Have U Ever Thought About Other Women???

[ilovexnerdsx]

when i was younger i'd always look at my friends and think that they were very cute.

as i grew a bit older i'd always hear "yeah girls always judge their friends it doesn't mean they're a lesbian" but i always thought my feelings were more intense than that .... in 9th grade i finally admitted to myself i am a bisexual and i have never looked back

 

[kimmy]

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Originally Posted by KAIA Everytime I watch porn, I only get turn on because of the girls in the movie, I haven't had sex with a girl, because I haven't had the chance.. but If I do, I would do it, I look at girls waaaaay more than guys, does this makes me bisexual?

seriously...i can't watch hetero porn, it does nothing for me whatsoever. the only thing that actually does anything for me is girl on girl. i know that sounds odd, but that's just how i roll i guess. like i said, a woman's body is far more attractive to me than a man's.

dollybaybex, i don't really tell guys either...i told my ex and i think it made him a little insecure because a few of the ladies i used to hang out with were the same way i am. it either makes them insecure or it makes them want a threesome.

 

[ilovexnerdsx]

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Originally Posted by kimmy seriously...i can't watch hetero porn, it does nothing for me whatsoever. the only thing that actually does anything for me is girl on girl. i know that sounds odd, but that's just how i roll i guess. like i said, a woman's body is far more attractive to me than a man's.

same here. there' are a couple hetero ones, but i can count them off on one hand. and unscripted is always better

kimmy i'll link you if you'd like, hehe.

 

[ratmist]

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Originally Posted by BinkysBaby I think that there are women who think about being with a woman but when it gets down to the nitty gritty, kissing probably is the limit.

I agree. There's a big difference between admiring a woman's body and actually going down on a girl. I can't remember which comedienne claimed you aren't really a lesbian unless you're happy to go down on a girl, but I think she's right.

Speaking personally, I know some of my lesbian friends often complain about 'bi-curious' girls who really like to do everything *and* receive oral but not give oral in return. I'm not sure it's an issue of selfishness either. I've had endless debates over whether one can consider herself a lesbian if she consideres touching/tasting of female genitals a turn-off or outright disgusting. I consider myself bi-curious but since I never got off on the idea of orally pleasuring a woman (though I admit I wouldn't mind receiving), I knew I wasn't really going to end up with a woman in the end. I'm happily married to a man, so I guess I was right.

 

[girlsaidwhat]

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Originally Posted by ratmist I've had endless debates over whether one can consider herself a lesbian if she consideres touching/tasting of female genitals a turn-off or outright disgusting.

This is funny! I mean, I've known /guys/ that were straight that didn't like to give oral. At least several guy friends over the years have told me they didn't like it at all.

Does this mean they aren't hetero?

Anyway, women just /are/ more attractive than men sexually. That's our feminine power, ladies. Think about how much product is marketed using a sexual/sensual message...using a woman. They wouldn't do that if those messages held no power. They hint at what is at the heart of us...all of us.

I love men too, don't get me wrong...but there's nothing like a woman.

 

[a914butterfly]

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Originally Posted by *MaC WhoRe* how can i make a move on a girl? i want to have my first time sooo bad!!

Come here to NY and see me!!

 

[Kuuipo]

I'm a lesbian (always been one). I'm not really turned on by breasts or bodies so much as brains. Smart,funny,strong women-especially older,self actualized women totally do it for me. Mostly its women between forty and sixty something who I find hottest. They have lives. Big,full lives. One crush I had was a museum director. She liked to cook,hike,travel,garden,etc. All of my loves or crushes had giant personalities...its a certain energy that I fall in love with-an enthusiasm. They are not needy or dependant-they are strong.They take good care of themselves,they are wise. I get men hitting on me all of the time. Men are usually all about looks.Or they ask me why I never married. I never wanted to answer questions about where I was,do extra ironing,etc.

 

[SeXy MAC LuveR]

I have not been on here in a long time

 

[a914butterfly]

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Originally Posted by SeXy MAC LuveR I'm straight but I have to admit Females are hot! and I've never had an encounter tho I probably would if at the right time and the right place

hi, are you in new york? i can make the right time and place

 

[Shimmer]

Loves it.

 

[j_absinthe]

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Originally Posted by a914butterfly hi, are you in new york? i can make the right time and place

*Meee-ow!*

I think about other women. Alot.

 

[a914butterfly]

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Originally Posted by j_absinthe *Meee-ow!* I think about other women. Alot.

same here!! i'm having such a hard time finding a woman friend - where are all you lovely bi-ladies in ny?? It seems i can get another man more than a woman. men are always hitting on me, and im so not into them ( i already have one- my hubby!) - i want a woman!! theres just something so sensual about 2 women together in bed that a man can never equal to

 

[clslvr6spd]

Oh man...I love women! I love doing the motor boat....I'm a motor boating SOB!!!!!

But seriously, I have a friend and we get together and screw around, I enjoy having a women's touch. It is nice that my boyfriend isn't all weird or pervy about it, lol...he lets me do my thing

 

[Raerae]

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Originally Posted by girlsaidwhat This is funny! I mean, I've known /guys/ that were straight that didn't like to give oral. At least several guy friends over the years have told me they didn't like it at all.

Hehe that's a interesting double standard... I know my Boyfriend loves when he gets a BJ, but has told me strait up, that he won't go down on a girl (me included) unless he is really into her. And I've known guys who just strait up refuse to do it.

Not sure why, probably goes along with that whole stigma that the female anatomy is like dirty and gross and smells funny (not like penis smells like roses). Or that whole macho guy thing where it's not like manly to "go down" on someone. I know my BF doesn't even like me being on top that often since he feels like he's not in control or in like a female position being on his back. He doesn't mind leaning back when I'm giving him head though ;p

 

[SeXy MAC LuveR]

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Originally Posted by a914butterfly hi, are you in new york? i can make the right time and place

No I live in SoCal ....it seems like a lot of you ladies are from New York

 

[MACATTAK]

For those of you who are married/in a relationship how does your significant other respond to this? Do they consider it cheating? Are they all for it? Only all for it if they are involved?

 

[a914butterfly]

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Originally Posted by SeXy MAC LuveR No I live in SoCal ....it seems like a lot of you ladies are from New York

where are they?? im still looking....

 

[SingFrAbsoltion]

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Originally Posted by clslvr6spd Oh man...I love women! I love doing the motor boat....I'm a motor boating SOB!!!!! But seriously, I have a friend and we get together and screw around, I enjoy having a women's touch. It is nice that my boyfriend isn't all weird or pervy about it, lol...he lets me do my thing

Lucky. Mine would probably consider it cheating, and he got a bit insecure after he found out I was intimate with a girl.

 

[CantAffordMAC]

i told my bf when we first got together that i wanted to have a 3some with another girl. That has completely changed. I would never share my boyfriend. SometimesI still think of other girls or look at them but I know its harmless. If I was single I would probably be with a girl--I wouldn't hunt one down to have sex with, but if it happened, I'd be open.

I don't understand the people who are saying that girls wouldn't actually go down on another girl. if someone says they are bicurious or want to have sex with a girl, then I'm sure they know that giving and receiving oral is part of the package.

 

[Shimmer]

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Originally Posted by MACATTAK For those of you who are married/in a relationship how does your significant other respond to this? Do they consider it cheating? Are they all for it? Only all for it if they are involved?

If I have to hide it, it's cheating.
Women aren't cheating. Men, men are cheating.