Actually, I like to use MAC's Vanilla e/s all over the lid after I put on my UDPP to brighten my lids. I think setting the base with a powder shadow will allow the NARS shadows to blend a bit easier. The powder base will allow the pigments to "move around" easier.
Same goes with applying a very pigmented blush. If you apply a bit more loose powder on your cheeks...and then apply the blush, the blush blends out much easier.
Which palette and duo do you have L1LMAMAJ?
I realize that when eyeshadows look chalky, it is probably not compatible with my skin tone... and suit people with fairer skin. NARS caters to very fair skinned ladies too...and who may not always want dark looks.
I know the All About Eve duo, which a lot of people rave about, does nothing for me, but the Alhambra duo which is similar but is more pigmented works better on me.
Sorry I keep going on and on. I am definitely not offended by this thread, just wanted to provide some insight because if I was posting in the MAC forum about how I dislike MAC, I would probably get some tips from the MAC lovers too...because they want to be helpful with something they love and are more familiar with....or be told to shut up and go back to the NARS forum haha. It's definitely not productive to tell you not to express your discontent...
Ok, I am done blabbing