him about the case.

The High Court's Family Division declined to discuss or confirm Alton's account about the twins.

Alton, an independent legislator who works at Liverpool's John Moores University, said the siblings' inadvertent marriage raises the wider issue of the importance of strengthening the rights of children to know the identities of their biological parents, including kids who were born through in vitro fertilization.

Under British law, only a mother has to be named on a birth certificate. Such certificates also are not required to identify births that result from IVF or to identify the sperm donor.

In addition, British law does not require parents to ever tell children that they were the result of donated sperm.

Alton believes this should be changed.

Alton said he favors an amendment to the Human Fertility and Embryology bill — which is still being debated in the House of Lords — that would require birth certificates of children born from donated sperm to say that and to identify the genetic father.

Referring to the twins' case, he said: "If you start trying to conceal someone's identity, sooner or later the truth will come out. And if you don't know you are biologically related to someone, you may become attracted to them and tragedies like this may occur."



Oh. My. God.

Ew. Poor people.
 

MACATTAK

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I feel so sorry for them...but the thought is just
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user46

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thats so sad. like .. what do you do? you loved someone enough to marry them, to find out that you can't be married ... or even love them like you had? that's just crazy
 

redambition

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that's really sad for them.
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it would be absolutely weird and creepy to discover that you'd married your sibling. it would also make your world come crashing down - you find the person you loved enough to marry and now you lose all that, but that person is still there and still loves you too. sure, you gain a sibling, but a marriage is a different kind of relationship to that.

that is so screwed up
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Shimmer

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A court annulled the British couple's union after they discovered their true relationship, Lord David Alton said.

they're not together still
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*KT*

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I can only imagine they really thought they'd found their soul mate. Especially if they had that 6th sense about how each other is feeling, etc like many twins do. How sad.
 

Mandaz_Diamondz

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they're not together still
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Maybe not legally married, but you never know... That would be an interesteing follow up feature though, the couples side of it
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Divinity

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A situation like this has to be so traumatic for the people involved. How do those two even overcome this, let alone look each other in the eye again? For all we know, and they know, they could have been having sex for months prior to the scheduled wedding date? Dude...
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"In addition, British law does not require parents to ever tell children that they were the result of donated sperm.

Alton believes this should be changed.

Alton said he favors an amendment to the Human Fertility and Embryology bill — which is still being debated in the House of Lords — that would require birth certificates of children born from donated sperm to say that and to identify the genetic father."

On this part of the article I have to disagree. Sperm donors are donors and only donors. They are helping to give the gift of life to families and women, anonymously. If they wanted to be involved in the child's life or their "donation" to be known by their child, they wouldn't be a donor. I'm all for informing adopted children of potential siblings to prevent these instances and to connect to lost family, but a donor/parent is different.
 

wolfsong

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What the hell would have happened if the sister was knocked up? That would be even more heartbreaking. Love doesnt just disappear into thin air, and the feelings of shame and disgust would be dreadful - not to mention the fact that people would know.
They were married already, so its probably fair to say they have copulated.

As for donors - its a difficult situation, but having no way of finding out one side of your parentage can result in half siblings etc getting together and having children (especially as each donor may father/mother many children). The serious health risks involved in close family incest make this issue less clear cut.
 

*KT*

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On this part of the article I have to disagree. Sperm donors are donors and only donors. They are helping to give the gift of life to families and women, anonymously. If they wanted to be involved in the child's life or their "donation" to be known by their child, they wouldn't be a donor. I'm all for informing adopted children of potential siblings to prevent these instances and to connect to lost family, but a donor/parent is different.

Couldn't they create a coding system and then enter that code on the birth certificate? I imagine they're coded as it is to identify the samples to a bio to aide women/couples in the selection of a donor. The identity of the donor would still be protected, but the child would be able to verify their "code" doesn't match the "code" of a person they might want to marry, help them locate half-siblings, etc.

Of course, then there's this scenario. GirlA is born via donated sperm, grows up, gets married, can't have kids, goes to the 'bank' and gets a sample from boyB who was born via the same donated sperm. Statistically speaking, the odds of something like that happening are probably astronomically small, I can see where the politician is coming from.
 

chocolategoddes

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I'd cry if I found that out. Its been proven that people are attracted to others who kinds look like themselves. Weird but true.
 
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