How fast does your man...ahem..finish?

[user46]

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Originally Posted by CantAffordMAC So. How long does it take for your man to come? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, and after a year, our sex life changed. Its still pretty good, but he comes really fast now. Some nights we'll only have sex for 5 minutes or less. The longest we go now is maybe, 15-20 minutes (any longer than that and I'm hurtin, cuz I'm not used to it going so long anymore). He says he comes quick because we have to sneak around to do it (since I live at home and all). But if thats the case, then it wouldn't have just happened out of the blue, you know? because we've been sneaking around our whole relationship. It doesn't really matter to me, because I don't come from having sex. Its still enjoyable, it is just very short. He's usually more worried about it than I am, lol, although it does irritate me. Anyways, how bout you guys?

THAT DESCRIBES ME AND MY MAN COMPLETELY! ESPECIALLY THE "CUZ WE HAVE TO SNEAK AROUND TO DO IT". BULLSHITTTT LOL

 

[CantAffordMAC]

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Originally Posted by MACpro__* THAT DESCRIBES ME AND MY MAN COMPLETELY! ESPECIALLY THE "CUZ WE HAVE TO SNEAK AROUND TO DO IT". BULLSHITTTT LOL

LOL haha seriously. This topic is old...i read that post and I was thinking..."We actually went 15 minutes?!?"

We haven't gone 15 mins. since I posted this LOL, seriously. he has been lasting 5 mins or less. the last time was like 10 mins. the only reason it was that long was because he has been exercising a lot (i think)

I'm buying a rabbit vibrator. i really am

 

[Holly]

My boyfriend likes to take his time, and give me several orgasms before he cums. He usually lasts 1-3hours, I love it! We're both really good about communicating what we like, etc.

 

[xoxprincessx0x]

my boyfriend knows how to control himself from coming and he WONT do it until I do. It's great!

 

[jazza]

about 15-20 minutes. foreplay and post-sex hugs not included.
30-40mins is long and unusual.

gimme a break, at least a little one, and i can go several times, but i'd never want one long session. i'd find it drawn out and boring. i just want bang bang bang!

 

[CantAffordMAC]

lol. I am not shy to ask for what I want...I am very open and vocal. he never seemed to understand 3 simple words:

Fuck me harder! he just didn't realize how rough i wanted things I guess.

 

[user46]

Honestly. With the way my sex life is now, I'd rather maturbate. No joke.

Usually it's me trying to get him hard. Then i'm just like "alright, can we have sex." It's like he doesn't like seduction anymore and shit. It's like we schedule when we will have sex. Ugh. And then when we do it, I feel like he's just doing it and not really .. idk .. feelin it. I guess I just ask for too much. But when i want pleasure, I want the WHOLE experience to be pleasureful.

 

[S.S.BlackOrchid]

My last man (I called him marathon man) would just keep going and going. It got frustrating. It feels good for a while, but I eventually want to come (and want him to also). After an hour and a half of that, it just got repetitive and I just wanted him to finish and get off of me.

 

[PolyphonicLove]

Hm, my first time, we went at it about 3 times for about 30 minutes each. Usually that's how long it'll last, but beau kinda can't control himself, and the shortest has been 5-10 minutes. He is ever vigilant, though; and REFUSES to let me go unnoticed. He'll feel like a failure if I'm not satisfied [and will be annoyed if I'm all over him when he tries to take a nap], so he'll either perform oral or just finger me until I can't speak.

He's a good man...

 

[ArsenicKiss]

Really, it depends on the guy, and what the situation was.. But..

My one ex, who was kind of my first and I've been hooking up with on and off for the five years since (read that as: He was my most recent fuck as well), we could go anywhere from five minutes, to three hours. If we go fast, it's usually quick, hard and dirty. But, We're both pretty into that, so it's always good. I don't really have a hard time coming from intercourse, so we've only ever had what I wouldn't consider "good" sex once.

 

[lovesicles]

i haven't had sex yet.
but i have a couple questions for when i do.
what kind of condom is best?
anddddd, should i get a lubricated condom or non.
but we'll probably use lube the first couple times.
is it possible to put lube on top of a lub. condom?
or will it cause the con. to break?

 

[anmackey85]

Ok so I've had sex 2 times with 2 different guys and each time I wasn't really into it so I didn't enjoy it, plus the fact that it lasted a nanosecond. At first I thought my lack of orgasm was my fault and that I was frigid. But with the last guy we had really intense makeout sessions wear I was turned on and ready to do it but the opportunity wasn't there, so I figure it was just that I was nervous or something. I did take the "Samantha Jones" approach and not have sex with either guy again, lol. But I'm a little nuts

 

[miszjenny]

my bf lasts for 2 to 3 hours sometimes longer hehehe.... i thought it was kinda weird... and i was thinking if he wasn't that attracted to me thats why he couldn't come a little faster than that hehe.

