what are your thoughts on lapdancing?

[lipshock]

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Originally Posted by redambition have you considered doing a class? I am going to be signing up to a class, all women, closed doors etc... you can wear workout clothes as well. there's no show involved, unless you choose to be in the end of term show, and even then it's only for friends and family, not in a club. i've been told all ages and all shapes of women get involved, so that has helped me feel comfortable about trying it. sounds like a fun exercise idea for my anti-gym self

I am signing up for pole dancing classes because I hear it's an insane workout and a great way to tone up. I have serious respect for exotic dancers who are good at their craft. I'm jealous they can do all that stuff! hehe

And if anyone is on MAC's livejournal community, you probably already know of her, but there is a girl over there who is the most gorgeous woman I have ever seen (her username is arlaharen_) and she actuallys teaches pole dancing in Sweden, where she lives.

Her website has some awesome photographs of her doing some tricks and moves on the pole. Visit it, www.poledance.se! It's in Swedish but to see her pictures just click the word "Galleri" up at the top. I swear I wish I could do half the things she does AND look that good!

 

[Shimmer]

She is fantastic. Love her to pieces.

 

[lipshock]

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Originally Posted by Shimmer She is fantastic. Love her to pieces.

I have such a girl crush on her.

She really is fantastic!

 

[Shimmer]

She is, the changes she's made in her physique in the past year are phenomenal. Add in her discipline as far as her diet, and yeah. WOW.
Girlcrush? Me too.

 

[kuuipo1207]

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with strip clubs either. I used to have insecurity issues and would have been upset if my husband had gone (which he didn't in our early years of marriage), but now it's different. Plus I realized that how fair is it for me to check out guys, or even girls for that matter, and expect him to be fine with it, yet I wouldn't feel comfortable for him to do it?
I still have yet to go to a strip club. My husband's been to a one or two while he was away for training and it wasn't a big deal. He still wants me to go sometime with him cause he'd love to see, in his words, "me and another girl get it it on" so to speak. He thinks I would enjoy it but I' just like "yeah, ok. sure".
If it's something you enjoy, and if it's something that makes you happy, then do it.

 

[kuuipo1207]

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Originally Posted by lipshock I am signing up for pole dancing classes because I hear it's an insane workout and a great way to tone up. I have serious respect for exotic dancers who are good at their craft. I'm jealous they can do all that stuff! hehe And if anyone is on MAC's livejournal community, you probably already know of her, but there is a girl over there who is the most gorgeous woman I have ever seen (her username is arlaharen_) and she actuallys teaches pole dancing in Sweden, where she lives. Her website has some awesome photographs of her doing some tricks and moves on the pole. Visit it, www.poledance.se! It's in Swedish but to see her pictures just click the word "Galleri" up at the top. I swear I wish I could do half the things she does AND look that good!

HOLY CRAP!!! She's amazing!! What she can do on the pole, hot damn!!

 

[Beauty Mark]

That woman makes the whole pole thing look very artsy and dignified. Some of those shots are reminiscent of Cirque de Soleil.

I think it's cool that her photo gallery takes something like poledancing, which is usually viewed as sleazy, and makes it look like something you could take your kids to.

 

[Shimmer]

She teaches the classes in a studio in her city, and is amazingly talented (and self taught) at what she does.

 

[dollbabybex]

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Originally Posted by CaraAmericana Strip joints to me are erotic. I approve. I use to do Couple's Thursday Night Out w/my ex.

i get loadsa women pay me to dance for there bf while they watch

and vise versa

i think a lot of women think if there husband can see these kinds of things,itll encourage them not to cheat...

as there getting some kind of visual stimulation from another women.

 

[dollbabybex]

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Originally Posted by Pascal lapdancing and stripping is a crock of shit, I would chop a mans dick off if after he married me he went to a place with naked chicks.

thats cool i did ask for all opinions...

but have u ever been to a lapdancing club to see it isnt as sleazy as you think?

you could just watch girls on the pole

its like watching gymnastics!haha!

 

[TangoMango]

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Originally Posted by lipshock I am signing up for pole dancing classes because I hear it's an insane workout and a great way to tone up. I have serious respect for exotic dancers who are good at their craft. I'm jealous they can do all that stuff! hehe And if anyone is on MAC's livejournal community, you probably already know of her, but there is a girl over there who is the most gorgeous woman I have ever seen (her username is arlaharen_) and she actuallys teaches pole dancing in Sweden, where she lives. Her website has some awesome photographs of her doing some tricks and moves on the pole. Visit it, www.poledance.se! It's in Swedish but to see her pictures just click the word "Galleri" up at the top. I swear I wish I could do half the things she does AND look that good!

I love arlaharen_'s FOTDs! Seriously, she's the prettiest person I've ever seen in my entire life. Her poledancing pictures are amazing!

 

[Raerae]

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Originally Posted by dollbabybex its like watching gymnastics!haha!

except naked lol!

 

[little teaser]

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Originally Posted by dollbabybex thats cool i did ask for all opinions... but have u ever been to a lapdancing club to see it isnt as sleazy as you think? you could just watch girls on the pole its like watching gymnastics!haha!

i agree, i also like to watch go go dancers and not at only strip clubs some of them are so talented they could mezmerize a fly on the wall. i think its very erotic

 

[tiramisu]

I think the topic somehow moved from lapdancing to poledancing/exotic dancing... I think maybe some women feel that the latter two are more acceptable? as opposed to grinding/touching? LOL

 

[hooked*on*mac]

wow this is a whoop ass can of worms, lol great topic and super reading...

I am all for it as long as its not my B/F sittin on that chair lapping it up and tipping her with my MAC Haul money LMAO.

all jokes aside

i think theres nothing sexier than watching women controll/ mesmerise a guy just by being her atractive sexy tantalising self, MORE POWER TO YA ALL and hey we all got sexy.... SO WORK IT LADIES....

 

[Shimmer]

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Originally Posted by tiramisu I think the topic somehow moved from lapdancing to poledancing/exotic dancing... I think maybe some women feel that the latter two are more acceptable? as opposed to grinding/touching? LOL

Lapdancing is just as hot as poledancing.

 

[Raerae]

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Originally Posted by Shimmer Lapdancing is just as hot as poledancing.

I don't think she was saying one was hotter than the other. But more that seeing her dance on a pole from a distance, is more acceptable, then the act of having some randome stripper shoving her tits and ass in your boyfriends face/crotch.

 

[dollbabybex]

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Originally Posted by Raerae except naked lol!

haha! but were not allowed to go naked on the pole in my club...we have to wear lingerie or a dress/outfit!x

 

[little teaser]

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Originally Posted by dollbabybex haha! but were not allowed to go naked on the pole in my club...we have to wear lingerie or a dress/outfit!x

most clubs that serve alcohol dont allow nudity. and here where im from if your not on stage you have to wear a dress/outfit while walking the floor.