Have U Ever Thought About Other Women???

[clslvr6spd]

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Originally Posted by Shimmer If I have to hide it, it's cheating. Women aren't cheating. Men, men are cheating.

I am completely agree! and so does my boyfriend. If there is no real penis involved it's cool!

 

[MAC_Whore]

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Originally Posted by Shimmer If I have to hide it, it's cheating. Women aren't cheating. Men, men are cheating.

Amen!

 

[josieisawesome]

as a lesbian this is a very funny post to read haha

 

[brokenxbeauty]

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Originally Posted by CantAffordMAC When I was a little girl (7 or 8 ), I used to look at my brother's playboys. I started to worry and think that I was gay. I was always attracted to other girls, and obviously their bodies, and I thought they were beautiful. When I was in about 9th grade, I just basically figured I was bisexual or at least bicurious. I always thought about other girls, fantasized about them, and when it came to porn I ALWAYS watched girl/girl and that was that. Anyways, I never did anything with a girl and I never actually liked a girl as to want to be in a relationship with one, but I was fantasizing about them for forever. When I met my boyfriend last year, I told him all about it. He was upset, and a lot of people might think its weird because most guys would love to see their girlfriend with another girl, he's not like that. He thinks its wrong--point blank period. I would never want to have a 3some with him because I'm an extremely jealous person. I don't have the desire to be with a woman anymore, but sometimes (like when i'm watching porn--thats the only time) I think about it. Thats as far as it will ever go.

I'm basically a lot like this.
When I was younger, I was always more into girl/girl porn than girl/guy porn although I liked that too. I wondered if I was bi, because I knew that I liked guys too.
I've never been in any kind of romantic or physical relationship with a woman, and I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend now, so I'm not planning on ever being with a woman, which is okay with me. And I don't watch porn anymore, so I don't usually think about girls anymore.
I'm the same way - would never have a 3some because I'm REALLY jealous! Hahah.

 

[benzito_714]

***embarrassing*** about every three months or so i have a dream that i am having a threesome with my husband and another woman who always seem to dominate me. what the ... i tell my husband each and every time and he just laughs. i'm trying not to read too into it but it happens often.

 

[jildo]

I've been with two girls, and three guys total. Long-term relationship sort of girl. I knew I'd never want to date a woman (face it ladies, we're crazy

) but I love curves, our softness. We're hot! My best friend and I have joke that we're married because on and off during the years, we've had a physical relationship. My exes were totally game for it, they'd be like, "YES YES!!" and then later on, end up friggin' crying because "it's just like....is it better?" "No, honey, it's different. Different doesn't mean better, it means different."

...loads of arguments. My bf now is amazing, and he knows I about my attraction to girls (I'm not bi-sexual. I won't date women, there's no romantic affiliation...I just like boobs?), but he's honestly not okay with it. His objection hasn't bothered me in the least, surprisingly.

 

[chocolategoddes]

I'm actually not surprised that girls are a lot more open with their "attractions" to other females; especially compared to hetero guys.
As women, we focus a lot more on sensuality and let's face it, females are very sensual, sexy, and seductive.
I can look at a girl and say to myself, " Wow, she's so beautiful. Her legs are gorgeous. Her breasts are almost perfect!" She might even turn me on a bit. But at the end of the day, I know I'd rather go for a man.
When I see a really hot guy I feel completely different than I do when I see a hot girl. I might get flustered, feel butterflies in my stomach, or get extremely giddy with a dude, while a pretty girl just makes me look for a really long time and I just admire her beauty like it's a work of art. Do you get what I mean?

A lot of people actually think I'm a lesbian because I've always been able to be open and joke about things guys would, like,
" Dude, look at her tits!!!" and yeah, I've seen a bit of girl/girl porn (which is marketed toward straight men, not lesbians) and it's alright. I've also watched straight porns and gay porns (yup, all dudes. My friends think it's gross but it's actually not that bad) and I think getting turned on by those things just means you are a sexual being, not a homosexual, bisexual, heterosexual, pansexual, or whatever.
I know I'm only 16, but I'm secure with my sexuality and quite open about it. I could write on sexuality for days because it really interests me. When I think or fantasize about a woman, I just know that I'm a normal, functioning person.
I don't believe anyone is 100% gay/straight, anyways!!

(I've got big boobs (32G), too, but I seem to be fascinated by other girls with large boobs. Heh!)

 

[OfficerJenny]

Kinda different take on this but

I'm a gay guy, but like Chocolategoddes, I don't beleive anyone is 100% gay or 100% straight.

I've never thought about girls sexually, but that doesnt mean I never will. The chances are just very slim. Female bodies just gross me out ;-;

 

[HeavenLeiBlu]

I've done more than just thought about another woman, LOL. Ultimately, I prefer men, though. I can't deal with another woman in a romantic relationship for long. I see why men think we're crazy sometimes.

 

[User35]

I agree heaven^^^. Ive been with a few girls ( purely physical, no relationships idk why) and honestly its ..very nice lol. My husband doesnt like to hear about it but I still get turned on by girls, and oh I'll always have my memories haha! I dont think Im bi..just horny/greedy. And thats fine by me, I dont mind exploring my sexuality and trying new things that interest me .

