Porn

[ratmist]

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Originally Posted by MissChievous I'm surprised at this poll though, I honestly never thought so many women watched porn. You'd think the porn industry would take note and cater more to a female clientel, I think it's a market that's mainly ignored (just like girl gamers).

There is actually some market for women-targeted porn. The problem seems to be that male porn stars want to be paid a lot more to do women-targeted than the market currently gives for male-targeted porn. For example, getting a hot male guy to just strip for the camera and get himself off? Takes a lot of money to get that to happen, and anyway, if a lady wants to see that, she can go to the gay porn and find that. The websites I know that are "for women" tend to be grouped into "for women and couples" - which may not be exactly what I want, because that may imply heterosexual couples.

The best ones for actual women-view porn are:

Female POV (It shows sex from the women's point of view.)
For the Girls (It's for hetero women.)
Muscle Adonis (lol - it's just gawking at 'hot' men)

 

[Raerae]

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Originally Posted by ratmist For example, getting a hot male guy to just strip for the camera and get himself off?

That just doesn't sound that exciting to me...

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Takes a lot of money to get that to happen, and anyway, if a lady wants to see that, she can go to the gay porn and find that.

Gay Porn is just i dunno. For me, that's more of a turn off, than a turn on. I think part of the turn on in porn is imagining yourself in the position of one of the people involved in it. So when it comes to gay porn, there is no one for me to identify with. I never really found 2 guys kissing as attractive anyways.

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The best ones for actual women-view porn are: Female POV (It shows sex from the women's point of view.)

Is this like where it would be like not showing her face, and just her body? Like looking down her stomache while a guy (who you can see completely, instead of never (or rarely) showing his face) does his thing?

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For the Girls (It's for hetero women.) Muscle Adonis (lol - it's just gawking at 'hot' men)

Whats diff about these than just everyday porn?

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~XXXPLICIT~

lol... couldn't resist... TMI incumming! (lol again)

For me, when I do watch porn, it typically involves "naughty" stuff that I probably wouldn't ever have the nerve to engage in. I don't like any of the gross stuff, since that's just... GROSS! LOL! But things like a 3-somes are pretty hot. Or like sex with guys who are not white (especially hot black men heh) since while I have dated black men in the past, the vast majority of my relationships have been with white guys. But there are some fine black men out there lol!~

The idea of "female porn" being some romantic porn with lots of forplay just doesn't do it for me, at all. I can get that any day of the week. So if it's just vanilla sex, especially if it doesn't have a climax and just fades away, I'm not really into it. Or when the woman is really dominant in the scenes. I'm very submissive in bed, so guys that dont know how to take control really turn me off. So the idea of being all in control in bed doesn't work well with me.

But thats the great thing about porn right? It's like baskin robbins and comes in 31 flavors. So if ever your in the mood, you can always find what does it for you.

Granted, when I'm in a relationship, I rarely feel the desire to watch it. But every now and again (or when Im single and turned on lol) it hits the spot.

 

[Raerae]

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Originally Posted by SingFrAbsoltion Heh I watch it. It taught me so much! haha

Yah it's always good for this too. Nothing like getting ideas on how to surprise him, or another way to give a BJ LOL!

 

[ratmist]

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Originally Posted by Raerae That just doesn't sound that exciting to me...

Yeah, I know. Me neither. But some ladies like it, I guess? (??)

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Originally Posted by Raerae Gay Porn is just i dunno. For me, that's more of a turn off, than a turn on. I think part of the turn on in porn is imagining yourself in the position of one of the people involved in it. So when it comes to gay porn, there is no one for me to identify with. I never really found 2 guys kissing as attractive anyways.

Totally with you on that. Gay porn doesn't do it for me, and neither does slash, but for some girls, it really does. The vast majority of the slash-writers out there are women - and it mystifies me as to why.

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Originally Posted by Raerae Is this like where it would be like not showing her face, and just her body? Like looking down her stomache while a guy (who you can see completely, instead of never (or rarely) showing his face) does his thing?

I guess so - from the front page of the site, it looks like that's the kind of 'flavour' they offer. It doesn't do it for me, but I thought it was an interesting idea, particularly since a lot of the academic chatter about pornography centers on point of view of the camera.

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Originally Posted by Raerae Whats diff about these than just everyday porn?

