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You should never ever think so. Cause first off, who cares what that guy said? Man, i hate this. My friend used to date an idiot who said she's fat and ugly when they broke up. She is a freaking gorgeous girl but still is so hurted mentally.
Kiki, i think that every person should and will be loved. That you just gotta find the right person for you, because all of us are different. I think that one day you will meet a nice guy, who will be just like you, who you will have interests in common, share the same view at life etc. Maybe you're just looking in the wrong place? Maybe you're hanging with one type of guys always, which are not that good for you?
I think that the whole idea of "being not datable" and "not neant to be loved" is sick (especially coming from some strange dude). Cause all of us are. Cause i really cant see any reasons why you (or someone) would be not datable. I havn't seen a picture of you ever, but i think you're a gorgeous girl. And that 20 (you are 20, right?) is not old at all to start going out..
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Im here with you in this too.. And i sometimes think thats what's awaiting for me. I love my bf so much, but sometimes he says im too jealousous, too emo, that no man would stand such a behavior next to him. That he cant handle me sometimes. Calls me a control freak.. My mind is going absolutely wild sometimes, well, its partially his fault. But see.. you're really not alone girls. I'm not datable too it seems. And МАРИАНА
i feel for you and your loss of him.. I can relate so much and i do understand. Im sorry to hear this really
And my friend (who i mentioned above) has exactly the same thing your friend does.. She is so beautiful, speaks 4 languages, has a great job, and still is so miserable saying no man ever loved her and thats all she would really want
It break my heart
Originally Posted by KikiB
(..) Part of the reason why people don't love me is because of who I am. I am a very OTT person, former Thespian, definitely on the quirkier side. I have, and still do, have people who tell me that I am flat-out disgusting, that the sight of me makes them vomit. I have lost a good 20-30 pounds since the height of all of that...and not to mention I went through quite the nasty situation with a guy earlier this year who said flat-out that I am not dateable, that it isn't likely that I'll end up with a boyfriend...that all I am good for is a booty call. From all the guys who I have met, that is essentially the case. I guess some of us are definitely not meant to have love after all...other people just don't understand us. 
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You should never ever think so. Cause first off, who cares what that guy said? Man, i hate this. My friend used to date an idiot who said she's fat and ugly when they broke up. She is a freaking gorgeous girl but still is so hurted mentally.
Kiki, i think that every person should and will be loved. That you just gotta find the right person for you, because all of us are different. I think that one day you will meet a nice guy, who will be just like you, who you will have interests in common, share the same view at life etc. Maybe you're just looking in the wrong place? Maybe you're hanging with one type of guys always, which are not that good for you?
I think that the whole idea of "being not datable" and "not neant to be loved" is sick (especially coming from some strange dude). Cause all of us are. Cause i really cant see any reasons why you (or someone) would be not datable. I havn't seen a picture of you ever, but i think you're a gorgeous girl. And that 20 (you are 20, right?) is not old at all to start going out..
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| Originally Posted by laperle
The only man I've truly loved, left me because he's confused and couldn't handle me. I'm recovering from another severe depression crisis and I'm trying to be positive and don't give up. It's hard, 'cos I'm bipolar (mild) and my moods don't depend entirely on my mood, but on the crazy chemistry of my brain. All my life stops everytime I have a crisis, I can't commit in a relationship and I feel like I have no much choice. I'm sharing this just because I want you to know you're not alone. If you want to vent or talk, I'm here. |
Im here with you in this too.. And i sometimes think thats what's awaiting for me. I love my bf so much, but sometimes he says im too jealousous, too emo, that no man would stand such a behavior next to him. That he cant handle me sometimes. Calls me a control freak.. My mind is going absolutely wild sometimes, well, its partially his fault. But see.. you're really not alone girls. I'm not datable too it seems. And МАРИАНА