 

[X_cinderella_X]

Ive always been really into looking at girls and appreciating them. My boyfriend loves that I can spot a great pair of boobs and point them out to him.
A lesbian experience was something that I used to be so keen, and thought about it all the time. Ive had an experience now- and I think its out of my system. Sometimes things are better in a fantasy. I wouldnt rule it out completely, but I wouldnt seek another out right now at the same time.

 

[caffn8me]

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Originally Posted by glam8babe i know what you mean like all the airbrushing and stuff but they are making everything more natural now. silicone boobs are OUT and so is other noticable surgery, and not just playboy but other magazines are banning girls with fake boobs because theres so many of them and they think we look better natural

I think so few breast augmentation results look at all natural yet people rave about them. I don't like any surgical result that doesn't look natural. Some people look so "done" its tragic.

 

[caffn8me]

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Originally Posted by Shimmer If I have to hide it, it's cheating. Women aren't cheating. Men, men are cheating.

Men have two heads and most only have enough blood to run one at a time

 

[Septemba]

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Originally Posted by OfficerJenny I don't beleive anyone is 100% gay or 100% straight.

I feel like this too, and to me it's more about the person than the gender.

 

[caffn8me]

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Originally Posted by OfficerJenny I don't beleive anyone is 100% gay or 100% straight.

Very true. It's a continuous spectrum with everyone somewhere along.

Where do I fit in? Well, consider a graph that has an axis from 100% gay to straight. Now add another axis at 90° that goes from zero sexual desire to raging nymphomaniac. Those two axes are completely independent. You will get a scatter graph if you plot lots of results rather than a nice line. I think it's safe to say you can plot everyone somewhere on that graph.

I will be at the bottom of the "sexual desire" scale (see Glad to be asexual. I have genuinely never been sexually atracted to anyone in my life, whether male or female.

That doesn't mean I can't fit somewhere on the 100% gay to 100% straight scale (which is of course pretty much the same as likes males 100% of the time to likes females 100% of the time) .

I don't find men aesthetically attractive (even though I can look at some and say that they are good looking). They're not attractive to me.

I can look at some women though and say that I am attracted to them but in a totally non sexual way. I'm not ashamed of sexual attraction but it's just never actually happened and I don't believe it will. I have no desire to have sex with anyone.

I've been hit on my some guys who are very good looking (but I'm not attracted to them) and some gorgeous women (who I am attracted to but not at all sexually). In fact, only a couple of weeks back an absolutely stunning girl I used to work with told me she wanted to take me to bed to teach me all about sex. Am I attracted to her? Hell, yes. Do I have any interest in having sex with her (or anyone else)? No.

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Originally Posted by Kuuipo I'm a lesbian (always been one). I'm not really turned on by breasts or bodies so much as brains. Smart,funny,strong women-especially older,self actualized women totally do it for me.

I am so totally there too. I am attracted to brains and intelligence as well as beauty. I like someone who is extremely bright rather than than someone who has big breasts. I like a great sense of humour rather than genitalia (male or female). I do like some physical attributes too. I hate anorexic or obese. I like curves at a healthy weight. I love a nice smile, I am a sucker for an amazing pair of eyes.

If I ever had a relationship with a partner it would be with a girl but it would be a soulmate - a purely platonic relationship.

I guess I'm odd, but I am 100% confortable with my sexuality and my level of sexual desire. I wouldn't change any of it.

 

[M.A.C. head.]

I think about them all the time.

I prefer women over men, but my husband is my best friend and always has been, so I chose not to limit myself and miss out on a great love.

I still think about women, fantasize, look at them LOL He doesn't care.

 

[jildo]

I only ever thought about girls while I was sleeping with them I'm not gay, but women are beautiful, and well, there's always room for jello.

(Sorry. Had to say it.)

 

[chocolategoddes]

Just to throw this out there: I completely disagree with the Kinsey scale.

Why should gay and straight be on opposite ends of the spectrum?

Sexuality is way WAY WAY too fluid and complex to just place someone of a scale to determine
"how gay" they are.

 

[IDontKnowMomo]

I'm in the minority here, haha. I've never been sexually attracted to any woman ever. I obviously think women are attractive, but not sexually. I also think that small breasts are more attractive than larger ones, which also seems to be a minoritys' preference haha. I think women with androdgynous features are gorgeous

I've never liked a girl either, but if it ever happened I'd probably try to persue her, just like with any guy. So I guess I'm open to the idea of being with a woman, I just really don't think it will ever happen haha. I'm pretty sure I'd have to like a girl first before I could be sexually attracted to her.

 

[Shadowy Lady]

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Originally Posted by IDontKnowMomo I'm in the minority here, haha. I've never been sexually attracted to any woman ever. I obviously think women are attractive, but not sexually.

Dude, you are so not the only one. I have never been attracted (sexually) to a woman either. Though after reading this thread I thought maybe there is something wrong with me as it looks like everyone else loves women...I do find alot of women attractive but never wanted to sleep with one or even kiss one...men, now that's a different story

I have noticed that the women I think are beautiful have similar features to myself (I"m so vein). As in, they're tall, slim, brunettes, have some curves and are medium plus skin tone (pretty much someone like me...lol). Not a big fan of athletic bod or super skinny women...