No idea. But the funny thing is that when I looked up the 'female porn' sites, there were categories to click in the normal pornography sites. The 'For women' category is the shortest category, obviously, and I think this third one was the equivalent of scraping the bottom of the sticky cumbarrel. Er.

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Originally Posted by Raerae ~XXXPLICIT~ lol... couldn't resist... TMI incumming! (lol again) For me, when I do watch porn, it typically involves "naughty" stuff that I probably wouldn't ever have the nerve to engage in. I don't like any of the gross stuff, since that's just... GROSS! LOL! But things like a 3-somes are pretty hot. Or like sex with guys who are not white (especially hot black men heh) since while I have dated black men in the past, the vast majority of my relationships have been with white guys. But there are some fine black men out there lol!~ The idea of "female porn" being some romantic porn with lots of forplay just doesn't do it for me, at all. I can get that any day of the week. So if it's just vanilla sex, especially if it doesn't have a climax and just fades away, I'm not really into it. Or when the woman is really dominant in the scenes. I'm very submissive in bed, so guys that dont know how to take control really turn me off. So the idea of being all in control in bed doesn't work well with me. But thats the great thing about porn right? It's like baskin robbins and comes in 31 flavors. So if ever your in the mood, you can always find what does it for you. Granted, when I'm in a relationship, I rarely feel the desire to watch it. But every now and again (or when Im single and turned on lol) it hits the spot.

I'm pretty varied. Oddly, what I really like is any type of porn (except the bizarro sicko stuff) that involves a woman who is *really* enjoying herself. I guess rather than imagining myself in the room, I imagine myself as 'her', so if she's not having a good time, or if she's just servicing some guy, I'm not into it. If the woman in the porn isn't convincing me she's getting off, then I'm not into it. That means there's very little visual porn that works for me, in reality, unless it's comixxx (which I adore), anime (which sometimes works and sometimes is just completely messed up and horrible), or the written word.

 

[Raerae]

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Originally Posted by ratmist I guess rather than imagining myself in the room, I imagine myself as 'her', so if she's not having a good time, or if she's just servicing some guy, I'm not into it.

Heh yeh I do the thats me thing too.

Aside - I dont mind if she's like going down on him or whatever, as long as she's fine with doing it. It's when it looks like she's not enjoying doing it, and is really getting used thats a turn off. But giving head can be a lot of fun lol.

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If the woman in the porn isn't convincing me she's getting off, then I'm not into it. That means there's very little visual porn that works for me, in reality, unless it's comixxx (which I adore), anime (which sometimes works and sometimes is just completely messed up and horrible), or the written word.

Yeh, a lot of it is really just about the "money shot."

I think to me, thats what "porn for women" would consist of. It could be JUST like the current porn thats out there, but focus more on her orgasm, rather than his (not sure if I've ever seen a woman orgasm on camera really). Or having them climax at the same time. Because lets face it, getting your O, isn't as easy as it is for him to get his. I know a lot of that has to do with the fact that knowing when she has an orgasm, isn't as easy as seeing him cum. But I think I could get into it a lot more if she was getting off, rather than just, her going at it until he needs to go, and then THE END. Since you know she's probably not even close to her orgasm.

 

[SpareMyHeart]

I watch some "pornos" for comedic value (thoes REAL amateur ones with the bad music in the background or thoes "behind the scenes" based in Quebec with thoes french girls and their thick accents trying to dirty talk in english) *sry thats the best explanation I can give you!*



But im not going to deny, when im alone and in the mood there's nothing like a good movie to help with the "urges"

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There's nothing I haven't seen, people might see it as being perverted I see it as being curious

 

[user79]

The porn that turns me on is the one where the woman is actually enjoying it, not faking it and moaning really annoyingly. Actually, the fake moaning REALLY annoys me. It's just so fake and you know she's just doing it for the money. But in the movies where the woman is actually having a REAL orgasm (and yes you can tell), I think it's hot. I watch some girl on girl stuff too because they often seem to have a better time than with men. Gay male porn turns me off though.

 

[Pascal]

Jenna Jameson is my favorite of all time, she's like a real life Barbie Doll, only naughty.

 

[aziajs]

I like, no love, Tory Lane. She is so hot to me. I also like Lanny Barbie.

