Anyone else recently broken up?

[TangoMango]

Well, I've finally cut him out of my life.

On Thursday, he called my cell phone with his number blocked, so I had no idea it was him. Guess what? His baby was born NOV. 26th!!! Which means she was very pregnant when he decided he was going to break the news to me, which means that this was going on for a long time and he just strung me along and didn't tell me a thing.

The convo went like this:

Me: Hello?
Him: Hey! Can I see you tomorrow?
Me: Umm, no. This week is very busy for me. I have tons of stories to hand in to my professor.
Him: I can't come see you in the morning?
Me: No.
Him: I have the feeling you're just giving excuses not to see me.
Me: What do you think?
Him: Is it because of Caleb (his newborn)?
Me: Yeah, pretty much.

I don't understand how he thinks everything is going to be normal after he lied and used me. He keeps telling me how he hopes we can be together in the future. I think for me, the best revenge is knowing that he's going to regret causing me so much hurt, I will no longer be apart of his life, and he won't find anyone else that will replace me or live up to me. (I don't mean to sound egotistical, but he has said those things to me before, so I'm sure that's what will be on his mind.)

 

[PuterChick]

First of all, I'd like to say that it is hard to go through a breakup and in time, the pain will go away!

Secondly, all you girls are way too young to be so serious about these guys. You also saying that you hate being alone. You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else!! Take time to be by yourself, get to know you! Learn to support and to take care of you. There is so much out there to see and do, go do it!!!

My feeling has always been that no one should get married before they are 30. You change so much in your 20's. I am not the same person that I was in my 20's and I am in my 40's now.

Make friends, travel, get into a career that you are passionate about.

HTH

 

[blindpassion]

Couldnt have said it better myself. ^^

 

[Kayteuk]

Hows everyone doing now?
Im having to literally run away from my ex, literally, shut down all my email accounts, change my cell/mobile number. Move to a apartment, break contact with mutual friends.

JUST to get away from him. I am never ever dating a police officer like him again! Its just too scary!

 

[FiestyFemme]

I'm doing really good.
I cut him completely out of my life. I blocked him on anything I could, deleted his numbers, changed my MySpace, cell number, etc. I don't know if he's tried to contact me or not, but he's going to be in for a rude awakening when he does. I've been amazed at how easily I've gotten over this. I moped for a few days, but that was it. I don't think about him anymore. I'm just... done.
And I've actually got something new going on... with a guy who is finally worth my time, and I know it because I've known him the majority of my life. It's nothing serious yet, but it definitely has potential.
I'm really glad at this point that all this happened. Not the way it happened, but I'm SOOOO much better off!