How fast does your man...ahem..finish?

[CantAffordMAC]

lol he doesn't drink (i don't either). I used to though, and had drunk sex before..

I can see how people would say that it was better. it feels more wild.

 

[Raerae]

Drunk sex is just a nice excuse for bad hookups when your not in a relationship lol...

 

[V15U4L_3RR0R]

Depends what kind of mood we're in really. Sometimes we want to play a bit and go for kink in which case a couple of hours. Sometimes we want to make slow love and other times we just want a good fuck which can last like 20 minutes. But I'd say we average out between 40mins - 1hr.

 

[Miss Pumpkin]

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Originally Posted by NutMeg I guess I'm really lucky... The shortest amount of time we'll ever spend having sex is half an hour. The most... Oh gosh, I don't even know. But we can go for hours and hours without him coming if he doesn't want to.

What she said

 

[*Stargazer*]

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Originally Posted by aziajs I couldn't do it for hours. I'm just not into it. I couldn't even imagine. It gets to a point after about 20 minutes or so when I get distracted and sore and I am ready for him to get done. I remember I was on top one time. I was soooooooooooo tired. That shit was like a work out. Geez. It's the same thing with oral sex, giving or receiving. 20 minutes either my vagina gets sore or my mouth and I'm over it.

I am the exact same way. I can only do it for hours when the hours doesn't involve hours of actual penetration LOL

 

[Ms.Amaranthine]

Want to know something sad? I lost my virginity three years ago and until last year, I had no idea sex ever lasted more than a few minutes. I mean, I've seen and heard other women say it did and heard men brag.. but I thought it was a farce! It took somebody different to make me realize that it can last. One night, after half an hour, he apologized for being so "quick", which made me giggle on the inside.

I think that if sex lasted too long, I'd get bored. If it's really passionate and intense for ten minutes, I'd take that over an hour of the opposite. I'm not really one for "making love" or slow, gentle la-dee-dah.. so..

 

[kimmy]

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Originally Posted by Ms.Amaranthine I think that if sex lasted too long, I'd get bored. If it's really passionate and intense for ten minutes, I'd take that over an hour of the opposite. I'm not really one for "making love" or slow, gentle la-dee-dah.. so..

same here. i have a really short attention span, so too long in the sack isn't my game. usually we'd (my ex and me) only go for twenty minutes max, then i'd go eat and he'd rest up for when i finished my food so we could go again. i think the longest was forty five minutes, i wasn't a fan because i got bored and hungry half way through.

 

[tomodachi_usagi]

the longest me and my guy went nonstop was no joke 6 hours. hes in the navy and it was the day before he left for bootcamp and i had to work, on average when i see him we go for like 2-3 hours. we're long distance till january when i move in with him.

 

[Hilly]

I get some serious ADD and need to be done 10-15 (max!) lol.

It's good tho. I go in, get what I want, service my man, and then it's snack time (chocolate anyone?)

 

[tomodachi_usagi]

lol, hand me a snickers...

 

[karen diggins]

Before My husband and I got married it took him forever to cum. But after we got married and he was getting all the time. He could last about 30 min. And fours years and one child later he still lasts about 30 min.l

 

[a914butterfly]

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Originally Posted by MissChievous Damn, why go to the bathroom? Hand your man that vibrator and tell him to get you off with it! No rolling over and falling asleep til you're done as well.

my hubby is very old fashioned and thinks vibrators and other various toys are "disgusting". He has alot of hang-ups. Maybe he is just jelous of it?!?!

 

[CantAffordMAC]

my boyfriend just told me tonight that me using my vibrator and not telling him is like cheating on him. he's weird...he feels jealous at times, but other times he'll use it on me or watch me use it on myself.

 

[SparklingWaves]

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Originally Posted by Hilly It's good tho. I go in, get what I want, service my man, and then it's snack time (chocolate anyone?)

Yes, I will have a piece of candy. I can't refuse chocolate. Thank you.

 

[NutMeg]

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Originally Posted by CantAffordMAC my boyfriend just told me tonight that me using my vibrator and not telling him is like cheating on him. he's weird...he feels jealous at times, but other times he'll use it on me or watch me use it on myself.

No offense, but he doesn't own your body. It's yours, and you get to do whatever you want with it. If you chose to have sex with him, to spend your time with him, to be with him at all, that's a gift you are giving to him. He does not own you, or have any rights to you that you do not chose to give.

Sorry for the rant, but this is one those topics that just flat out pisses me off. How arrogant can you get? And I don't mean to go after your boyfriend here, but it's a very arrogant and self centered way to look at things.

 

[adela88]

ive been with a guy who lasted 2 miniutes and around 40 seconds.
(i know this beucase there was music on at the time.literally when the song finished; he did)

 

[tomodachi_usagi]

lol damn that sux

 

[QTAllStarGurl]

at the speed of lightning!!!...lmao just joshin yah i dont even have a boyfriend!!

 

[eulchen]

my boyfriend can and will suppress "finishing" and continue, so basically, its as long until i am hurting. "quickies" last about 15 minutes, normal sex anywhere from half an hour to an hour.

(well, that, plus any foreplay or aftercuddling)

 

[Leopardskinny]

Well my ex could last really about 30 mins which was fine as I wasn't really into going much longer than that! I find after about 30 mins I hurt anyway! Started seeing a new man but haven't done the deed yet..