 

[M.A.C. head.]

We're really in tune with each other, so if we're both in for a quickie then it can be like 5 minutes. Sometimes we like to draw it out and do it all night long. It really depends on what we're in the mood for.

 

[bebs]

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Originally Posted by PolyphonicLove He'll feel like a failure if I'm not satisfied [and will be annoyed if I'm all over him when he tries to take a nap], so he'll either perform oral or just finger me until I can't speak. He's a good man...

lmao that is great... mine is the same way with the when he's slightly tired thing. aren't they like just the greatest and.. look our for the others pleasure instead of our own most of the time

.. mine.. I guess in some ways I'm lucky and out of luck, he doesn't seem to know the word "quickie" its normally about 45 minutes or so.. about an hour or two if you include foreplay. it just gets bad when you look at the time and its like 7pm and you haven't gotten out of bed yet that day

 

[HeavenLeiBlu]

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Originally Posted by M.A.C. head. We're really in tune with each other, so if we're both in for a quickie then it can be like 5 minutes. Sometimes we like to draw it out and do it all night long. It really depends on what we're in the mood for.

Ditto.

 

[stacylynne]

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Originally Posted by MissChievous As for the girls who posted "they can't come during sex", you shouldn't settle with that! I know it's harder for women to orgasm during intercourse, but there are ways to get an orgasm through other methods like foreplay, using toys, trying out different positions, thrusting methods... I wouldn't give up on trying to figure out how to have an orgasm with your partner, seriously, having a simultaneous orgasm or at least somewhat together is pretty darn amazing. But it takes a lot of trial and error (but who's complaining) to figure out what it is that can get you off. Don't be afraid to speak out to your partner that you want to change things around when you have sex, if it's just some 5 min ordeal and you're like, "damn I can't wait til he's finished since I'm not really enjoying this anyway", you should seriously considering trying something new.

Agreed. Lots of foreplay & they're are always ways to have an orgasm. I don't have an orgasm from sex either. But us ladies know their are different ways how our men can please us besides intercourse

 

[boudoirblonde]

Urgh. I've had two guys that went like "bleeep" and then finished, that REALLY sucked. Oh, and btw, I let them know, and they didnt really care! good riddance! lol

But with my bf now it can be anywhere from 10min to 1hr. Sometimes I'll be in a rush to get to school so we'll do it really quick, but other times its really slow and passionate so that lasts a lot longer. *sigh* Im soo glad I met my bf

I didnt KNOW good sex before, LOL

 

[SkylarV217]

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Originally Posted by MissChievous As for the girls who posted "they can't come during sex", you shouldn't settle with that! I know it's harder for women to orgasm during intercourse, but there are ways to get an orgasm through other methods like foreplay, using toys, trying out different positions, thrusting methods... I wouldn't give up on trying to figure out how to have an orgasm with your partner, seriously, having a simultaneous orgasm or at least somewhat together is pretty darn amazing. But it takes a lot of trial and error (but who's complaining) to figure out what it is that can get you off. Don't be afraid to speak out to your partner that you want to change things around when you have sex, if it's just some 5 min ordeal and you're like, "damn I can't wait til he's finished since I'm not really enjoying this anyway", you should seriously considering trying something new.

I comp;ete;y agree. And the sad part of most women not having the big O is that they don't know their own body well enough . Take time to get to know yourself, let your man know and I promise if he's a good one he will work like hell to please you. I can have 3 or 4 by the time my guy has one. And he can feel it every time, because when you really have a good one your vaginal walls contract. SO it helps him to get there too =)

 

[MissChriss]

I think a lot of times it depends on how often a guy masterbates too that determines how long it takes for him to nut. Women would be surprised. Its such a freaking issue now with the internet porn that theres a lot of women complaining online that their man rather do the computer than them.

My ex as far as I knew did not masterbate at all and we always had to go 2 rounds because he came really quick at first like within 5 minutes. The second round was all about me and he could go forever.

My boyfriend now is a serial masterbater. I used to hate it because he would go forever and ever and it made me feel like damn I just wasn't doing it for him but he has slowed down with it and our sex life is great.

I'm always soo into that I don't have time to look at the clock so I don't know how long we last. He always holds off until I get mine. Such a fucking gentleman but the few times that he doesn't he knows to head south for oral so I can get mine.

I don't like having sex for hours and hours either. After I get mine I am like bruh you better not be too far behind me lol.