 

[Beauty Mark]

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Originally Posted by MissChievous Oh come on, no one watches porn for comedic value. That's like saying you buy a dildo for decorating your home with it. It's ok to admit it ya know.

No, I honestly find it hilarious. The bad acting, the cliches... Lots of comedic value.

 

[astronaut]

I am a very socially conservative person and I absolutely despise any type of porn. I think it's disgusting to look at other people get it on. yuck

 

[spectrolite]

YaY for Hentai!!!

 

[ratmist]

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Originally Posted by MissChievous The porn that turns me on is the one where the woman is actually enjoying it, not faking it and moaning really annoyingly. Actually, the fake moaning REALLY annoys me. It's just so fake and you know she's just doing it for the money. But in the movies where the woman is actually having a REAL orgasm (and yes you can tell), I think it's hot. I watch some girl on girl stuff too because they often seem to have a better time than with men. Gay male porn turns me off though.

Ditto. Completely.

 

[ratmist]

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Originally Posted by Raerae I think to me, thats what "porn for women" would consist of. It could be JUST like the current porn thats out there, but focus more on her orgasm, rather than his (not sure if I've ever seen a woman orgasm on camera really). Or having them climax at the same time. Because lets face it, getting your O, isn't as easy as it is for him to get his. I know a lot of that has to do with the fact that knowing when she has an orgasm, isn't as easy as seeing him cum. But I think I could get into it a lot more if she was getting off, rather than just, her going at it until he needs to go, and then THE END. Since you know she's probably not even close to her orgasm.

Well... there *are* two types of sites out there for those kinds of flavours.... there's the (ahem) female ejaculation sites (ahem), and Sapphic Erotica - which may be my favourite porn site. However, that being said, I do worry that some of the girls on Sapphic Erotica are way too young, and that turns me off quicker than anything. It's hardcore lesbian, but, mostly sweet. No fake long nails (I mean really, I don't want those near my delicate bits!), no stripper breasts (they don't do it for me - sorry), no fake moans, etc. I don't think the site is US based, but I could be wrong. I think it's eastern European.

 

[Raerae]

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Originally Posted by MissChievous I'm surprised at this poll though, I honestly never thought so many women watched porn. You'd think the porn industry would take note and cater more to a female clientel, I think it's a market that's mainly ignored (just like girl gamers).

Thats just cuz we don't really talk about it. I'll talk with my friends about sex and the like, but saying I enjoy some types of pornography is well I dunno, embarassing?

I know the guys I've known talk about it pretty openly, and it's not really embarassing for them to say they were looking at porn. But I dunno, I'd never really say that to people I knew personally. It's not even like I watch it all that often. But even then, it's just one of those still kinda "taboo" things. Girls aren't supposed to watch porn. Just like we dont masterbate eigther right? =p I dont mind talking about it on these forums, because it's still basically private for me. Since no one I know, posts on Specktra, and if they do read it, they don't know that RaeRae is one of their friends. Hell for all I know I could be having intense discussions with my BFF's lol.

It was ok to flip through Play Boy when my guy roomate had the subscription, because it was just "out" on the coffee table. But I would never want my name on the magazine address label. And the girls in it are pretty, and have cute clothes/lingerie, and it has some fun reads. I think there are a lot of "guilty pleasures" in life, and porn (especially now that it's on the net and so easy to get) is just one of them.

 

[Raerae]

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Originally Posted by ratmist there's the (ahem) female ejaculation sites (ahem),

Heh, I always wonder if this is faked.

 

[GreekChick]

I doubt squirting is faked (Oh come on people, just say the word!)

 

[mzreyes]

OMG me and my bf were just talking about the whole squirting thing! lol.. I always wondered if that was fake. Looks like pee?? How do they do that?!!

 

[Shimmer]

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Originally Posted by mzreyes OMG me and my bf were just talking about the whole squirting thing! lol.. I always wondered if that was fake. Looks like pee?? How do they do that?!!

God Bless the Innernetz

 

[MiCHiE]

The whole 'skeeting' thng, with women? I dunno. I saw a clip of a girl do it and she looked like she was having a damn fit and pissing--uncontrollably. If I cum, I cum.....I don't wanna wet your walls (literally) to let you know you've pleased me.