Queefs...

[kaliraksha]

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Originally Posted by Tashona Heléna hands at the end of the day whether we agree or not. I think most of us just got worried because a. we're mothers. b. we've been there or c. both! I've never been embarrassed about queefs (I'm so goofy anyway the weirdest people that I know say I'm weirder than them so I need to stop thinking everyone else is weird like me) but I've sympathized with other people who have been embarrassed during sex. I've been pissed off during sex, and for a moment I did feel bad about getting my hood pierced because of the mixed reactions from guys. But I stepped back and was like you know what, this is my body, and I"m rockin it. Just step back and rock it girl you'll be fine lol.

Totally agree here. I've been there too about other things... and it's basically a if-I-knew-then-what-I-know-now I wouldn't even worry about it.

 

[Boasorte]

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Originally Posted by kaliraksha I'm simply answering from my perspective but I think as you get older you don't worry about things like queefing in front of your lover. If he is mature enough, you're confident enough, and you are in a comfortable, accepting relationship then the queefing shouldn't in any way be a problem. Just sometimes that stuff comes with age and time.

I kind of agree, but maturity doens't HAVE to come with age you know? I'm 20 now and there are still a couple of things that I am not to sure about doing when it comes to sex ( Of which I won't mention because I'm not trying to get attacked on here

)Does that mean I'm not ready to have sex?

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Originally Posted by banana1234 age time and experience this is her first sexual relationship or does everyone forget what it was like for them? that is why she is asking for advice i'm pretty sure if she was 20 and this was her first sexual partner she'd still be pretty embarassed

Word, son, I Agree

 

[Elle_P]

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Originally Posted by chocolategoddes lol. The OP is probably like Ummm... I just wanted to know about... queefing. :/ The truth: you speak it.

hahaha. thats probably what i looked like when it happened to me the first couple of times. it can be just as akward when you have a new bf/partner. its just a normal part of sex...you'll eventually get over it.

 

[jenee.sum]

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Originally Posted by FiestyFemme ...I find farting funny, too! Just laugh it off... it's really not that embarassing. It's just air...

not if it's smelly!

...

actually, you're right. it's still quite funny

i've delivered some STINNNKKERSSS in my life and when it happens in front of my bf, i tell him right away, "DON'T BREATHE!!!!" HAHAHAAHAHAHA and he pulls his top over his face or he leaves the room faster than superman.

i'm sure he doesn't enjoy it but when he does it to me, he doesn't even tell me!!!! and by the time i've realized, it's already too late and i'm dying from the fumes! i cuss for a good minute and then we crack up about how foul it smelt!

burps, farts, queefs...it happens! you have the most fun when you don't take life so seriously.

 

[Shadowy Lady]

To OP - as everyone says, don't worry about it if it happens. It's not just you and in time you'll learn to be comfortable with your bf, it takes time though. Certain position will make queefs more likely to to happen (any kinda deep thrusting, lol)

I think it was inevitable for ppl to talk about your age though. I myself lost my virginity at 16, but I did it not because I was very comfortable with my body or my bf, but because the society makes such a big deal about sex that I thought I'd miss out :/ Or maybe I though I was in love....Now looking back I kinda wish I had waited a lil bit. I'm thinking alot of ppl got into your age discussion for the same reason

 

[MACandie2012]

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Originally Posted by banana1234 age time and experience this is her first sexual relationship or does everyone forget what it was like for them? that is why she is asking for advice i'm pretty sure if she was 20 and this was her first sexual partner she'd still be pretty embarassed

Agreed 100%. I myself nearly lost my virginity at 13. Even at that age, I was mature enough to realize that it wasn't with the right person, and ended up losing my virginity at the age of 17 instead. At the end of the day, age doesn't really matter. Maturity is the number one key, in my opinion. Yeah, I may regret not waiting until now to lose my virginity, but that's how you grow and learn by making your own mistakes, not by someone telling you about theirs. Even at the age of 17 with my first partner, I was embarrassed about certain things. Now since I've grown in that department, everything comes natural and nothing really matters anymore. I wondered the same things when I was thinking about becoming sexually active. There's nothing wrong with wondering, no matter what America thinks. Everyone gets curious every once in a while. At the end of the day, it's your decision about whatever you wanna do.

And oh yeah. Queefing is normal. Especially when it gets really fast (my favorite) he he.

 

[Tashona Helena]

^ You were like me...I came close to losing it at 13 as well but I just couldn't do it. I was like, "Do I really want this now?" Thank goodness it didn't work out cause even at 16 I was like cussing at the guy, "you better not hurt me! you know what you're doing?" I know he was like "wtf?" (cue the picture of the guy above)

It's just hard for us on the other side to imagine how someone who is mature enough to have sex, not to be mature enough to handle a queef you know? It just didn't really add up to me but I kinda understand now when she replied. I just put two and two together the first time it happened...like ok it didn't happen when he was doing this, but it did when he was doing that...lmao.

 

[BeccalovesMAC]

omg chocolate goddess u fucken always make me spit my drank. lol FAMILY MATTERS!! ha haha

 

[Mabelle]

Man, im so glad i waited a bit longer to have sex (it was at 19). I was SO awkward at 16 and would have done it for all the wrong reasons, plus no way near mature enough. the thought makes me nauseous uuuuuugggghh.

Anyway, it happens. My boyfriend only reacts when i make a face.... and i usually do, cause it is a bit embarrassing. your in the moment and suddenly your business sounds like a baritone! Not super sexy. Anyway, my bf thinks its kinda funny, and i suppose it is. I would prefer it not to happen, but i cannot will my vagina to do what i want it to do. if i could, i would be a very happy lady!! Just remember, unless your lady parts sound like theres a demon in there (or a crying baby) i dont think he cares. He's still a teenage boy (this applies to all ages though), and he IS having regular sex. That's all that matters to men!